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  • EPISODE 88: Belonging and Kids

    “Belonging is being accepted for being you. Fitting in is being accepted for being like everyone else.”  - Brene Brown

    As we head back to school we thought we should take a break and talk about belonging.  This impacts our children and it impacts us.  Today we talk about the kids.  Don’t be surprised if we talk a  bit about our inner voice and our authentic self. .  

    The challenge is that belonging isn’t measured by simply participating in activities like eating dinner together as a family, showing up to a school building, or joining a group. Belonging is measured by how we feel about ourselves and others once we get there.  

    We spend time in this episode sharing the ways we can start building a sense of belonging at home.  It is not the easiest thing to do but we can start with simple steps like making rhythms and memories. We can give our children, and children in our lives a safe place to belong.  

    Just take it from Mister Rogers, who knew how important it was for children to know that “I like you just the way you are.”  And join us this week as we talk about how we can help the children in our lives find that sense of belonging. 

     

    GO BOLDLY HOMEWORK

    1. Journal time. Think back to your  time as a child. When did you experience a sense of belonging? Was it with family or friends? Write why you felt that way? What triggered your sense of belonging?
    2. If there are children in your life, what can you do to help ensure they have a sense of safety and belonging when with you?

     

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    Website: www.goboldlyinitiative.com

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    Twitter: https://twitter.com/goboldlypodcast

    Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/wegoboldly

    Did you enjoy this episode? We would love to hear your thoughts and more about your personal development journey. Head to Apple Podcasts and then rate, review, and subscribe. This way you will get notified once a new episode goes live. Don’t forget to find us and subscribe on YouTube too.

    CONNECT WITH RIELLY AND TOVAH

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goboldlytogether/

    Website: goboldlyinitiative.com or https://we-go-boldly-podcast.simplecast.com/

    YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsPh8gu_ugJqvvnYiuRSyPQ

    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/company/go-boldly-initiative

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GoBoldlyTogether

    1 hr 1 min
  • EPISODE 87: Selfcare and Boundaries

    Interested in self-care and boundaries and how they go together? Join us today for the final episode of Season 6, our journey into busyness and self-worth. Today we take on the potentially confusing and often abused topic of self care. Setting boundaries is one of the best and most cost effective ways of participating in actual self-care. All of this leads us to address our role in the busyness we engage in within our lives. 

    Join us today for all of this and more on We Go Boldly. 

    GO BOLDLY HOMEWORK

    1.  Journal: We are practicing boundary setting. Visualize and name your limits.  Think about what kind of boundaries you have in your life.  Make a list of the boundaries you have already set. These don’t have to be huge boundaries. Go through the process we talked about before. Picture it as an actual boundary. Make a plan for setting your limits and communicating those limits in a kind and positive way. Add other boundaries you would like to add to the list and think about how you will set those. 
    2. If you are not participating in self care, figure out how you can fit it into your life.  What selfcare is most important to you.
    3. Reach out to us on social/email/website and let us know how it goes. 

     

    RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW

     

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    CONNECT WITH RIELLY AND TOVAH

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goboldlytogether/

    Website: www.goboldlyinitiative.com

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Go-Boldly-Together-105942584706928

    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/company/go-boldly-initiative

    YouTube: http://bit.ly/boldlyyoutube

    Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/GoBoldlyTogether/_saved/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/goboldlypodcast

    Patreon: 

    https://www.patreon.com/wegoboldly

    Did you enjoy this episode? We would love to hear your thoughts and more about your personal development journey. Head to Apple Podcasts and then rate, review, and subscribe. This way you will get notified once a new episode goes live. Don’t forget to find us and subscribe on YouTube too.

    CONNECT WITH RIELLY AND TOVAH

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goboldlytogether/

    Website: goboldlyinitiative.com or https://we-go-boldly-podcast.simplecast.com/

    YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsPh8gu_ugJqvvnYiuRSyPQ

    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/company/go-boldly-initiative

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GoBoldlyTogether

    56 min
  • EPISODE 86: Society and Busyness

    “You don’t always have to be doing something. You can just be, and that’s plenty.” - Alice Walker

    Buckle up friends.  This is a big and very important conversation.  Tovah and Rielly talk about white supremacy, the patriarchy, and even capitalism.  Truth be told they are all connected.  We are definitely not the first to have these thoughts and thus we will be directing you to a lot of great resources including but not limited to Tricia Hersey with the @napministry.

    In case you’re wondering what this has to do with burn out, don’t worry, it has everything to do with busyness. The report found that 68 percent of working moms say they’re burned out compared with 42 percent of working dads. Not only are we working more and spending more time with our children—we have less help. This leads to our conversation on the human giver syndrome as recently highlighted in the book Burnout by Emily Nagoski and Amelia Nagoski.  

