Unwinding the Binding

Hi Everyone, in this episode I sit down with my friend and business consultant, Wayne Veldsman. For the past 7 years, Wayne's been helping entrepreneurs to both grow themselves and their income through his business, Vel.consulting and his podcast, Work Grind Hustle.

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Straight up- we've all had moments of feeling jealous, possessive, toxic, controlling even. Instead of expecting others to deal with it or allowing myself to keep living with it- I've decided to say fuck it, I'm going to heal this part of myself. This has required some uncomfortable moments where I have forced myself to rise above the feeling and take a deep breath. This is usually followed by a change in perspective.  Relationships are not here for us to control others but rather to explore together, co-create amazing things, and get vulnerable. So strap in and let's relate. 

What's the difference between authentic confidence and fake confidence? The answer is: one comes from leading with your heart and the other is comparable to a shell. Real confidence means allowing yourself to be seen and acting in alignment with your true nature. It means bravely exploring what it means to be you. Fake confidence is a protection mechanism that just feels different. You can tell when someone around you is using it. You probably feel gross after using this yourself. However, we use this to protect our hearts. Unfortunately, by putting up walls and living in a shell of yourself you block yourself from genuine connection- with yourself and others. I love you guys and remember to have compassion for yourself as you explore this topic in your own life. 

Lesson one: Make a damn decision, sista or mista. So much of our lives we spend stuck and in contemplation. We'll accidentally end up dating the wrong guy for years or slave over a decision that we knew intuitively all along. So much of the time we feel stuck because we are asking everyone but ourselves how we feel about a situation. We'll look to google, our parents, society, and our friends to tell us what we should do or how we should live. In this podcast I dive into why that is what is making you stuck, and how making the damn decision sets you free.  

Intro Song: Om by Hippie Sabotage 

On this week's podcast, I chat with Astrologist and co-creator of Global Healing Circles- the group that helped me at the beginning of my healing journey. She also hosts retreats, performs hypnotherapy, and has her own healing line. Andrea is one of the most real & motivating women I’ve ever met. In this episode, Andrea and I discuss her journey to becoming an astrologer, the moment she decided the be a badass and live her life exactly how she makes up, and her experience using her past life warrior energy in her current life. We laugh, get vulnerable, and dig into her experience as a healer. Andrea has helped me understand and accept myself through our multiple astrology readings & offered tons of amazing insight in this episode. Thank you, Andrea, for being the best & recording with me!

Intro & Outro Song: Smoke by Ganja White Night 

Andrea's Instagram: @Astro_Medicine_Woman

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Song: Mercy by Middle Child 

This week I’m diving into a topic that has been on my mind and influencing me for years; which is healing religious wounds, challenging your own spiritual beliefs, and taking the leap to treating your spiritual connection as a personal thing that you are able to explore and create. I know that religion, spirituality, and deviating from the norm can be a taboo subject or one that can carry a lot of pain for people. My goal with this podcast is not to be right or wrong on the subject or sway you, but simply to invite you to open your mind and take a new perspective on your relationship with the spiritual aspects of your life. It’s okay to ask questions and in my opinion it’s healthy to be spiritually curious. J

Spiritually Curious – “the ability to freely explore your spiritual nature and connection to divine, nature, yourself, and the world around you without shame and without fear.”