Vanessa’s Lack Thereof

An episode on my mentality when faced with opposition from lack/poor mentality

An episode that starts off rocky then turns into a genuine confession of being forced to be around certain individuals. I hate it when this happens but I’ve got to stay on top of it and handle it as best as I can. Only time will tell…

Me speaking to young girls and ladies about what it truly means to be empowered.

Remember Vanessa: do not judge lest ye be judged. Big bodies are just as beautiful and there is no actual standard for what is “acceptable” as such. So calm the f down and live your own life n quit worrying about others.

Just an intense rant on how stupid this abortion/Roe v. Wade conversation is to me. Like people don’t have better shit to do. I’m definitely not coming off in a positive uplifting light so beware. The emotions and sentiments are true for me right now as this person sooooo 🤷🏽‍♀️🙎🏽‍♀️

I don’t agree with nor like it when people replace people whether romantic or platonic styles especially fast. Seems disingenuous to me. And so I essentially just harp on this point for the entirety of this episode

After listening to men ask women what they expect from a man interested in being with them & then asking the women what they bring to the table I was compelled to share my thoughts. I genuinely never thought of this question and find it highly intriguing that this a “thing” nowadays. Perhaps not your average perspective nor the “right” one but nevertheless I share my thoughts regardless 👽✌🏾

In this episode I am pleading for women to be more solidified within their relationships and especially their romantic ones. Quit allowing outside influences to infiltrate your bonds because for all you know they could be a wolf 🐺 in sheep 🐑 clothing. You don’t need permission to do what you feel is right and only YOU know what is best for you 💯% of the time. Trust in yourself.

Here I am discussing why it is frustrating when women dress sexy to workout then condemn and label men as sick perverts for looking their way. How you feel vs actual reality are often polar opposite and it is imperative to recognize this. No it’s not fair and yes it’s a pain in the ass for women but what else is new? Just remember sex is an innate need for humans and to condemn folks for ogling when it is being deliberately displayed is a nutty and entitled way to be. Do you but understand what your decisions can mean out in the world ladies, and please, be safe.

An episode I am talking about how alpha women get confused with what this means. Often it has a negative association but I don’t think it’s a bad thing when done respectfully. Alpha does not always equal dickhead so there’s no need for that shit Vanessa!