    Life feels hard because it is hard.  It is time to recognize the system we live in is part of the reason. Whether you’re new to thinking about these issues or not these are important conversations to have and we are glad to have you! 

    GO BOLDLY HOMEWORK

    1. Time for some journaling.  Ask yourself a few questions: 
      1. Am I assuming this woman has a moral obligation to be pretty, happy, calm, generous, or attentive to the needs of others?
      2. Am I assuming this man has a moral right and obligation to be competitive and acquisitive, to take and have anything he can, regardless of the impact on others?
      3. How am I contributing to a patriarchal system? What am I doing every day to make it worse and make it better? 
    2. Take some time to broaden your world.  Look in both real life and online to expand your circle to include those who do not have the same life experiences. Listen and learn.

    RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW

    Did you enjoy this episode? We would love to hear your thoughts. Head to Apple Podcasts and then rate, review, and subscribe. This way you will get notified once a new episode goes live.

     

    *Note that the reference to any article, author, and/or source is not an endorsement of the same. It is for informational purposes only.

    CONNECT WITH RIELLY AND TOVAH

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goboldlytogether/

    Website: www.goboldlyinitiative.com

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Go-Boldly-Together-105942584706928

    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/company/go-boldly-initiative

    YouTube: http://bit.ly/boldlyyoutube

    Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/GoBoldlyTogether/_saved/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/goboldlypodcast

    Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/wegoboldly

    Did you enjoy this episode? We would love to hear your thoughts and more about your personal development journey. Head to Apple Podcasts and then rate, review, and subscribe. This way you will get notified once a new episode goes live. Don’t forget to find us and subscribe on YouTube too.

    CONNECT WITH RIELLY AND TOVAH

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goboldlytogether/

    Website: goboldlyinitiative.com or https://we-go-boldly-podcast.simplecast.com/

    YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsPh8gu_ugJqvvnYiuRSyPQ

    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/company/go-boldly-initiative

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GoBoldlyTogether

    1 hr 4 min
  • EPISODE 85: Pinterest Perfect Parenting

    It's time to get serious…of course that’s what we’ve been doing all season but this week we get serious about perfectionism and “pinterest parenting.” What happens when we set goals and achievements for our kids without reflecting on what our kids need?  What happens when we set unrealistic expectations for ourselves as parents? When we demand perfectionism of ourselves, what are we teaching our kids?

    There are some truths shared today (truths that Tovah wants to ignore). We talk about the good, the bad, and the ugly of perfection parenting.  We also talk about how we can do things differently. 

    Join us this week as we all work on making sure we can navigate parenthood and life without perfectionism. 

    GO BOLDLY HOMEWORK

    1. Grab your journals!  If you are a parent, think about how you are parenting right now.  Are you pushing your kids to be something or do something that they are not? Do you feel that perfectionism or demanding?
    2. Keep journaling and think about your childhood and reflect on what your experience was like growing up?  Did you have this kind of perfectionism in your life?  (Only do this if it is safe.  If not, reach out to a therapist.)
    3. Take a minute to journal about your ideal day with your kids and how you would be. Compare this to how you were raised and how you are currently raising your kids. 

    RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW

    Did you enjoy this episode? We would love to hear your thoughts. Head to Apple Podcasts and then rate, review, and subscribe. This way you will get notified once a new episode goes live.

    *Note that the reference to any article, author, and/or source is not an endorsement of the same. It is for informational purposes only.

    CONNECT WITH RIELLY AND TOVAH

     

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goboldlytogether/

    Website: www.goboldlyinitiative.com

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Go-Boldly-Together-105942584706928

    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/company/go-boldly-initiative

    YouTube: http://bit.ly/boldlyyoutube

    Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/GoBoldlyTogether/_saved/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/goboldlypodcast

    Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/wegoboldly

    Did you enjoy this episode? We would love to hear your thoughts and more about your personal development journey. Head to Apple Podcasts and then rate, review, and subscribe. This way you will get notified once a new episode goes live. Don’t forget to find us and subscribe on YouTube too.

    CONNECT WITH RIELLY AND TOVAH

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goboldlytogether/

    Website: goboldlyinitiative.com or https://we-go-boldly-podcast.simplecast.com/

    YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsPh8gu_ugJqvvnYiuRSyPQ

    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/company/go-boldly-initiative

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GoBoldlyTogether

    1 hr 4 min
  • EPISODE 84: Busyness & Worth with Jordana Horn

    All season long we are continuing our conversation around busyness and self-worth. This week we are going even deeper.  We are thrilled to continue our interview series with a fellow podcaster and parenting expert, Jordana Horn Gordon.

