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In this episode, I am joined by Zarin Alum, a Data Integrations Manager at an ad tech agency and a passionate food content creator. Zarin shares her journey from moving to Austin for school, finding her niche in food content creation, and balancing her career with her creative endeavors. She discusses the challenges and triumphs of integrating her personal and professional lives and offers valuable advice on handling cultural expectations and maintaining a supportive partnership.

Key Topics:

1. Introduction to Zarin Alum:
   • Career Overview: Data Integrations Manager at an ad tech agency specializing in digital advertising for pharma brands.
   • Transition to Austin: Moved to Austin in 2013 for UT Austin's McCombs School of Business and decided to stay.
2. Journey into Food Content Creation:
   • Inspiration Behind Food Content: Started sharing food experiences after discovering Austin's vibrant foodie community.
   • Viral Success: Discusses the unexpected viral success of her first video and how it impacted her content creation journey.
   • Partner's Role: How her husband, Fahad, became a supportive photographer and manager for her content.
3. Navigating Cultural Expectations:
   • Meeting Fahad: How she met her husband through UT's follow train on Twitter and the challenges of dating outside her cultural expectations.
   • Family Reactions: Her parents' initial resistance to the relationship and how they eventually came around.
4. Advice for Others:
   • Supporting Partners: Tips for encouraging your partner and maintaining a supportive relationship.
   • Handling Cultural Barriers: Encouragement for those dealing with cultural expectations in their relationships.
5. Marriage Insights:
   • Key Takeaway: The importance of encouraging each other to be the best version of yourselves and growing together.
   • Communication Styles: The significance of understanding and adapting to each other's communication styles in a relationship.
6. Personal Reflections:
   • Mental Health and Fitness: How working out has become a crucial part of her mental well-being and overall self-care routine.

Quotes:

• "You know you married the right person when both of you encourage each other to be a better version of yourself every single day."
• "If you’re not uncomfortable once a day, you’re not improving in your life."

Resources Mentioned:

• Emma Chamberlain on Call Her Daddy
• Solidcore
• Barry’s Bootcamp

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In this candid episode, I sit down with Shruthi Parker, a mother, wife, and social media influencer, to discuss the unfiltered realities of navigating life’s challenges. Shruthi opens up about the trials and triumphs of motherhood, the complexities of marriage, and the unique pressures of sharing her life on social media. With honesty and vulnerability, she offers insights into how she balances these demanding roles while staying true to herself.

Key Topics Discussed:

• Motherhood Challenges: Shruthi shares her experiences with the ups and downs of motherhood, from the joys to the struggles, and how she manages to keep it all together as a mom of 3.
• Navigating Marriage: Explore Shruthi’s perspective on maintaining a strong marriage through tough times, including how she and her partner support each other.
• Life on Social Media: Learn about the pressures and rewards of sharing personal life on social media, and how Shruthi handles the expectations and scrutiny that come with being in the public eye.
• Finding Community: Discover how Shruthi has built a supportive community online and offline, and the importance of finding a tribe that lifts you up.
• Staying Authentic: Shruthi talks about the importance of being authentic in all aspects of life, especially when balancing multiple roles and responsibilities.

Why You Should Listen:

This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the complexities of modern life. Whether you’re a parent, spouse, or someone trying to find balance in a digitally connected world, Shruthi’s story offers valuable lessons in resilience, authenticity, and the power of community.

Join us as we explore the unfiltered challenges of life with Shruthi Parker, and learn how to face them with grace and courage.

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In this inspiring episode, I sit down with Erv Brown, an accomplished actor and devoted husband, to delve into his incredible journey of following his passions and navigating the challenges of balancing career and personal life. Erv shares his experiences from the entertainment industry, the importance of having a strong support system, and his unwavering determination to never give up on his dreams.

Key Topics Discussed:

• Erv’s Acting Journey: Discover how Erv Brown began his acting career, the hurdles he faced, and the milestones he achieved along the way.
• Balancing Marriage and Career: Learn how Erv successfully manages his relationship while pursuing a demanding career in acting.
• The Role of a Support Team: Hear Erv’s insights on finding and maintaining a good support team that helps him stay grounded and motivated.
• Following Your Passions: Gain inspiration from Erv’s dedication to following his passions, despite the obstacles and setbacks.
• Never Giving Up: Understand the importance of perseverance and how Erv’s “never give up” attitude has been crucial to his success.

Why You Should Listen:

This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to find inspiration in the pursuit of their dreams. Erv Brown’s story is a testament to the power of passion, resilience, and the support of loved ones. Whether you're an aspiring actor, balancing multiple roles in life, or simply seeking motivation to never give up, Erv’s journey offers valuable lessons and encouragement.

Tune in to hear Erv’s inspiring story and learn how to balance your passions with the demands of everyday life.

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In this episode, I have an enlightening conversation with Dimple Patel, a mom of three boys, a pharmacist, and she has passion project which is @certifiedluxegirl on Instagram where she helps individuals find luxury goods for great prices. We dive into the multifaceted challenges that new mothers face, including postpartum depression, anxiety, and societal pressures, and how to find balance while pursuing passion projects.

Join us as we:

• Discuss Motherhood: Dimple shares her personal experiences and insights on navigating the complexities of motherhood.
• Explore Passion Projects: We talk about the importance of having passion projects and how they can provide a sense of purpose and fulfillment.
• Coping With Anxiety: Dimple offers practical techniques for managing anxiety and fostering a sense of calm in your daily life.
• Overcoming Postpartum Depression: We delve into recognizing the symptoms of postpartum depression, seeking help, and the journey to recovery.
• Confront Societal Expectations: Dimple shares her strategies for dealing with societal pressures and setting personal boundaries.

