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  • Episode 18: Balancing Love and Parenthood: Finding Harmony in the Toddler Years

    Ever think is the chaos of raising toddlers is secretly testing your marriage? Dr. Lori and Evan reveal their exhausting reality of parenting young children while maintaining a healthy relationship. They tackle the universal challenge that many couples face: feeling disconnected when kids demand every ounce of energy.

    Through personal anecdotes and professional insights, they explore how their toddler Tatum picks up on relationship tension, while their older child Landon shows a more mature understanding of conflict. The episode offers practical wisdom for keeping romance alive, from simple at-home date nights with charcuterie boards to engaging card games that spark meaningful conversations.

    The key takeaway? Your relationship is like a third a third entity, it needs nurturing just as much as your children do. The couple shares how they've learned to communicate better, resolve conflicts at different paces, and find moments of connection in the midst of parenting chaos.

    Ready to transform your approach to balancing marriage and parenthood? This raw, relatable conversation might just be the guidance you need. Tune in to hear how you can strengthen your relationship while navigating the beautiful mess of raising toddlers.

    🔗 Palm Beach Therapy Center
    Therapists based in Boca Raton, FL — licensed in FL, GA, NY, NJ, MO, MI, and Washington D.C.

    25 min
  • Episode 17: Words of Mass Destruction: Navigating Conflict and Trust in Relationships

    Words that Wound: A Deep Dive into Relationship Boundaries

    Ever wondered about the devastating impact of "words of mass destruction" in relationships? Join Evan and Lori as they bravely unpack a recent disagreement in their decade-long marriage, revealing how casual threats of divorce and thoughtless words can create lasting damage.

    Through their candid conversation, the couple explores:
    - The power of words in intimate relationships
    - Why couples resort to divorce threats during conflicts
    - The crucial role of boundaries in maintaining relationship health
    - The importance of expressing feelings before they escalate

    Their raw discussion demonstrates that even seasoned couples face communication challenges. With humor and vulnerability, they share practical insights on navigating conflicts while maintaining respect and love.

    Whether you're married, dating, or simply interested in relationship dynamics, this episode offers valuable lessons on mindful communication and boundary-setting. Listen now to discover how to protect your relationship from the impact of "words of mass destruction" and build a stronger, more resilient partnership.

    🔗 Palm Beach Therapy Center
    Therapists based in Boca Raton, FL — licensed in FL, GA, NY, NJ, MO, MI, and Washington D.C.

    23 min
  • Episode 16: Love, Laughter, and the Dance of Trust

    Can Attraction to Others Coexist with Marriage?

    Ever wondered if it's normal to notice attractive people while in a committed relationship? Dr. Lori and Evan dive deep into this delicate topic with candor and humor, sharing their personal experiences of navigating attraction and trust within marriage. Through playful banter about their own people-watching adventures they demonstrate how open communication and security in relationships can transform potentially awkward moments into opportunities for connection.

    The episode explores:
    - The role of trust and communication in relationships
    - How technology impacts modern intimacy
    - Managing insecurities and jealousy
    - Building emotional security through validation
    - Turning relationship challenges into growth opportunities

    Their refreshing take on relationship dynamics reminds us that even the most committed couples face universal challenges. By addressing these topics with authenticity and warmth, they provide valuable insights for couples seeking to strengthen their bonds.

    Ready to gain fresh perspectives on relationship dynamics? Listen to this engaging episode that perfectly balances wisdom with wit, and discover how to transform potential relationship tensions into moments of growth and connection.

    🔗 Palm Beach Therapy Center
    Therapists based in Boca Raton, FL — licensed in FL, GA, NY, NJ, MO, MI, and Washington D.C.

    22 min
  • Episode 15: From Breaking Point to Breakthrough: A Raw Look at Marriage and Parenthood

    Dive into a powerful episode where Dr. Lori and Evan bare their souls about nearly divorcing after having their first son. Their journey tackles the taboo subject of pre-parenthood doubts, postpartum struggles, and the strain of maintaining intimacy while raising a child. Through therapy and brutally honest conversations, they transformed their relationship from the brink of divorce to a deeper connection.

    Their 19-year journey tackles everything from navigating postpartum struggles to nearly facing divorce, highlighting the raw reality of maintaining a relationship while raising a family. The couple shares how they overcame feelings of isolation and resentment, particularly during the challenging early parenting years, turning to therapy and mutual understanding to rebuild their connection.