    Jordana Horn has been deemed a ‘parenting expert’ by both the NBC Today Show and Fox and Friends…so it must be true! She’s host of the popular parenting podcast “Call Your Mother,” and interviews parents on everything from celebrity to addiction, and host of the podcast “Characters on the Couch” which takes a deep dive into the psychological makeup of popular TV characters. Jordana is a contributing editor at the Jewish parenting site Kveller, and has written extensively on parenting for The Today Show, The Washington Post and The New York Times, among other publications. 

    She has been a panelist and panel moderator across the country on parenting. She studied English and communications at the University of Pennsylvania, went to graduate school for international relations at the London School of Economics, and got her J.D. from the University of Pennsylvania Law School. She is a retired attorney and past New York bureau chief for Israel’s largest English-language newspaper, The Jerusalem Post. 

    She’s mother to six children aged 7-18, and has the not-insubstantial undereye bags to prove it. In her spare time, she reads and tries to save American democracy through voter registration and engagement.

    Join us today for this most excellent conversation with Jordana!

    You can learn more about Jordana Horn by following her on Twitter at @jordanakvells.

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    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goboldlytogether/

    Website: goboldlythepodcast.com

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Go-Boldly-Together-105942584706928

    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/company/go-boldly-initiative

    YouTube: http://bit.ly/boldlyyoutube

    Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/GoBoldlyTogether/_saved/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/goboldlypodcast

    Patreon: 

    https://www.patreon.com/wegoboldl

    y

    Did you enjoy this episode? We would love to hear your thoughts and more about your personal development journey. Head to Apple Podcasts and then rate, review, and subscribe. This way you will get notified once a new episode goes live. Don’t forget to find us and subscribe on YouTube too.

    CONNECT WITH RIELLY AND TOVAH

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goboldlytogether/

    Website: goboldlyinitiative.com or https://we-go-boldly-podcast.simplecast.com/

    YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsPh8gu_ugJqvvnYiuRSyPQ

    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/company/go-boldly-initiative

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GoBoldlyTogether

    1 hr 9 min
  • EPISODE 83: Goals and Achievement

    Welcome to this week’s conversation all about goals and achievement.  Why do we set all of these goals?  What are we trying to prove?  Rielly and Tovah are fans of goal setting as much as the next person, actually quite a lot more, but they are not fans of goals for the sake of goals.  That is next level achievement culture getting in the way.  

    Achievement Culture and setting goals for the sake of setting goals rather than to actually achieve our dreams is not the path to a limitless life. 

    We talk all about the rat race, what we do to our kids in school, and how we can decide when to opt out of the achievement culture. The good news is that you CAN achieve your goals and be present! 

    Join us as we talk about how we can have your cake and eat it too. No seriously, there is a way to set goals that matter without getting caught in the rat race. 

    GO BOLDLY HOMEWORK

    1. Bust at that journal. Look at your 5 year plan (If you have one).  Why is that your plan?  Does it fit with who you are? Does it connect with your authentic self? Are you simply checking the boxes?
    2. Do something purely because you want.  With no goal. What kind of fun are you going to have this week?  Don’t forget to share what you did with us on social media. 

     

    RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW

    Did you enjoy this episode? We would love to hear your thoughts. Head to Apple Podcasts and then rate, review, and subscribe. This way you will get notified once a new episode goes live.

    *Note that the reference to any article, author, and/or source is not an endorsement of the same. It is for informational purposes only.

     

    CONNECT WITH RIELLY AND TOVAH

     

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goboldlytogether/

    Website: www.goboldlyinitiative.com

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Go-Boldly-Together-105942584706928

    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/company/go-boldly-initiative

    YouTube: http://bit.ly/boldlyyoutube

    Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/GoBoldlyTogether/_saved/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/goboldlypodcast

    Patreon: 

    https://www.patreon.com/wegoboldly

    Did you enjoy this episode? We would love to hear your thoughts and more about your personal development journey. Head to Apple Podcasts and then rate, review, and subscribe. This way you will get notified once a new episode goes live. Don’t forget to find us and subscribe on YouTube too.

