Hey Everyone.

Thank you for all of your sweet messages and support. It's been 2 weeks and still doesn't feel real, but I guess that's to be expected when life-altering euphoria and heartbreak come clamoring down on you with mere seconds of each other. I'll be back with more clarity and details next week. Take care of yourself and I'll talk to ya soon xo Wendi

Hiya Lovelies!!

This a conversation I had with the wonderfully wild, weird and wise Heidi Rae Gomez waaaaay back in Oct 2021. We had the best time and talked for the entire 2 hours of studio time (full episode on the Patreon) so hopefully you have as much fun listening as we did running our pretty little mouths. Thank you for being here. You are appreciated and loved more than you know. Now, go grab a glass of water then enjoy the show AND your day xo

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Hello Lovelies!!

It's another episode of 'Baby On The Way!!' Even if you're not pregalicious, you might still be able to get something out of this because we're talking about paying attention to the words we think and speak about ourselves, specifically about our bodies, faces and appearance in general.

 If you are like me, it's been (and continues to be lol) a daily  adventure in adjusting to my ever-changing body and an even BIGGER  adventure to notice, navigate and knock out all the negative self-talk I  seem to spew into my brain and out of my mouth without even realizing  it's happening. I literally repeated "You're not a Monster, You're a  MIRACLE" into the mirror over and over until the crying turned to  laughing then into genuine peace and loving self acceptance. Highly  recommend that as an affirmation if you're feeling as frustrated and  grotesque as I have felt recently. Remember, we are not alone in  anything anymore. The best way to teach someone a lesson is to lead by  example, so let's start showing our kiddo how to love themselves  unconditionally by giving ourselves the same gift. Like, right now. You  are beautiful and perfect exactly as you are. Start loving yourself the  way you want to love your child. It can be tough to retrain our brains  but trust me, it's totally worth it. You and your little one are totally  worth it. 

Thanks for being here. You're killin' it. Talk soon xx

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Hey Everyone! After taking a 5 month chill out and reset break, I'm back and living the life I began to imagine a little over 2 years ago. I'll once again be putting out a hodgepodge of shows a regular basis, including the new one "Baby On The Way!!" which will chronicle my 'geriatric' pregnancy in real time AND began to play after the rambling intro at the beginning of this episode. Thank you for being here and for being exactly who and how you are. I love ya and am very excited to be talking with you again. Enjoy your day! Talk soon xo Wendi

Hiya Lovelies!!

We are going old school attic style this week and working on an affirmation to help us make mental changes with EASE. We're gonna effortlessly ditch any old, restrictive and destructive thought patterns then upgrade to a new set of positive, loving self-talk loops that will more efficiently move us closer towards our intentions.

Apologies for the manic energy. I am literally in the middle of a massive life sea change and attempting to stay focused, calm and somewhat productive while the things (and people) about which I have been fantasizing for the past few years all seem to be popping in my actual life at a fantastical rate of speed. 

Enjoy your day and keep in mind that you are exactly where you need to be and that, no matter how you may feel, you are already perfect. Stay hydrated, stay focused on your intended destination and STAY AWAY from outdoor puddles of standing water in Texas because these mosquitos are not fucking around. 

Love ya!! Thank you for being here xoxo

Hey Everyone! 

I am so excited for you all to meet my friend, and magically generous $1 car fairy, MONICA MILEUR!! She's a legit badass and you're gonna love her. Follow along on her journey to survive (and hopefully escape) Sweden by jumping on her IG account: @monyafoto

Thank you all for being here and exactly who you are <3

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After taking some time to mindfully transition from existing in an attic to rampaging through the Wild West, I’m back with a new ep of The Helpful Ho Show!! I detail how to attracting a quality & compatible partner PLUS answer the question “How much money do I need to have to be a Sugar Daddy??” Thank you for being here and exactly who you are <3

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Hello you Beautiful Babes! Got a fun one for ya today when we dive into what the f*ck to do when your SD starts dating your co-workers out of childish spite. The situation is not necessarily fun, but the fact that I recorded this episode at 1:40am after a long ass day adds a little something special. At least, I hope it does lol.

Thank you for being here and for continuing to send me your questions and support in general (heart emoji)

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Hope you're having a fun weekend!! xoxo

Hiya Lovelies!!

I somehow tricked professional lawyers Jennifer Laskin and Joseph Simons into coming on my show and we had a super fun AND informative conversation about the legal differences between prostitution & Sugar Dating, the moral differences between paying for a massage & paying for a "mmmASSahhhh", PLUS a friendly reminder to my fellow OF hoes to save money for taXXXes. Thank you for being here! Enjoy your day & we'll talk soon xoxo

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Hiya Lovelies!!

Get ready to drop the tough "Men are WALLETS" exterior and get real about our feeeeelings. There is so much focus on the fact that swerkers lend out their bodies, that we sometimes forget to pay attention to and nurture our mental and emotional health which, in my opinion, are more delicate and precious than the flesh and bones we use to house our majestic beings as we prance around the planet. Avoidance of feelings can lead to a myriad of self destructive behaviors, so please take time to feel your feelings. All of them. Even the uncomfortable ones. ESPECIALLY the uncomfortable ones. And always remember that feeling sad just means that at one point, you experienced an equal amount of joy. So lean into your feelings and grab some tissue or an old t-shirt because, while it's healthy to release tears, a Ho NEVER cries on her money.

Thank you for being here!! Talk to ya soon xo

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