Vanessa’s Lack Thereof

This is me talking about a video a psychologist made on her study of hookup culture. Women seem to get the short end of the stick. Many struggle to understand what hookups are, think it may lead to more, and end up hurting deeply when it hits the fan. So I am here to bluntly illustrate what hookup culture is for us and how, ultimately, we decide whether we will participate in it or not. Stop blaming and victimizing. Instead focus on doing what feels right for you. Expect the best and prepare for the worst. You have all the power over yourself at all times ladies. Don’t ever let any mother fucker convince you otherwise 💀💕

Just me going through the motions again because the journey has many twists and turns and dull moments that are required so I am just pushing through in the best ways I can.

Just me being vulnerable with my loneliness and sadness. Not very uplifting but necessary. Plus crying is a release which means it escapes my body when it would otherwise remain there festering. Furthermore, love, loyalty and respect are necessary for anyone interested in access to my inner circle and world.

This is a horrible recording of me having unorganized thoughts, tired voice, and stumbling through my words. Still I am keeping the momentum going by showing up for myself, especially when it’s a challenge for me to do. And I did it! Yay!

Here I am talking about power posing in public and how awkwardly painful it can be. Leading is a tough gig and I’m not sure why I feel so called to it but I’m willing to struggle through the process to learn what is necessary to be an exceptional leader. Part of this means practicing what you preach so that’s what I am doing consciously these days. I’m leveling up myself and those in my circle ⭕️✅

Just me realizing my intensity and how maybe I come off too strong. So I’m reeling it in a bit and making sure I am grounded enough to clarify why I’m like this. And see, I apologize. But only when it’s of my own free will and not forced or expected.

Here I am discussing how I hate playing roles to be “accepted” by society yet understand it’s necessary to achieve goals sometimes. I just want to be me (explosive, raw, edgy) but I know I must play it smart too. Ugh, this video game (“life”) is wack 💀💀💀

Happy Mother’s Day 2022. This is a reminder for mothers to share their child 50/50 with the kids birth father. As someone whose parent chose not to deal with me it breaks my heart to see and hear men talking about fear of losing their rights to see their child due to baby mama drama. I am in no way blaming women because I know it’s a struggle that needs facing daily and I am not taking mens side over women. Just asking for you to reconsider using kids for leverage, power, and to hurt their other parent. Because if you don’t, you may end up regretting your behavior and have your kid(s) resent you in the long term. And I think you could agree that is a price far too high to simply ignore and not do anything about. Either way, hope your pain eases, your optimism grows and your resilience strengthens. Take care of you first 💖

Here I discuss how American society, culture, media, entertainment are misleading and can be detrimental. Everyone is at war for your mind so it’s imperative for you to be the sole person in control of you. Fuck people who have no loyalty, honor, respect because that’s got nothing to do with you. And if you are these people without, it’s never too late to think for yourself & follow values and principles best for you. It’s never too late.

Just saw this film and I love everything about it! This is definitely my vibe and what I want. Love seeing it and am feeling incredibly seen and heard because of it 😆