    CONNECT WITH RIELLY AND TOVAH

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goboldlytogether/

    Website: goboldlyinitiative.com or https://we-go-boldly-podcast.simplecast.com/

    YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsPh8gu_ugJqvvnYiuRSyPQ

    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/company/go-boldly-initiative

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GoBoldlyTogether

    56 min
  • EPISODE 82: Busyness and Worth with Jessica Medina

    All season long we are continuing our conversation around busyness and self-worth. We’ve covered a lot of ground already though I suspect we could spend an entire year talking about this subject. Today we are thrilled to continue our interview series with our own financial guru, and accredited Financial Counselor Jessica Medina.

    Jessica Medina is a former lawyer turned Accredited Financial Counselor on a mission to help attorneys figure out their finances so they can pursue their true passions, no matter the salary. She graduated from Columbia Law School as a single mom of twins with over $200,000 in student loans, took a stroll through Biglaw and the federal government, and now teaches other lawyers how to use their money to finance their dream lives. 

    She has taken her financial knowledge to build a life that can be lived outside of the confines of the office.  She helps her clients do the same thing.

    Welcome Jessica!

    You can learn more about Jessica Medina by following her on Instagram @jessicamedinallc.

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    Website: goboldlythepodcast.com

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Go-Boldly-Together-105942584706928

    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/company/go-boldly-initiative

    YouTube: http://bit.ly/boldlyyoutube

    Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/GoBoldlyTogether/_saved/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/goboldlypodcast

    Patreon: 

    https://www.patreon.com/wegoboldl

    y

    Did you enjoy this episode? We would love to hear your thoughts and more about your personal development journey. Head to Apple Podcasts and then rate, review, and subscribe. This way you will get notified once a new episode goes live. Don’t forget to find us and subscribe on YouTube too.

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    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goboldlytogether/

    Website: goboldlyinitiative.com or https://we-go-boldly-podcast.simplecast.com/

    YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsPh8gu_ugJqvvnYiuRSyPQ

    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/company/go-boldly-initiative

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GoBoldlyTogether

    1 hr 5 min
  • EPISODE 81: Comparisons; Expectations, Judgements & Self-Worth

    We Go Boldly into uncharted territory today with a special guest co-host! As we dig into the difficult world of comparisons we are so fortunate to have a dear friend of the show, Bunmi Emenejo join us on this episode. We explore the ins and outs of what it means to spend your life constantly comparing yourself to either yourself and/or to others.

    We discuss the ways in which we sabotage our own happiness by consistently comparing our current state to what we expected, imagined or were told to want. Thinking and talking through how to combat the urge to wonder “what if, if only, I should just” and all the other ways that we compare our current lives to what might have been. 

    Beyond self-comparison we often find ourselves comparing our circumstances to those of the people around us in real life, online, on social media, at work and everywhere in between. These types of endless comparisons lead us to stray from our own purpose, feel insecure, depressed, unworthy and down. We fail to recognize our own strengths as we spend our time comparing our characteristics to people we know nothing about. 

    Tune in to hear our conversation all around busyness, self-worth, comparisons and don’t forget to rate, review, and subscribe while you’re there!

    GO BOLDLY HOMEWORK

    1. We’re coming with two homework choices.  First think about what is harder for you right now.  Is it comparing yourself to where you think you should be?  Or is it comparing yourself to others.
      • If you struggle with comparing yourself to yourself, grab your journal.  Keep track of what triggers you to compare yourself to yourself. 
      • If you struggle with comparing yourself to others, take a social media break.  Step away from social media for a week.  As we know social media is a prime place where we compare ourselves to others.  Give yourself a break.
    2. Lastly, stop over on Instagram or if you’re taking a social media break send a message on our website, and tell us how you are doing.

     

    RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW

    Did you enjoy this episode? We would love to hear your thoughts. Head to Apple Podcasts and then rate, review, and subscribe. This way you will get notified once a new episode goes live.

     

    *Note that the reference to any article, author, and/or source is not an endorsement of the same. It is for informational purposes only.

     

    CONNECT WITH RIELLY AND TOVAH

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goboldlytogether/

    Website: www.goboldlyinitiative.com

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Go-Boldly-Together-105942584706928

    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/company/go-boldly-initiative

    YouTube: http://bit.ly/boldlyyoutube

    Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/GoBoldlyTogether/_saved/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/goboldlypodcast

    Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/wegoboldly

    Did you enjoy this episode? We would love to hear your thoughts and more about your personal development journey. Head to Apple Podcasts and then rate, review, and subscribe. This way you will get notified once a new episode goes live. Don’t forget to find us and subscribe on YouTube too.

