So many of us are coming to the realisation that we don't really know who we are anymore. We spend more time consuming other people's lives and personalities through a screen, than actually living out the person, values and passions that we have. On top of that, long hours, loneliness and the growing pains of our 20s mean many of us have no clear view of who we are. In this episode, we break down 7 tips to get your personality back, including: 

• Why your personality is probably frozen, not lost
• The value of unproductive goals 
• The need for geographical novelty 
• The 5 soul needs you need to fulfil weekly 
• The journalling exercise we all need to try, today

Listen now if you're also feeling lost and disconnected from your true self. 

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What makes some people successful and others, not? Is it a singular trait, habits, or just luck? In this episode, we break down the psychology and research behind success and what drives successful individuals to become the people they are. This includes:

•        Objective vs subjective measures of success
•        The role of the self-determination theory in guiding success
•        How to find success that is meaningful to you
•        The 5 habits of successful people
•        Developing an identity beyond traditional success

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At the start of every year, I choose a theme - not just goals, but a guiding philosophy. For 2026, that theme is doing less and achieving more.

In this episode, we explore why focus beats busyness, why saying no creates better outcomes, and how choosing depth over overwhelm can actually lead to more success. 

Our discussion includes: 

• Why a yearly theme is more powerful than traditional goals
• The psychology of intrinsic motivation
• The importance of  focused vs. scattered effort
• How to choose 1–2 true priorities for the year
• The surprising psychology of rest
• How to plan a year that feels intentional, not exhausting

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In our final guest episode for the year, we're hearing from the listeners! I asked you all to call in with the biggest dilemmas you've had in your 20s; questions you want answered, or just situations where you may have been desperate for advice and you answered the call!

We answer 7 of your most burning questions, including:

• How do I end a friendship in my 20s
• How do I get my life back after an ex 
• How do I deal with disappointing my family 
• How do I feel at home in a new city 
• How do I deal with someone who doesn't like me? 

Listen now for all the psychological advice and wisdom you need during this decade.

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Find your dream job in your 20s is no easy feat, in fact your dream job probably doesn't exist, but you CAN determine what kind of career path is best for you based on your personality. Today we have on George Appling whose research on the 5 career paths can help us determine where to next! Our discussion includes: 

• The five main career paths and what they entail
• When should you pursue your passion & when should you pursue financial stability?
• Why money doesn’t always make us happier
• The necessary role of failure and experimentation when finding purpose
• How to become a “passionpreneur”
• What Taylor Swift, Ed Sheeran & Matthew McConaughey have in common that makes them successful?

Plus so much more, listen now! 

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Money and love: the two things we stress about most in our twenties, and yet we rarely talk about how deeply connected they are. In this episode, I’m joined by Jack Howard, Head of Money Wellness at Ally, to unpack the psychology of money in our relationships and how it shapes who we date, how we fight, and how we build a life together.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why money and love are so deeply linked
• Spender vs. saver dynamics and why opposites so often attract
• Why we emotionally spend?
• What’s the deal with prenups?
• Is it worth having an expensive wedding?
• When to get joint bank accounts?
• How to talk about money WELL!

If you’ve ever argued about money with a partner, avoided talking about it, or worried you’re “bad” with finances, this episode will give you language, tools, and a lot of reassurance that you’re not alone.

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I'm officially a UK resident! My thoughts on moving and this exciting new chapter for the podcast x

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Getting diagnosed with ADHD as an adult can feel like both a relief and a reckoning. Suddenly your past makes so much more sense… but now you’re faced with learning a whole new way of managing your brain, your time, your relationships and your self-worth.

In this episode, I’m joined by Chris Wang, founder and CEO of Shimmer, who was diagnosed with ADHD at 28. Together we unpack what ADHD really looks like in your twenties, including:

• The three ADHD subtypes and why women are so often missed
• How late diagnosis can completely rewrite your identity (in a good way)
• Why traditional productivity advice often fails ADHD brains 
• The role of urgency, novelty and accountability
• What actually is rejection sensitivity dysphoria (RSD)?
• What ADHD–ADHD relationships can look like vs ADHD–neurotypical dynamics?

If you’ve ever wondered, “Do I just suck at being an adult, or is my brain wired differently?”, this episode is for you.

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Something we may not know is that relationships typically follow a fairly similar life cycle. Author and relationship expert, Thais Gibson has articulated this idea in her new theory on the 6 stages of relationships, and how to know which you're in and when to break away. We discuss:

• How long should you date before you ask for a label?
• Why the honeymoon phase can’t last (and why that’s a good thing)
• Why does every couple need to have that one “big” fight?
• Why do so many couples break up at the 2-3 year mark?
• When do you know someone is right for you for the long haul?
• What the longest married couples know that we don’t....

Plus so much more!

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These days it's easy to feel observed and, therefore, judged by everyone for everything, whether that's online or in real life. Eli Rallo is an author and creator who understands this experience better than most of us and today we chat about her journey from a hardworking, theatre loving child to a nearly three time author and the Carrie Bradshaw of this generation. Our discussion includes topics like: 

• Why is it so difficult to let people misunderstand you?
• How our core wounds effect how we handle criticism
• The power of delusional thinking
• How to manage comparison in hyper-competitive spaces
• The truth about influencer culture
• What it takes to become an author
• How do you know you’re with the right person?

That and so much more! Listen now!

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*The views expressed by guests are not necessarily shared by our host! We invite open discussion and differing viewpoints, experiences and information. 

 

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