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  • The Surprising Science of "Puppy Dog Eyes" (And Why It Eases Suffering)

    What is the surprising science of "puppy dog eyes"? Itโ€™s a complex cocktail of neurochemicals, led by oxytocin, that reduces stress, anxiety, and pain when humans and dogs interact . In this interview, Tombot founder Tom Stevens explains how dogs were selectively bred for millennia to have unique eye muscles that imitate human babies, triggering our innate need to care for them. This powerful bond is the reason he created an AI-driven robotic pet after his mother's Alzheimer's diagnosis forced him to make a heartbreaking choiceโ€”taking away her beloved real dogโ€”a decision that turned him from the "good son" to the "villain" in her eyes. Check out the company: https://www.tombot.com


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    ๐Ÿ•’ CHAPTERS

    00:00 - I Became The Villain to My Mom After Her Alzheimer's Diagnosis

    03:47 - How Alzheimer's Turned My Sweet Mom Mean & Nasty

    07:49 - The Guilt of Becoming a Parent to My Own Parent

    11:14 - The Unsettling Reality of a Loved One's Cognitive Decline

    15:17 - The Hidden Dangers of Psychotropic Drugs for Seniors

    22:32 - The Human-Animal Bond is a Powerful Neurochemical Cocktail

    26:14 - The Science of "Puppy Dog Eyes"

    29:56 - How We Bred Dogs to Imitate Human Babies

    33:48 - Why Our Robotic Pet Can't Talk

    37:25 - A New Tool to Monitor Sundowning Syndrome in Dementia Patients

    41:13 - You Don't Have to Be a Lone Ranger in Your Struggle


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    45 min
  • Being a Founder Will Reveal The Worst Parts of Yourself

    What if the entrepreneurial journey isn't about finding your best self, but confronting the worst parts of yourself? According to CEO Mark Stouse, being a founder is a primal sort of situation that will bring out things that shock the hell out of you. In this brutally honest interview, Mark exposes the "killing it" lie, where founders project confidence in public but are in the proverbial fetal position in private. He explains why entrepreneurship is a path of pain and suffering and why you must finish the race or risk being worse off than when you started. Check out the company: https://www.proofanalytics.ai


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    ๐Ÿ•’ CHAPTERS

    00:00 - The Disproportionate Effect a Founder Has on Culture

    04:26 - The "Killing It" Lie: What CEOs Say vs. How They Really Feel

    09:04 - Entrepreneurship Is a Path of Pain & Suffering

    13:24 - Discovering Things That Shock The Hell Out Of You

    17:52 - Why You Must Finish The Race (Or Be Worse Off Than Before)

    22:09 - The Critical Importance of Market Timing

    26:04 - The Tranche Funding Model That Prevents Dilution

    30:48 - The Price You Pay For Playing Hardball With Investors

    35:12 - Founders Are Athletes, Corporate CEOs Are Chess Players

    43:33 - The Future of Work is Contract-Based, Not Full-Time

    48:31 - Never Lose Sight of What's Truly Important


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    53 min
  • AI Will Just Help You Suck Quicker" A Sales Expert's Warning

    What is the real impact of AI in sales? According to Global Chief Revenue Officer Alan Versteeg, for most people, it will just help you suck quicker. In this brutally honest interview, Alan warns that AI without the right intention will lead to more laziness and canned messages, further damaging the sales profession. He reveals that the top-performing salespeople in the world are not defined by their process, but by their value system and selling with a noble purpose. You'll also learn his advanced technique of "empathetic objection prevention" and the ultimate lesson for scaling any business: focus on who, not how. Check out the company: https://www.growthmattersintl.com


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    ๐Ÿ•’ CHAPTERS

    00:00 - The Lifelong Lesson: Know What You Can't Control

    04:54 - AI Will Just Help You Suck Quicker

    09:30 - Treat Them Like a Client, Not a Prospect

    14:02 - The Founder's Dilemma: Scaling Your Conviction

    18:11 - A Sales Process is a Guardrail, Not a Production Line

    22:40 - Empathetic Objection Prevention: How to Build Trust

    26:49 - The Chef, The Recipe & The Ingredients: A Sales Analogy

    31:10 - Data is a Tool, Not The Truth

    35:17 - Values Trump Value: The Secret of Top Performers

    39:17 - The Ultimate Growth Secret: It's Who, Not How


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    44 min
  • I Treated Dating Like a Sales Funnel (And It Was Unfulfilling)

    Have you ever found yourself dating like a sales funnel? For entrepreneur Don Finley, it meant trying to "close" a date in three messages on an app. In this surprisingly personal interview, Don and Sean explore the uncanny similarities between business and modern relationships. They break down the confusing rise of the "situationship" , the unique six-month "contract" Don has in his current relationship , and how unfounded jealousy can destroy what seems like a perfect partnership. Check out the company: https://www.findustries.co