    CONNECT WITH RIELLY AND TOVAH

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goboldlytogether/

    Website: goboldlyinitiative.com or https://we-go-boldly-podcast.simplecast.com/

    YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsPh8gu_ugJqvvnYiuRSyPQ

    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/company/go-boldly-initiative

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GoBoldlyTogether

    1 hr 8 min
  • EPISODE 80: Busyness and Worth with Michaela Birdyshaw

    All season long we are continuing our conversation around busyness and self-worth. We’ve covered a lot of ground already though I suspect we could spend an entire year talking about this subject. Today we are thrilled to continue our interview series with a wonderful colleague and all around fascinating human, Michaela Birdyshaw.

    Michaela Birdyshaw is the founder of Joy Enterprises where her coaching business, Joy Inc, is on a mission to help you find joy and to give joy amidst the chaos and confusion of life. Joy is not the absence of suffering, nor is it merely the experience of happiness: Joy is the journey we create within. 

    Michaela graduated twice from UNC Wilmington with a Bachelors in Social Work, Minor in Psychology, and Certificate to teach High School English (essentially an English Degree and teaching certification). After running the family manufacturing business for 10 years with a focus on business organization and marketing, she established her place in the business world. She is ordained through the Universal Life Church, and she has found her calling as a Certified Personal Life coach through the World Coaching Institute. As a mother of two and a social butterfly, Michaela is very active in her community, local schools, church, Girl Scouts, recreation sports, and so much more.

    As a life coach and facilitator, her mission is to work with you to find joy and to give joy while navigating this bumpy road we individually and collectively travel. She aims to empower others to shine their brightest light so that we all may glow a little brighter - which is the only way she knows to change the world. 

    The world is going mad trying to divide us from one another and from ourselves, Michaela offers you an invitation back to who you are truly meant to be. Join us today to learn about Michaela!

    You can learn more about Michaela Birdyshaw by following her on Instagram @myjoycoach

    RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW

    Did you enjoy this episode? We would love to hear your thoughts. Head to Apple Podcasts and then rate, review, and subscribe. This way you will get notified once a new episode goes live.

    CONNECT WITH RIELLY AND TOVAH

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goboldlytogether/

    Website: goboldlythepodcast.com

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Go-Boldly-Together-105942584706928

    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/company/go-boldly-initiative

    YouTube: http://bit.ly/boldlyyoutube

    Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/GoBoldlyTogether/_saved/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/goboldlypodcast

    Patreon: 

    https://www.patreon.com/wegoboldly

    Did you enjoy this episode? We would love to hear your thoughts and more about your personal development journey. Head to Apple Podcasts and then rate, review, and subscribe. This way you will get notified once a new episode goes live. Don’t forget to find us and subscribe on YouTube too.

    CONNECT WITH RIELLY AND TOVAH

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goboldlytogether/

    Website: goboldlyinitiative.com or https://we-go-boldly-podcast.simplecast.com/

    YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsPh8gu_ugJqvvnYiuRSyPQ

    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/company/go-boldly-initiative

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GoBoldlyTogether

    1 hr 1 min
  • EPISODE 79: Looking for self worth in other people

    Today we are boldly exploring the consequences of the proverbial putting all your eggs in other peoples baskets. Yes we are mixing metaphors and loving it. In our continued discussion of busyness and self worth we examine the pitfalls of putting your self-worth in someone else's hands. 

    The truth is we all have been there to some degree at some point in time. Seeking external validation to confirm that we are worth it, our dreams are worth it, our existence is valued and cherished. What happens when we fail to build ourselves up without all that outside help though? Or when we never learn how?

    On today’s episode we dive into that dark and doomy topic to think about the ramifications of a world where we don’t know our own worth. There are things we can do to build our self worth, re-examine the way we look at the world, change our lens and try again. There is always hope, and homework, to help you get where you want to go. Tune in today!

    GO BOLDLY HOMEWORK

    1. Look back on an experience where you were proud but you didn’t receive the external validation.  Journal how you felt?  How did it affect you going forward?
    2. For the rest of the week, pay attention to when you are waiting for external validation.  What is the reason behind that? Think about how you are feeing when that happens. 

    RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW

    Did you enjoy this episode? We would love to hear your thoughts. Head to Apple Podcasts and then rate, review, and subscribe. This way you will get notified once a new episode goes live.

    *Note that the reference to any article, author, and/or source is not an endorsement of the same. It is for informational purposes only.

    CONNECT WITH RIELLY AND TOVAH

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goboldlytogether/

    Website: www.goboldlyinitiative.com

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Go-Boldly-Together-105942584706928

    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/company/go-boldly-initiative

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About We Go Boldly Podcast

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We Go Boldly is the podcast for women in midlife and otherwise who are questioning the rules, redefining themselves, and refusing to settle for a life that no longer fits. Through honest conversations…