Key Points:

• Finding Balance: How to juggle the demands of motherhood while pursuing personal passions.
• Recognizing Symptoms: Identifying postpartum depression and anxiety in yourself and others.
• Seeking Help: Resources and support systems available for new mothers, as recommended by Dimple.
• Self-Care Strategies: Techniques for managing anxiety and promoting mental well-being, including mindfulness and relaxation exercises.
• Navigating Expectations: Practical advice for dealing with societal pressures and setting personal boundaries, emphasizing the importance of self-compassion.
• Personal Journey: Dimple shares her own journey with postpartum depression and anxiety, highlighting the importance of community and professional support.
• Pursuing Passion Projects: The role of passion projects in maintaining a sense of identity and fulfillment beyond motherhood.

Tune in now to listen to Dimple's story. We aim to offer support and encouragement to all mothers on their journey to wellness.

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In this episode, I sit down with Nirali Shah, the founder of Nirali Shah Events, to explore her incredible journey from starting a wedding planning business from scratch to becoming a renowned name in the industry. Nirali shares her insights on taking bold career risks, thinking outside the box, and turning her passion into a thriving business. She also offers invaluable advice for upcoming brides, providing tips on how to plan a unique and memorable wedding and shares a surprise that I did not expect!

Key Topics Discussed:

• Nirali Shah’s entrepreneurial journey and how she built Nirali Shah Events
• The challenges and rewards of starting a wedding planning business from the ground up
• Bold career moves and risk-taking strategies that led to Nirali’s success
• Essential advice for brides-to-be on planning their dream wedding
• The importance of following your passion and doing what you love

Tune in to hear Nirali’s inspiring story and gain practical tips for your own wedding planning journey and career path.

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In this episode of the It's Not Selfish Podcast, I sit down with my friend Lauren Thomas and we get into it! Join us in this inspiring episode as we delve into the stories of remarkable women who have found empowerment through taking breaks and achieving milestones in her running journey. From overcoming challenges to embracing victories, we explore the transformative power of rest and resilience. Tune in as we uncover insights, share experiences, share tears, laughter, and celebrate the triumphs of women who have run through barriers to find strength, balance, and fulfillment.

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TW: The content of this post discusses sensitive topics such as domestic violence that may be triggering for some individuals. Please proceed with caution. 

In this episode, Annesa Mawani and I delve into the sensitive yet empowering topic of overcoming domestic violence and embracing new beginnings. She shares her courageous story of healing and resilience, discussing the challenges she faced, the journey of self-discovery, and the empowerment found in rebuilding her life after abuse. We explore themes of healing on one's own, navigating new relationships post-abuse, and the importance of support networks in the process of moving forward. Please note that this episode contains discussions of domestic violence that may be triggering for some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. Through these inspiring narratives, listeners gain insight into the strength and determination needed to break free from the cycle of domestic violence and find hope in brighter futures.

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In this episode, we delve into the intricate world of ego, EFT tapping, and self-repeating cycles with our guest Aishwarya Balaji. Aishwarya explores how the ego influences behavior, the role of self-awareness in recognizing patterns, and strategies for breaking free from destructive cycles using EFT tapping. From personal anecdotes to practical tips, this conversation offers insight into navigating the complexities of the self and fostering growth and transformation through EFT tapping. Tune in as we unravel the layers of the ego and embark on a journey towards greater authenticity and fulfillment. You can follow Aishwarya’s journey on Instagram @theaish.

Tune in every Tuesday for new episodes. Thank you so much for listening along and thank you for the continuous support, I appreciate each one of you so much.  Follow @itsnotselfishpodcast and @kp.fistyle on Instagram to stay up to date.

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Join us for a heartfelt conversation as we delve into the art of juggling multiple responsibilities while staying present and authentic. In this episode, Eric Rakofsky shares his wisdom on how to keep showing up in every aspect of life, even while battling cancer.

We explore the importance of maintaining a healthy relationship with oneself amidst life's challenges and the strategies Eric has found effective in achieving balance and fulfillment despite his health journey. From practical tips to profound insights, this conversation is a beacon of inspiration for anyone facing adversity and striving to thrive in the face of uncertainty.

Tune in as we unpack valuable lessons on resilience, self-care, and the power of perspective. Whether you're navigating a personal health crisis or simply seeking guidance on how to stay grounded amidst life's whirlwind, this episode offers practical advice and heartfelt reflections to help you embrace each moment with grace and resilience. You follow Eric on Instagram @ericrakofsky1

Tune in every Tuesday for new episodes. Thank you so much for listening along and thank you for the continuous support, I appreciate each one of you so much.  Follow @itsnotselfishpodcast and @kp.fistyle on Instagram to stay up to date.


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In this episode, my bestie Jocelyne Ortiz and I delve into the complexities of long-distance friendships, knowing when to let go, and navigating changes in body image. Our guest shares personal experiences and insights on maintaining connections across distances, recognizing when it’s time to release a friendship, and embracing self-love through body transformations. Join us as we explore the delicate balance of friendship dynamics and self-acceptance, offering practical advice and heartfelt reflections along the way. You can follow Jocelyne on social media @joceylne.Ortiz. 

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