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    ๐Ÿ•’ CHAPTERS

    00:00 - I Treated Dating Like a Sales Funnel

    05:26 - Trying to "Close" a Date in 3 Messages

    10:12 - Why I Quit Using Dating Apps

    15:30 - The "Situationship" Lie: Why Modern Dating is Broken

    20:51 - Dating in Asia vs. The West: A Path to Commitment

    26:25 - Our 6-Month "Relationship Contract"

    31:33 - She Was Perfect, But Jealousy Destroyed Everything

    36:42 - How My Myers-Briggs "Shadow" Became My Partner

    41:58 - The Hardest Lesson I Learned From a Breakup

    47:23 - The Challenge of Finding Love While Traveling


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    53 min
  • I Did 920 CEO Calls in 90 Days. Here's How I Read People in 60 Seconds.

    After 920 CEO calls in just 90 days, venture capitalist Jeremy Barr reveals how I read people in the first 60 seconds of any meeting. He explains how to analyze nonverbal cues like eye movement, body language, and microexpressions, which he says account for 95% of all communication. In this intense interview, Jeremy also shares his brutal philosophy on resilienceโ€”that you must have a mission you are "willing to die for"โ€”and his controversial take that burnout is not a function of time and energy, but a lack of emotional engagement. Check out the company: https://accerelatedcoachingbyjeremybarr.com


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    ๐Ÿ•’ CHAPTERS

    00:00 - You Must Have Something You're Willing to Die For

    03:50 - Why "Trying Harder" Won't Give You Resilience

    07:31 - The "Seed Traits" I Look For in Every Founder

    11:05 - I Did 920 CEO Calls in 90 Days. Here's What I Learned.

    14:34 - How to Read Anyone in the First 60 Seconds

    18:23 - The Conversation Algorithm I Used to Make 300 Friends

    22:34 - Burnout Isn't About Time & Energy, It's About This

    26:31 - "Start with Human Desires, End with Human Impact"

    30:41 - Why I Reject "Power Law" Investing

    34:47 - The World Runs on 3 Insecurities (Master Them & Win)


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    39 min
  • Doctors Told Us We Could Never Have a Family. They Were Wrong.

    After doctors told him and his wife they could never have a family, Ari Tulla embarked on a 15-year journey to heal her. In this deeply personal interview, the CEO of Elo Health shares the story of his wife's thyroid tumor, the subsequent autoimmune issues, and the radical diet that ultimately saved them and allowed them to have two healthy kids. Ari also provides a masterclass on the realities of the startup world, explaining why most founders are just "buying customers" instead of achieving true product-market fit. Check out the company: https://www.elo.health


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    ๐Ÿ•’ CHAPTERS

    00:00 - The Day My Wife Was Diagnosed With a Tumor

    02:12 - "You Will Never Have a Family": Our Devastating Verdict

    04:30 - Our 15-Year Battle to Heal Her Body

    08:01 - The Anti-Inflammatory Diet That Saved Us

    10:15 - Why The Modern Food System is Broken

    12:54 - Startups Aren't a Sunday Drive, They're a Formula One Race

    17:47 - The Product-Market Fit Illusion (A Techstars Secret)

    21:30 - This One Meal Will Impact Your Entire Day

    25:15 - How I Learned a New "Sense" in My Body

    30:15 - A Controversial Truth: It's All Just Hormones


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    56 min
  • How Parenting an Autistic Son Humanized Me as a CEO

    How does parenting an autistic son change you as a leader? For entrepreneur Ken Cox, it forced him to change everything about his own perceptions of being a father. In this deeply personal interview, Ken shares his family's journey, from noticing his son was different at just six months old , to the challenging and expensive diagnosis process. He opens up about the daily realities of raising a nonverbal son who has "zero acknowledgement of consequence" and how the experience has ultimately made him a more human, empathetic, and present CEO. Check out the company: https://www.hostirian.com


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    ๐Ÿ•’ CHAPTERS

    00:00 - Parenting the Son I Had, Not the Son I Wanted

    03:09 - He Was Different From The Day He Was Born

    06:20 - The Father-Son Bonding That Never Happened

    09:30 - Our $6,000 Journey to an Autism Diagnosis

    13:00 - A House Filled With Locks on Every Drawer & Door

    16:04 - Our Binary Language: How We Communicate

    19:28 - The "Tickle Button": How We Bond Physically

    22:42 - He Knows He Has Autism, and It Frustrates Him

    29:37 - Giving Him a Safe Space to Be Free

    33:19 - A Life Without Filters: His Sensory Experience

    36:52 - My Son, The Escape Artist

    40:25 - The Most Important Lesson He Taught Me


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    41 min
  • The #1 Regret of Top Investors? Not Firing People Sooner.

