We think of failure as a terrible thing or something to be avoided. But when you learn to fall in love with failure, a whole new level of growth occurs that will have you seeing progress faster than ever. In our 20s, the so called failure-decade, we talk about how you can learn to fail, including: 

• The reasons we fear failure 
• Why our definition of success is inaccurate and socially conditioned 
• The relationship successful people have with success 
• Why grit matters more than IQ 
• Why your fear of failure is keeping you behind
• 5 ways to ritualise failure in your daily life + more 

Listen now to change your entire mindset towards setbacks! 

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We’ve all heard the term thrown around – in books, in TV dramas, in news articles – we’re taught to be scared of it. But rarely do we consider what it actually means. In today’s bonus episode, we take a look at sociopathy.

We explore:

• Differentiating sociopathy and psychopathy
• Common misconceptions
• Early origins of the term
• The role of self-awareness and masking in sociopathy
• Whether all sociopaths are bad
• Treatments and management for sociopathy

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Have you ever felt like everything in your late twenties is suddenly up for grabs - your relationships, your career, even who you thought you were? It might be your Saturn return - a period of upheaval, self-reflection, and big life questions that’s as much psychological as it is astrological.

In this episode, we look at the psychology behind Saturn returns - why this age feels so turbulent, what’s happening in our minds and lives.

We explore:
•        The astrological background of Saturn returns
•        Why humans are drawn to these kinds of explanations
•        Dynamic shifts of our relationships, friendships and family dynamics
•        Uncertainty and mismatches in our 20s
•        Why upheaval can be good for us
•        Strategies to navigate this period 

If you’ve ever wondered why the end of your twenties feels like some huge cosmic challenge, this episode is for you.

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Have you ever felt like the world around you isn’t quite real, or like you’re watching your life from the outside? Have you ever driven somewhere and suddenly wondered how you got there? It might be dissociation - a surprisingly common psychological experience that can be both protective and, at times, unsettling.

In this episode we look at the psychology behind dissociation – what is going on in our bodies and brains during this state, what triggers us and how it interacts with wider factors in our lives.

We explore:
•        The science of why we freeze in this state
•        How it can help us cope, and when it becomes maladaptive
•        Interactions with ADHD, trauma and survival mode
•        Why it feels so unsettling
•        Strategies to pull you back in
•        Reminders for when we don’t feel real

If you’ve ever felt like you were living on autopilot, this episode is for you.

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Friendships should be a source of joy – people who just make life lighter. But not all friendships feel that way. Some leave us drained, insecure, or questioning our worth. And it can be hard to admit when a friendship has become toxic. Learning to recognise when a friendship is no longer healthy, and how to navigate that shift, is a crucial part of protecting your well-being and building a life that feels aligned.
In this episode, we unpack the psychology of toxic friendships: why we hold onto them, what they cost us, and how to create relationships that support rather than drain us.

We explore:

•        Why good friendships are so crucial in our 20s
•        The 5 types of toxic friendships
•        Warning signs of toxicity
•        How to recognise positive friendship dynamics
•        Why we stay in toxic friendships
•        How to manage friendship breakups and the emotional fallout

If you’ve ever felt trapped in a friendship that leaves you more exhausted than supported, this episode is for you. 

 

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Today I'm reflecting on some of the lessons I've been taking from my early 20s. We all have regrets about things we wish we'd done differently or not done at all, and I'm hoping you can learn from mine. 

We talk about everything from bad financial decisions, ghosting friends, staying in relationships farrr too long, to impulse buying, ignoring gut feelings and fighting with family. Listen now to hear all ten! 

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Hitting rock bottom is one of the most painful human experiences - when the future is blurry, the past feels heavy, and you barely recognize the person staring back in the mirror. Maybe it’s the end of a relationship, losing your job, battling addiction, or simply feeling like everything you built has crumbled. In this episode, we explore what those lowest points really feel like, why we sometimes end up there, and how, against all odds, they can become the very place where healing and transformation begin.

We explore:

•        What rock bottom feels like
•        The role of identity collapse and self-concept clarity
•        Passivity, external locus of control, and addiction as routes to rock bottom
•        Our dark night of the soul and searching for meaning
•        Why rock bottom can motivate change
•        5 tips climbing out and rebuilding self-concept

If you’ve ever felt like you’ve lost control, lost yourself, or lost your way - this episode is for you.

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In this bonus release, I am sharing an episode of my other podcast, MANTRA. This week's mantra is I Am Not Here to Manage Other People’s Emotions. It's a common trap to feel responsible for the feelings of those around us, often at the expense of our own emotional well-being. But true empathy means holding space for others without taking on their emotional burden or feeling obligated to fix their feelings.

In this episode of Mantra, we'll explore how to set healthy emotional boundaries, distinguish between compassion and co-dependency, and prioritize your own inner peace. Releasing the need to manage others' emotions isn't about being uncaring; it's about empowering yourself and allowing others to navigate their own emotional landscapes. This Mantra will help you reclaim your energy, honor your boundaries, and cultivate healthier, more authentic relationships.

 

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Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is one of the most misunderstood mental health conditions, clouded by stigma and misinformation. In this episode, we take a compassionate, research-based look at what BPD really is, where it comes from, and how people living with it can find healing and stability. From exploring the biological underpinnings and role of trauma, to the impact on relationships and the remarkable effectiveness of treatments like DBT and SCM, we look at both the challenges and hope.

We’ll explore:

•        What BPD feels like and the key symptoms
•        The biosocial model: how biology and the environment intertwine
•        The impact BPD has on relationships and attachment
•        Stigma, myths, and gendered assumptions around diagnosis
•        Why loneliness is high, and support is essential
•        How DBT and Structured Clinical Management help people adapt
•        The encouraging truth about recovery and long-term prognosis

If you’ve ever wanted to learn more about this misunderstood condition, this episode is for you. 

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From Myers-Briggs to the Big Five, almost all of us at some stage have done a personality test. Whether it labelled you an introvert or extrovert, a big thinker or a small details individual, it's easy to get swept up in the idea that these tests can tell us all we need to know about our personality and identity. But are they legit, and what is the science behind them? In today's episode, we break down: 

• The scientific basis for personality tests
• The interesting, feminist history behind personality tests 
• Reliability vs. validity vs. relatability
• Why we end up believing what we read 
• How to actually use personality tests to your advantage 

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