    The episode offers invaluable insights into:

    • Navigating differing life goals in marriage
    • Breaking through postpartum challenges
    • Finding strength in vulnerability
    • Choosing commitment during tough times
    • Building lasting communication strategies

    Their story proves that even the darkest moments in a relationship can lead to profound growth when met with vulnerability and commitment. Whether you're considering parenthood, struggling with relationship challenges, or navigating the complexities of marriage, this episode offers valuable insights and hope.

    Listen now to hear how this couple turned their breaking point into a breakthrough and why they chose to share their story through podcasting.

    🔗 Palm Beach Therapy Center
    Therapists based in Boca Raton, FL — licensed in FL, GA, NY, NJ, MO, MI, and Washington D.C.

    40 min
  • Episode 14: Breaking the Silence: Can men truly open up emotionally in relationships?

    Breaking the Silence: Men's Emotional Expression in Relationships

    Can men truly open up emotionally in relationships? Dr. Lori and her husband Evan tackle this challenging question head-on in a raw and honest conversation about emotional expression in modern relationships. 

    Drawing from personal experience, they explore how traditional masculine expectations often create barriers to meaningful communication. Evan shares insights about generational shifts in emotional awareness, while Dr. Lori brings her professional perspective on breaking through these communication barriers.

    Key highlights:
    - The impact of upbringing on men's emotional expression
    - Navigating different communication styles between partners
    - The role of therapy in fostering better relationship dynamics
    - Practical strategies for creating safe spaces for emotional vulnerability

    The episode offers a refreshing take on how couples can work together to build stronger emotional connections, emphasizing that change is possible with patience and understanding.

    Ready to transform your relationship communication? Listen to this episode of Us Unfiltered for practical insights and honest discussion about breaking down emotional barriers in relationships.

    🔗 Palm Beach Therapy Center
    Therapists based in Boca Raton, FL — licensed in FL, GA, NY, NJ, MO, MI, and Washington D.C.

    23 min
  • Episode 13: Boundaries: The Key to Respect and Trust in Relationships

    Setting Boundaries: The Key to Relationship Success

    Discover how unsolicited advice and external influences can silently erode even the strongest relationships. In this compelling episode of Us Unfiltered, Dr. Lori and Evan share intimate insights about protecting their relationship through mindful boundary-setting.

    Drawing from their personal experiences with loss and family dynamics, they explore:
    - The delicate balance between seeking support and maintaining privacy
    - Why late-night conversations might not be the best time for serious talks
    - How to create protective boundaries without alienating loved ones
    - The importance of choosing confidants wisely

    Their candid discussion reveals that healthy boundaries aren't walls - they're the foundation of trust and respect in relationships. Through vulnerable sharing and practical wisdom, they demonstrate how couples can strengthen their bond while managing external influences.

    Ready to transform your relationship through better boundaries? This episode offers the blueprint you need. Tune in to learn how protecting your relationship can actually help it thrive.

    🔗 Palm Beach Therapy Center
    Therapists based in Boca Raton, FL — licensed in FL, GA, NY, NJ, MO, MI, and Washington D.C.

    30 min
  • Episode 12: The Ruth's Chris Incident: What To Do When You Don't Fight Well

    A Mother's Day Meltdown Sparks Deep Insights into Relationship Communication

    Witness a chaotic Mother's Day restaurant scene that transforms into a profound discussion about relationship dynamics and conflict resolution. Dr. Lori and Evan unpack the delicate art of "fighting fair" and share practical strategies for navigating heated moments in relationships.

    Key takeaways from this enlightening conversation:
    - The power of "time-outs" during heated arguments
    - Using "I statements" versus "you statements" for better communication
    - The role of eye contact and physical touch in fostering empathy
    - Balancing personal space with quality time together
    - The importance of emotional maturity in conflict resolution

    The episode weaves personal experiences with professional insights, offering a refreshing perspective on managing relationship challenges. From gardening metaphors to practical communication tools, this conversation provides actionable advice for couples seeking to strengthen their bonds.

    Ready to transform your approach to relationship conflicts? Listen to this episode of "Us Unfiltered" for a masterclass in effective communication and conflict resolution.

