Waking Up From Breaking Up

The twelfth and final component in C.A.R.T. is TIMING! 

What does timing mean in healthy committed relationships? Timing in relationships pertains to commitment readiness. We all know that relationships take commitment. Committing to work through the rough times, because LOVE is NOT enough.

The truth is, there is never a perfect or ideal time to initiate a relationship. There are different reasons why we might not feel like entering into a committed relationship. Many say that if they are undergoing distressing circumstances in their lives, they cannot commit to someone else. And that makes perfect sense because readiness impacts behavior over various stages of building a relationship. What you should be striving for is to be familiar with the “baggage” that you will bring in the relationship.

Jagtar and Kate share their relationship history and how timing played a huge role in the progression of their relationship. 

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The eleventh component in C.A.R.T. is TRUST! If there is no trust in a relationship, then there is no point in the relationship.

Trust is built through communication, listening, understanding, compassion, empathy, priority, and setting healthy boundaries. Someone's trust is earned over time but can be lost in a blink of an eye. 

Javi and Ivana share how they have built trust in their relationship by listening, understanding, and having compassion for each other. They have created a safe space for each other to express their insecurities and concerns and have grown and developed a strong foundation in their relationship.

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The tenth component in C.A.R.T. is RESPECT!

Noe is back with his wife, Deb! They share how their cultural differences played a role in their relationship in the early stages of dating and how they had to adjust accordingly. 

Deb & Noe have different upbringings and different ways that they were raised. They bring two unique cultural perspectives into their relationship and they discuss accepting and respecting their differences. They share how their cultural polarity has played a role in their relationship, especially when they first started dating, their relationship with each other's families, and how they have accepted and respected each other for their uniqueness. 

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The ninth component in C.A.R.T. is ATTRACTION!

Natasha is a spicy Columbian who shares her thoughts on how attraction plays a role, not just in her marriage, but in friendships. Attraction goes beyond the physical, listen to the conversation about the different forces at play during marriages, romantic relationships, and friendships. In this episode, you'll get ideas on how to ignite and keep the fire inside an apex of healthy attraction.

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The eighth component in C.A.R.T. is ACCEPTANCE!

Accepting is about knowing that relationships take work and a good understanding of your partner’s differences. Victoria and Gustavo share how their differences have helped build trust in their relationship, but also grow as individuals by challenging each other's mindsets. They have not just accepted, but they have created a healthy balance in their differences. Remaining open-minded helped change their view regarding relationships and strengthened their bond. 

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This episode is a reflection section of the previous episode with Greg White and the topic of Disney and how Disney and other pop culture movies negatively impacted people's relationships and belief in love in adulthood. Real-life love stories aren't fairy tales and happily ever after, but relationships are up and down, and they take commitment and work from both people. Disney and other movies back in the '90s romanticized codependency and so many relationships have suffered because of it. So much of what we learned and are influenced by in childhood shapes who we are as adults. As adults, we have to rewire our minds and release those beliefs in able to build healthy, interdependent romantic relationships.

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This week we have another local Vancouver comedian, Greg White. Greg brings a unique acronym to what makes a committed relationship strive, FTT. Fun! Trust! Tolerance! 

We even go beyond discussing FTT and talk about Disney princesses, and more importantly how to disengage in a conflict and disagreements. Sometimes having empathy and listening to someone can go a long way. Greg gives his insights, and perspectives on how he is learning and going through life!

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Nancy Ho is another hilarious Vancouver comedian.  She shares her insight about being a female comedian, the unhealthy power dynamics in a relationship, and letting go of friendships that no longer inspire her. She is superhuman; raising a 13-year-old as a single mother, working a full-time HR job, and being a comedian, while staying young by taking care of her mental, emotional, and physical well-being. 

Connect with Nancy on Instagram @nancyhohaha. To find out more about her comedy shows, check out her website here.

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This week's episode is Part 2 of the interview with Vancouver comedian Al Dee.  He takes us on a journey from being an engineer to becoming a comedian, and now being a dating podcast host. We discuss his struggles and growth as an upcoming comedian and talk about how he practically laughs through life and uses his past experiences and trauma in his comedy.

Connect with Al on Instagram at @happysanko and @bestbeforedates. Check out his podcast on Spotify or on Apple Podcast. To get tickets to his comedy shows, check out his website here.

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The seventh component in C.A.R.T. is ADMIRATION!

There is no one other couple better than Minh and Savannah to show what admiration is in a committed relationship! The way they spoke about each other, the affection they have, and the love they show clearly indicate how much admiration they have for their relationship. They share their story of how they began dating, and how their past experiences have helped build who they are today. Their love is evident in how much they can be fully themselves without any reservation. They admire every aspect of each other!

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