Vanessa’s Lack Thereof

I’ve come too far. I’m so grateful for my journey up to this point. Finally I have something for me. I can finally feel joy, purpose, and consistency in a way I’ve been dreaming of doing for years. No matter what I will keep rising and thriving. I am changing and digging myself more and more. Self-love never thought I would know you n now we’re bfff (best fucking friends forever) 👏🏾😉🫶🏾

Here I am reiterating how women can further continue to support each other even (especially) when it’s calling out ill behavior. No need to be aggressive all the time and definitely not when attempting to negotiate neutrality or diffusing a situation. If you’re like me and tired of the old inefficient way women interact with one another and you too believe in and are ready to start trying something different I got you 😉 Idealistic? Sure. Impossible? Naw. I think we got this 😊

Women I see you and respect you. That being said, can we please stop making Amber Herd like decisions. We have our reasons and it is definitely not an easy task but I believe we can unite together to begin anew. Using kids as leverage/punishment against the father and falsely accusing them of sexual violations are not the flex you think they are. I promise you you can be so much better than that. Some lines should never be crossed. But we’re humans and fallible, I get it. No judgment. And if you choose to behave this way and get caught: shut the fuck up and take what’s coming to you with as much grace as possible. I guarantee you will benefit GREATLY in the long run for it. Let’s make better decisions and women support your fellow woman out loud when she’s behaving with integrity where others would play dirty. We need encouragement not condemnation 🙋🏽‍♀️💁🏽‍♀️

Here I’m speaking on how waiting for karma to hit the person or persons who’ve done injustices to you is both unproductive as well as a burden to you. The best move by far is to figure out the best way for you to face the pain head on, genuinely heal it, thank it for the lessons, release it and move forward with no ill will. The best reason I’ve had for forgiving is that it helps me profoundly and if I don’t forgive it ONLY poisons me. The other person could care less and that’s their right. I, as well as anybody else, is not owed shit. It’s our job to love, take care of and heal ourselves. Fuck what they do. Focus on your (keeping in mind all) highest good and your soul will be fulfilled, protected, loved and you’ll lead the most beautiful life 🐛🦋💚💙

Just me talking about how people keep assuming I don’t know shit. It’s okay keep talking your trash one day it will be my turn or it won’t. Either way I’m still going to keep it pushing 👊🏾✌🏾🫠

Just want to clear a few things up about that last episode and how these things are done on my end for now 🥷🏽

This is an episode where I discuss how I once unfairly judged Trump and jumped on that hate train. After some deliberation and much time spent ruminating on the matter I realize I was wrong. Also, I am not well educated on politics and policies and I definitely need to learn more about it. But I now better understand why people supported Trump because I also feel that I too would most likely support him if he ran again on certain things this time around. I may not agree with everything he says or believes but I was wrong to base my decision solely on my feelings being hurt. I express many harsh truths and opinions while also exposing myself and how I was carried away with a narrative I actually do not fully agree with so maybe you’ll hate me after this. But in the name of truth & transparency I must speak on this and will hold back nothing. Demonize me if you want to but I am allowed to be ever changing and so are all people especially being that one of our most important missions here is to grow and evolve. Soooo… here I go 😈😈😈

In this episode I’m speaking to women who are defining themselves as independent yet also wanting to find love with a man. If you’ve been struggling to find it, I pose some reasons as to why that might be. If it’s you that’s ok I get it. Take my words with a grain of salt. And remember if it hits home, hurts or triggers you - chances are you may be the problem. And again, no shame in that game. I’ve been there TOO many times to adequately count. Self correct as you see fit and for fucks sake please stop behaving entitled, better than, obnoxious, etc. to men but especially to other women. I’m on your side, trying to agree with you. Help a bitch out. Please 🙏🏾🤓😉❤️

Possibly had too much sugar and screen time because I’m feeling loopy. Just checking in since I’ve been enjoying real life ❤️ I gotta stop recording at night or maybe just speaking longer at night. Either way I’m not normal. Keep staying the course. You got this even/especially when you feel like you don’t 🙏🏾🧘🏽‍♀️😎 #prettysureiimmediatelyregretputtingthisshitout 😵🤫🤢🤮

Had no idea what to talk about today. I tried all day long to speak some wisdom yet nothing came to me. What’s worse is that I was even feeling funky negative, low vibrational energy and thoughts. So I just took it in, accepting it for what it was and documented how I was struggling. I know I’ll overcome all obstacles and barriers so I am not worried. Just exhausted and ready for a good night’s rest. Still, I had to show up for myself; to build the habit until it is a first response thing. And even though I doubted I would, I STILL found time, energy and courage to record a lil’ somethin somethin 🙌🏾❤️ #keepmovingforward