    🔗 Palm Beach Therapy Center
    Therapists based in Boca Raton, FL — licensed in FL, GA, NY, NJ, MO, MI, and Washington D.C.

    25 min
  • Episode 11: Breaking Trust: Infidelity and Affair Recovery

    Can You Really Take a "Break" in Relationships? Dr. Lori and Evan Fish Tackle the Friends Ross and Rachel Debate, infidelity, the and the rocky road of affair recovery.

    Ever wondered if relationship breaks are just a loophole for infidelity? Dr. Lori Fish and her husband Evan dive deep into this controversial topic, bringing the famous "Friends" debate into real-world context. Through candid conversation, they explore the gray areas of love, commitment, and what actually constitutes betrayal in modern relationships.

    Drawing from their expertise and personal experiences, they tackle tough questions about trust, transparency, and the aftermath of infidelity. The couple emphasizes that while forgiveness might be possible, the scars of broken trust leave permanent marks on relationships.

    Key discussion points:
    - Clear communication in relationship status
    - Impact of infidelity on emotional bonds
    - Role of professional guidance in healing
    - Importance of intuition in relationships
    - Challenges faced by couples in high-travel careers

    Whether you're navigating your own relationship waters or simply curious about modern love's complexities, this episode offers valuable insights into maintaining healthy partnerships. Tune in to hear this raw, unfiltered conversation about what it really means to be "on a break" and the path to recovery from an affair.

    🔗 Palm Beach Therapy Center
    Therapists based in Boca Raton, FL — licensed in FL, GA, NY, NJ, MO, MI, and Washington D.C.

    24 min
  • Episode 10: Choosing Your Hard: Navigating Love and Divorce

    Navigating the Hard Choices in Marriage: Stay or Leave?

    Ever wondered if staying in a difficult marriage is harder than leaving it? Dr. Lori and Evan bravely open up about their personal marriage struggles and the concept of "choosing your hard" in relationships.

    In this raw and honest conversation, they explore:
    - The emotional complexities of divorce vs. working through marital problems
    - How to maintain love through challenging times
    - The critical role of open communication in preventing misunderstandings
    - Ways to prevent small issues from becoming relationship-ending problems
    - The possibility of healing from major relationship wounds, including infidelity

    After ten years together, this couple shares invaluable insights about maintaining emotional connection while facing real-world challenges. They emphasize that while love may feel unconditional, successful relationships require intentional effort and mutual respect.

    Whether you're navigating relationship challenges or seeking to strengthen your partnership, this episode offers practical wisdom and hope. Tune in to hear this candid discussion about choosing love daily, even when it's hard.

    Ready to dive deeper into relationship truths? Listen to this episode of "Us Unfiltered" for an unvarnished look at what it takes to build and maintain a lasting partnership.

    🔗 Palm Beach Therapy Center
    Therapists based in Boca Raton, FL — licensed in FL, GA, NY, NJ, MO, MI, and Washington D.C.

    15 min
  • Episode 9: Hot Takes On Modern Dating

    Ever wondered why finding love feels harder despite endless dating apps? This engaging episode dives deep into the evolution of modern relationships, from the influence of reality dating shows to the real-world challenges of turning friendship into romance. Our hosts share their personal journey, including a hilariously misinterpreted first encounter, while exploring how financial pressures, housing markets, and generational differences shape today's dating landscape.

    Key highlights:

    • The impact of dating apps on meaningful connections
    • Reality TV's influence on relationship expectations
    • Financial security's role in modern partnerships
    • The delicate transition from friendship to romance
    • Importance of emotional intelligence and authenticity
    • Dating challenges for those with children
    • Self-awareness in relationships

    The conversation weaves through practical advice, personal experiences, and candid reflections on what makes relationships work in today's world. Whether you're navigating the dating scene or curious about modern love, this episode offers valuable insights into building authentic connections.

    Ready to transform your perspective on modern relationships? Tune in to this eye-opening episode that might just change how you approach love and dating.

    🔗 Palm Beach Therapy Center
    Therapists based in Boca Raton, FL — licensed in FL, GA, NY, NJ, MO, MI, and Washington D.C.

    26 min

About Us. Unfiltered.

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Welcome to “Us. Unfiltered.”— where a licensed therapist, Dr. Lori, and her attorney husband, Evan, share honest, unfiltered talks about marriage, communication, parenting, and everything in…