Confessions from the Dating Pool (There’s Pee in It)

In this episode of Unpolished with Crystal, my friend Bren and I sit down and talk about something most of us have experienced at some point — dating.

And let’s just say… the dating pool isn’t always as clean as people pretend it is.

We share funny dating stories, awkward moments, and the kind of situations that make you question everything in the moment but turn into hilarious stories later.

Also full transparency — this was our first time using our real microphones, and we’re not even completely sure they were turned on at the beginning. So if the audio sounds a little rough at first, we promise it will get better.

But honestly… that’s kind of the point.

Because life isn’t polished… and neither are we.

In this episode, I sit down with Cason and we get real about toxic relationships — the kind that make you do things you can’t believe you once tolerated (or survived). We share the craziest things we’ve ever done while stuck in toxic situations, but with enough distance now to laugh, reflect, and actually learn from it.

It doesn’t stop there — viewers wrote in with their own wild, honest story times, and we read them out loud and react together. Some are funny, some are heartbreaking, and all of them remind us just how messy love can get when boundaries disappear.

If you’ve ever stayed too long, ignored red flags, or look back and think “what was I thinking?” — this one’s for you.

Grief shows up quietly after divorce—in memories, in silence, in the life you imagined but didn’t get to live. This is me unpacking those emotions instead of hiding from them.

Bonus Episode: Unfiltered New Year Conversations

This bonus episode of Unpolished is exactly what it sounds like—raw, unplanned, unedited, and completely off the cuff.

We sat down and just talked. About the New Year. About expectations, goals, and the things we’re ready to leave behind. We laughed (a lot), shared stories from our day, touched on New Year’s Eve traditions, and had some unexpectedly serious moments too. We even talked about fasting in the New Year and what it looks like to reset with intention.

No outline. No edits. Just a lighthearted, honest conversation with friends—real life, real laughs, real reflections.

If you’re easing into the New Year and want something that feels more like hanging out than being lectured, this one’s for you.

After receiving pushback for sharing my story, I felt led to record this unplanned episode. We talk about honesty, accountability, faith, and the freedom that comes from telling your story without shame. If you’ve ever felt pressured to stay quiet about what hurt you, this episode is for you. Your voice matters, and your healing does not need permission.

In this week’s Raising Cason episode of Unpolished, Crystal dives into the shift from 2025 to 2026 — the lessons learned, the habits we’re releasing, and the goals being set with intention.

We break down glimmers (the small moments that bring peace and clarity) and triggers (the things that knock us off balance), while talking honestly about emotional growth, boundaries, and what it really looks like to step into a new season aligned and unpolished.

If you’re craving a reset, clarity, or encouragement heading into the new year, this episode will meet you exactly where you are.

Celebrate Thanksgiving with us! Crystal and her 14-year-old daughter Lyd sit down for a fun, unpolished holiday episode packed with teen hot takes, gratitude moments, family chaos, games, and lots of laughs. From Stranger Things and Black Friday plans to basketball, school break, and real mother–daughter talk… this one feels like you’re sitting right in the living room with us. 🧡✨

Episode Title: Chosen Family vs. Blood Family

In this episode of Unpolished, Crystal opens up about the difference between the family you’re born into and the family you choose. We talk about:

• What “chosen family” really means

• Grieving the idea of what blood family should be

• Setting boundaries with toxic relatives

• Finding safe people in friends, community, and faith

• How to stop feeling guilty for choosing peace over obligation

Whether you’re rebuilding your circle after heartbreak, walking away from unhealthy patterns, or just learning that “family” can look different than you imagined—this conversation is for you. 💛

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If you have a powerful story about chosen family, healing, or starting over, Crystal would love to hear from you.

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In today’s episode, Crystal opens up about the kind of days that feel heavy, scattered, and emotionally exhausting — the days when it feels like you’re giving everything you’ve got, but somehow it still doesn’t feel like enough. She shares why progress still counts even when it’s messy, slow, or surrounded by struggle.

This episode is a reminder that growth doesn’t always feel good. Sometimes the struggle is the evidence that you’re moving forward. Crystal talks about how God uses the tired moments, the unsteady moments, and even the broken moments to shape who we are becoming.

Episode Description:

Today I was cleaning the duck coop and realized the ducks weren’t even in their temporary home anymore. And yet, I was still tending to it like they were. Sometimes we keep caring for things that have already moved on… or things we have outgrown. In this episode, I talk about loving anyway, learning to release what no longer fits, and letting God show us when it’s time to step into something new.