    What's the biggest mistake in a business turnaround? According to top private equity investors, it's not firing people sooner. In this brutally honest interview, retail restructuring expert Michael Appel explains why making tough personnel changes quickly is the most critical factor for survival. You'll learn the first thing he analyzes in any struggling business (liquidity), the ultimate test for a company's viability: "If this company went outta business tomorrow, would anybody care?," and his insider's breakdown of the awful strategy shift that ended Bed Bath & Beyond. Check out the company: https://www.gentzlerhenrich.com


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    ๐Ÿ•’ CHAPTERS

    00:00 - The #1 Regret: Not Firing People Sooner

    03:42 - Liquidity is #1: The Only Thing That Buys You Time

    07:28 - "We Need Your Help": The Art of Vendor Negotiation

    11:08 - An Insider's Breakdown: The Real Reason Bed Bath & Beyond Shuttered

    18:16 - The Costco Method: How Great Companies Create Loyalty

    22:02 - The Management Team That Drove a Business Into the Ground

    25:44 - The Ultimate Test: Would Anyone Care If You Vanished?

    29:34 - My Prediction for the Next Major Retailer to Fail

    33:15 - How Malls Are Replacing Empty Spaces

    37:02 - The Simple Tech That Gives an Immediate Revenue Bump

    44:34 - The Most Important Lesson I've Learned


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    45 min
  • The #1 Rule for Any Leader: Be the Last to Talk

    What is the number one rule for any leader? According to veteran board chair Deborah Rosati, it's to be the last to talk. In this masterclass on leadership and governance, Deborah explains why speaking first as a leader can shut down conversation and bias the room. As the founder of Women Get on Board, she also gives her honest take on the differences between male and female leadership styles, highlighting women's more collaborative approach. You'll learn the truth about the massive information gap between a board and management, and why being on a board is the ultimate "team sport." Check out the company: https://www.deborahrosati.ca


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    ๐Ÿ•’ CHAPTERS

    00:00 - Male vs. Female Leadership: A Board Chair's Honest Take

    03:03 - I Wanted to Be a Businessman, Just Like My Father

    06:05 - Why I Became an Advocate for Women in Tech

    09:22 - The "Power of Three": My All-Woman Board Experience

    12:45 - Why the Boardroom is the Ultimate Team Sport

    15:44 - Getting Honest Feedback Outside the Boardroom

    18:29 - The #1 Rule for Leaders: Be The Last to Talk

    21:28 - How a Great Chair Sets the Stage for Debate

    24:16 - Your Board Only Knows 10% of What You Know

    27:26 - "Noses In, Fingers Out": A Director's True Role

    30:22 - The Hidden Dangers of an Investor on Your Board

    33:23 - A CFO's Guide to Analyzing a Budget

    36:08 - The Most Important Thing I've Ever Learned


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    37 min
  • "I Lost 10 Years of My Life": The Brutal Reality of Business Bankruptcy

    What is the true cost of business bankruptcy? For Mark Musselman, it felt like losing 10 years of his life. For 18 months, his entire body was "bathed in cortisol and adrenaline every day, 24 hours a day, seven days a week" as he fought to save his multi-generational family business. In this brutally honest interview, Mark shares the story of losing his company, his wealth, and his entire identity. You'll learn how he reinvented himself and turned his greatest failure into his secret weapon in consulting, using powerful tools like strategic silence and a "committed, but unattached" mindset to win high-figure clients. Check out the company: https://www.mx5consulting.com


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    ๐Ÿ•’ CHAPTERS

    00:00 - The Day the Bank Called Our $11 Million Note

    03:31 - I Lost 10 Years of My Life to Bankruptcy

    07:05 - Losing My Business, Losing My Identity

    10:28 - How My Greatest Failure Became My Superpower

    13:37 - Getting Past the Lies to Find the Truth

    16:56 - Why I Use My Bankruptcy Story to Win Clients

    20:09 - "Let Silence Do the Heavy Lifting"

    23:18 - The Art of Asking the Perfect Question

    26:45 - The "Committed, But Unattached" Mindset

    33:16 - Slowing Down to the Speed of the Relationship

    36:26 - The 5 Clients That Drive 95% of My Business


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    40 min

About We Live to Build

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We Live to Build is the interview series for founders who are serious about building something that lasts.


Hosted by serial entrepreneur and angel investor Sean Weisbrot, the showโ€ฆ