God designed us to need connection, and our

relationships with our parents is the first place this happens—or doesn’t

happen. Attachment theory outlines specifically what can go wrong and

looks at how our ability to love is shaped by our first experiences with

our parents and caregivers during our early years. These early

experiences leave a lasting imprint on our souls that is still observable in

our adult relationships. Your relationship problems did not begin in your relationship! You

and your spouse are doing the dance steps you learned in childhood. For

each of you, a pattern of relating was set in motion long before you met,

causing you to relate to each other in certain ways. Most of us learn how

to love from our parents, but occasionally a grandparent, aunt, uncle, or

Sibling has a lot of influence. Unaware of the powerful influence of

our early years in predetermining our dance, we aren’t able to

understand our reactions or make changes.

The fact is, we can never truly know our mates until we understand

their childhood experiences. Listen to this podcast to understand how your emotional expressions are shaped by childhood experiences.

He ghosts you, doesn't pick your calls, goes silent for weeks and comes back to profess his undying love for you. She never posts your picture on social media or introduce you to her friends/family.......NewsFlash! You just may be dating yourself Sis! Listen to this podcast to know what to look out for in case you're being played and you're too smitten to see it!!!

It's normal today to hear of relationship trends like f*** buddies, Friends With Benefits, Itch Rubbers, Textationships and the Likes. A more popular type is such that has two people in an arrangement where they're not really in a relationship but just some levels above friendship, they have sex, hang out, enjoy all the perks of a relationship without the official label. This is known as a "Situationship"!. Listen to this podcast to know the signs that you're in a situationship, the long term effects of being ghosted and how you can end a situationship, for good!

You have worked so hard to get to where you are and it feels good to be reaching your goals. But, as soon as you get your salary, parents, siblings, relatives, and cousins are waiting in line to get their share of your hard earned money and even when you don't want to, you "have to" pay this "tax". This episode shares insights about the long term effects of black tax and how you can manage it as a young African youth. If you're angry about this situation and you would like some help in that regard, listen to this!!!

A major challenge millennials face today is understanding how to transition from knowing what to do and getting it done plus always waiting for the right time that will never come to do stuff. We then remain in a never ending cycle of confusion, hopelessness and despair, justifying our failures with external objects. It doesn't have to be this way. In this podcast, i talked about what it means to be stuck, and how you can hack your mind to begin to produce the results you want to see in your life, thus maximizing your limitless potentials and resources you may have been hitherto unaware of.

This is the very first episode of "UNSCRIPTED" and true to its name, i spoke from the heart. Here, you'll get to know what to expect in subsequent episodes, the challenges i had to overcome before launching out, and so much more!!!