This week, we’re talking about why it’s so hard for Catholics to find love, marriage, and that baby carriage, and how so much of the current conversation around dating is missing the mark.

P.S. We recorded this talk before the Chapmans left town both for a family funeral and to spend time with Emily’s mom, who is not doing well. Please keep them in your prayers.

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Show Notes:

“She’s Probably Not Delaying Marriage” by Cartoons Hate Her

The Dating Project

Marty

Sacred Spark

National Catholic Singles Conference

“Scarcity of College Men and the Decline in Marriage Among Non-College Americans”

“The Illusion of Many Options”

“Men on Dating Apps Are Aiming Too High, and Science Says It’s Time to Stop”

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How are Chris and Casey doing working from home with their wives? How do you reconnect with your spouse after a slew of babies in quick succession? How do you explain to your kids that your family can’t afford everything their classmates’ families can? On this week’s podcast, we’re answering these questions and more, sent to us by you.

Show Notes:

Mystic Monk Coffee

New Melleray Abbey (Dubuque Trappists)

What Do People Do All Day by Richard Scarry

The Book of Five Rings by Miyamoto Musashi

Those Who Can’t Teach Anymore podcast

Wings of Desire

My Life as a Dog

City of Angels

The Interior Castle by Saint Teresa of Avila

Summa Theologiae I-IIae Q.2 a.1 (Does happiness consist in wealth?)

Ariane Lydon

Arthur Brooks on “Reconnecting with your spouse”

Insane story told by Casey

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Social media was supposed to bring the world closer together. It was supposed to make it easier for us to understand each other, grow in knowledge, and make more informed judgements about current events. Instead, it’s often done the opposite. This week, in the wake of events in Minnesota, Switzerland, Venezuela, and Washington, DC, we’re walking through minefields as we discuss how the changing nature of journalism and the ascent of social media has contributed to confusion, chaos, political polarization, and apathy. We also hunt around for some answers about how Christians are called to navigate the whole ungodly mess.

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Show Notes

Abuse of Language, Abuse of Power by Joseph Pieper

Irreversible Damage: The Transgender Craze Seducing Our Daughters by Abigail Shrier

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This week, we’re talking to You Tube sensation, small town mortician, and (most importantly) Catholic dad of four, Victor Sweeney.

Over the past five years, Sweeney (33) has unexpectedly built a loyal following online for his penetrating insights about about death, dying, and the moments of grace made possible by both. He first began sharing that wisdom during Covid, in a series of uber viral videos for Wired. Since then, he has launched a You Tube channel, a podcast (“Death And …”), and written a book with Simon and Schuster, Now Departing: A Small Town Mortician on Death, Life, and the Moments in Between. Now, he’s sharing his wisdom with us in a fantastic conversation that we hope you enjoy as much as we did.

Show Notes

Now Departing

Victor Sweeney on Wired

“Death And” Podcast

You Tube Channel

Nick Cave and the Red Hand Files

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As the Church moves from Christmas back into Ordinary Time, we’re talking about what that transition means in our own lives. We also talk about the Chapman’s pilgrimage to Rome, Patti Smith, Bruce Springsteen, the Clarks, “The Pitt,” Christmas gifts, detective fiction, and the direction snow blows (Emily was jet lagged, folks, really jet lagged).

Show Notes:

Born to Run

Bread of Angels by Patti Smith

Russia, OH

With a Daughter’s Eye: A Memoir of Margaret Mead and Gregory Bateson

Cormoran Strike Mysteries by Robert Galbraith (aka J.K. Rowling)

Springsteen: Deliver Me From Nowhere

The Clarks

Joy Clarkson: “Not Everyone is Everything”

Ordinary Time: Lessons Learned While Staying Put

“On ‘The Pitt,’ ER Doctors Try to Fix This Broken World”

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Christmas is three days away, and for our final podcast of 2025, we’re talking about memory: how the Church understands it, what it gives to us, how it defines us, and how, especially this time of year, it shapes the way we understand and celebrate Christmas.

As a special Christmas bonus, the end of the episode features one of the Stapleton’s Christmas carols: their version of “What Star Is This?” Links to all their carols are included in the shownotes.

We are taking the next two weeks off, but are praying you have the very merriest of Christmases and the happiest of New Years. Thanks for listening!

This episode of Visitation Sessions is brought to you by Select International Tours. The Chapmans are leaving for their pilgrimage in Rome on December 26, and taking all your intentions with you. They chose Select to organize their pilgrimages because of their excitement about accommodating families with young children, their decades of experience, their faithfulness, and their professionalism. To learn more about the pilgrimages and cruises Select offers, visit selectintenationaltours.com.

Show Notes

Confessions by Saint Augustine

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind

Ikiuru

Living

“What Star is This” (Stapleton Version)

“What Child is This” (Stapleton Version)

“Huron Carol” (Stapleton Version)

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It's cold and grey and the wind is a blowin' here in the Ohio Valley, so both the Stapletons and Chapmans are doing what families have always done in such times: gathering around the fire. For us, making space for fire in our homes has been, quite literally, life-changing, making winter warmer and life more human. Today, we're reflecting on why this is, examining what fire teaches us about God and ourselves, man and woman, and who we are as a people.

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Recently, one of Emily’s readers sent her a message, expressing her frustration over her fiancee’s enjoyment of video games and asking for advice. She thought the men needed to weigh in as well, so we recorded a special bonus episode focused on the question.

We do these bonus episodes about once a month, to thank those of you who make this podcast possi…

Before Emily and Chris headed off to Illinois, we sat down to chat about the good, the bad, and the necessary of Thanksgiving. Kate shared stories, Casey cracked jokes, Emily wept, and Chris philosophized. So, pretty much your typical episode, only this time with a side of gravy.

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Yes, Emily wrote another book. Yes, it’s getting obnoxious. And yes, we’re talking about it anyways. But, we’re also talking about aging and traveling and beer and Puritans and holiness and toxic teas and a whole lot more. It’s a great conversation, and we’re happy to have you join us for another episode of Visitation Sessions.

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Show Notes:

Sacred Wine: The Holy Heritage and History of Catholic Vintners

“Why Doesn’t Anyone Want to Make French Wine Anymore” by Josephine de La Bruyère

“Why the Germans Are Falling Out of Love With Beer” (The Economist)

Franciscan University Austrian Summer Experience

Shop the Chapman’s Online Bookstore

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