We live in a world full of opinions, advice, and expectations - and somewhere in the noise, our own inner voice can get drowned out. Learning to trust yourself sounds simple, but in practice it’s a hard skills to build. Doubt, fear of mistakes, and the pressure to “get it right” often pull us away from what we already know deep down. 

In this episode, we explore the psychology of self-trust: how it develops, why it falters, and what it really means to listen to yourself in a culture that constantly tells you to look outward for answers.

We’ll explore:
•        Why self-trust is so crucial in this decade
•        Self-trust as the antidote to anxiety
•        How self-trust is shaped by early experiences and current circumstances
•        Small ways to practice trusting yourself again
•        Why trusting yourself is less about certainty and more about self-respect

If you’ve ever second-guessed yourself into exhaustion, or felt like your inner compass has gone quiet, this episode is for you.

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Hate is one of those emotions we don’t like to admit we feel – it’s messy, intense, and often laced with guilt. But it’s also deeply human. It can flare up in obvious moments of conflict, or linger quietly as resentment, judgment, or mistrust. But it’s how we engage with it that makes the big difference. In this episode, we explore the reasons we love to hate - where it comes from, why it’s so powerful, and the ways it can both protect and harm us. We’ll look at how it spreads in a hyperconnected world, and ways we can respond to it if we feel it in ourselves or from others.

We’ll explore:
•        The roots of hatred in group identity, safety and insecurity
•        Why hating can feel good 
•        Personality traits of trolls
•        Why our biggest critics can be those closest to us
•        How hate affects our mind and body
•        How to stop being a hater, and how to respond to hate from others

If you want to explore this difficult emotion without judgement, this episode is for you.

 

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We all want to know the secret to true, lasting love so that we can perhaps have a shot at finding it. So in today's episode, we're breaking down perhaps the most famous theory on this very topic, Robert Sternbery's Triangular Theory of Love. In this episode, we talk about: 

• The 3 core ingredients of love: intimacy, passion, commitment

• How different combinations form different kinds of relationships

• Why “consummate love” is so rare, and hard to maintain

• What the theory leaves out: culture, trust, respect, asexuality, polyamory 

• A look at the newer “quadruple theory” of love 

Listen now! 

 

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We often see pets as just a part of our daily lives - the ones who greet us at the door, curl up beside us, or demand breakfast at 6 a.m. sharp. But behind those everyday moments lies a bond that’s shaped by millions of years of co-evolution and a deep emotional connection that can transform us. In this episode, we look at the psychology of our relationships with our pets - how they are so transformative, soothe our stress, shift our moods, and even change the way we relate to other people. Pets aren’t just companions; they can become anchors in times of change, mirrors for our emotions, and constant reminders of simple joy.

We’ll explore:
•       The science of why we bond so strongly with animals
•       How our pets mirror our mental health
•       Survival of the cutest
•       The pain of losing a childhood pet, and disenfranchised grief
•       FOUR key questions to ask yourself if you’re thinking of committing to a pet

Whether you’re a proud pet parent or just curious about why humans are so drawn to animals, this episode is for you.

 

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Happiness often feels like a simple goal - something we’re told to chase or “find” if we’re lucky. But it’s not just about good moods or quick wins. True happiness is more subtle, shaped by how we show up in life, the people we surround ourselves with, and the  meaning we create along the way. In this episode, we dive into what happiness really means in your twenties and beyond - why it can be so hard to hold onto, and how it’s tied to more than just feeling good.

We’ll explore:

• Why happiness isn’t a permanent state, but a shifting experience
• How everyday habits and relationships quietly influence our sense of happiness
• The PERMA model of happiness
• Why chasing pleasure doesn’t always lead to fulfilment
• Busting the 3 biggest myths about happiness
• Simple, real ways to build happiness for now, and for the future 

If you’re tired of chasing constant happiness and want to explore a more genuine, meaningful way to experience joy – this one is for you.

 

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In this episode we break down the growing conversation around the “male loneliness epidemic”:  what’s true, what’s misleading, and what the research actually says. This is a complex and controversial topic, but one that deserves a clear, evidence-based perspective.

• Why has loneliness been declared a global health crisis?

• How the global loneliness epidemic differs from the male loneliness epidemic 

• Are men actually the lonelier gender? 

• The role of patriarchy, the manosphere, scapegoating, and in-group/out-group psychology 

• The consequences  for both men and women

• Healthy, proactive approaches to tackling loneliness in society 

Plus, so much more! Drop your thoughts below. 

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Travel is something many of us in our 20s aspire to do well and to do more of. Whether it’s the quintessential Europe summer, road trips to the next city or town over, or exploring forgotten trails and paths, travel impacts us deeply and of course, psychologically. 

But it can also have physical and emotional effects as well and it turns out, there is a way to fly and travel better. Today we are joined by Dr. Henry Ting, world renowned cardiologist and Chief Health & Wellness Officer at Delta Air Lines to discuss all the ways the airline is making transit a better part of our trip and some essential tips he has for people in their 20s who want to get the most out of their travel opportunities! 

Listen now and check out the Fly and Live Better Youtube Series! 

 

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We often think of trauma as something extreme - a dramatic, life-altering event. But trauma isn’t just what happened to us. It’s also how our body learned to survive. It can be quiet, subtle, and long-lasting, shaping how we live, cope, and exist in the world, often unconsciously.

In this episode, we unpack the quiet, psychological reality of trauma - especially in our twenties. Why do some of us feel numb, disconnected, or constantly on edge? Why do we shut down in relationships or over-function when things get hard? And how do we begin to reconnect with our bodies again?

We explore:

• Why trauma is subjective
• Survival strategies we carry into adulthood (and why they’re hard to let go of)
• Does the body really keep the score?
• How pain and shame are linked to trauma
• What “safety” feels like in our bodies - and how we can begin to access it

Whether or not you identify with the word ‘trauma’, or simply want to understand our bodies’ emotional responses, this episode is for you.

 

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Nicotine is everywhere - but not in the way we once knew it. It’s not just in cigarettes anymore. It’s in sleek vapes, tiny pouches, lozenges, gum, even diffusers marketed as 'wellness'. And somewhere along the way, it stopped feeling like a vice and started looking... aesthetic. Clean. Even, normal.
In today’s episode, we unpack the ever-present boom of nicotine and what it reveals about our generation’s relationship with coping, craving, and control. Because this isn’t just about addiction - it’s about soothing anxiety, chasing focus, managing overstimulation, and the ways we self-medicate under pressure.

We explore:

• Nicotine as a stimulant and a coping mechanism
• Levels of conformity and links to the ‘in-group’
• How nicotine got rebranded for a new generation
• The role of dissonance in maintaining the cycle
• How to break the bad habit loop

Whether you’ve used nicotine yourself or just want to understand why it’s seems like everyone has a vape – this episode is for you.

 

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We all get anxious at times, but what we forget in those moments is that anxiety is just there to protect us, it's trying to do its job, and the more we lean in and play along, the more we start to feel in control again. In today's episode, we break down the four ways I've made my anxiety work for me, including: 

• Turning anxiety into excitement
• The certainities list method
• The personification method 
• Channeling anxious energy into creative energy + more 

If you're someone who struggles with ongoing anxiety, this episode will hopefully provide you with a new perspective, or at least a refresher on what we do know about the way anxiety effects us. Listen now! 

 

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