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Weekly Ramble: The Let Them Theory
In this week’s ramble, I dive deep into a book that hit me harder than I expected: The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins. This isn’t just another mindset book, it’s a framework for how to reclaim your peace, your focus, and your freedom by letting go of the things you can’t control… especially what other people think.
From family drama to business gossip to childhood wounds, I unpack how this book reshaped my thinking and why I believe this mindset shift belongs in the top 3 most impactful reads of my life. I also share personal stories—some raw, some emotional—about how “letting them” has helped me step into a stronger version of myself.
If you’re feeling weighed down by criticism, expectations, or needing to be understood—this episode is for you. It’s time to burn the ships of validation and get back to owning your life.
Key Talking Points of the Episode
00:00 Introduction
01:48 JJ’s Joke of the Week
02:23 The 3 books that shaped my mindset 05:05 Why you should listen to the audiobook version 06:37 What the “Let Them” theory is all about
08:59 “My reaction to their reaction won’t change their reaction”
10:39 Why this matters for overthinkers, people-pleasers & high achievers 12:23 Let them judge you and stop explaining yourself into exhaustion 13:53 How judgment kept me up at night about leaving corporate
16:10 Their opinion of you is none of your business 17:10 Let them leave: family, friends, employees, clients
20:21 Why I chose distance to protect my kids
23:23 Let them talk: gossip, criticism, doubt 26:25 The power of silence against people talking about you
27:39 Let them not support you: not everyone will clap when you win
29:02 Burn the emotional ships: stop needing validation
Quotables
“My reaction to their reaction won’t change their reaction.”
“Clarity doesn’t require consensus—just commitment.”
“You never hear someone ahead of you talking down to people behind them.”
Links
608B Capital
https://608bcapital.com
The Let Them Theory
https://www.amazon.com/Let-Them-Theory-Life-Changing-Millions/dp/1401971369
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In this week’s ramble, I dive deep into a book that hit me harder than I expected: The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins. This isn’t just another mindset book, it’s a framework for how to reclaim your peace, your focus, and your freedom by letting go of the things you can’t control… especially what other people think.
From family drama to business gossip to childhood wounds, I unpack how this book reshaped my thinking and why I believe this mindset shift belongs in the top 3 most impactful reads of my life. I also share personal stories—some raw, some emotional—about how “letting them” has helped me step into a stronger version of myself.
If you’re feeling weighed down by criticism, expectations, or needing to be understood—this episode is for you. It’s time to burn the ships of validation and get back to owning your life.
Key Talking Points of the Episode
00:00 Introduction
01:48 JJ’s Joke of the Week
02:23 The 3 books that shaped my mindset 05:05 Why you should listen to the audiobook version 06:37 What the “Let Them” theory is all about
08:59 “My reaction to their reaction won’t change their reaction”
10:39 Why this matters for overthinkers, people-pleasers & high achievers 12:23 Let them judge you and stop explaining yourself into exhaustion 13:53 How judgment kept me up at night about leaving corporate
16:10 Their opinion of you is none of your business 17:10 Let them leave: family, friends, employees, clients
20:21 Why I chose distance to protect my kids
23:23 Let them talk: gossip, criticism, doubt 26:25 The power of silence against people talking about you
27:39 Let them not support you: not everyone will clap when you win
29:02 Burn the emotional ships: stop needing validation
Quotables
“My reaction to their reaction won’t change their reaction.”
“Clarity doesn’t require consensus—just commitment.”
“You never hear someone ahead of you talking down to people behind them.”
Links
608B Capital
https://608bcapital.com
The Let Them Theory
https://www.amazon.com/Let-Them-Theory-Life-Changing-Millions/dp/1401971369
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