Wendi Starling Talks

Hey! It's Wendi, the most helpful ho you know, and TODAY we are starting with the basics by answering a question I get from both sides of the aisle: "Where do I start??" After quickly addressing that, we move into the specific personality types and traits that are best suited for these relationships AND the most effective ways to successfully find a good match. Also, I do my best to define and paint a picture of a HEALTHY arranged relationship along with laying out a few reasons as to WHY someone would chose this over a traditional relationship (spoiler alert: it's NOT money).

Thank you so much for listening and sending me your questions!! If you have a question that you want answered on the show, please send it to me directly via the Q&A link in my TikTok profile OR message me through my website: wendistarling.com

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Hope you have a fun day!!

Talk to ya soon 

xo

Wendi

Hey! It’s Wendi here with a nice, long, juicy episode of ‘Laugh, Cry, Cum’ featuring my HOT and HILARIOUS friend, HARRISON TWEED!! After showering each other with compliments, we trade our go-to dirty talk lines, then come up with a genius game show that puts our “but can they fuck??” radars to the test.

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Thanks for being here!!

Talk at ya soon!!

Hey! It's Wendi and you may have noticed a little revamping of this podcast. Well, after a year of talking to myself and my cat, I decided to broaden my horizons by talking to other humans, including YOU. I will still be putting out 'I Love You Please Stop', I'm just adding a little spice to the auditory mix (more details in the intro). The main purpose of THIS show, is to answer any burning questions you may have about sex work, relationships, how I sleep at night, etc. The Helpful Ho Show is ALSO a platform for scandalous stories. Now, I am more than happy to spill my secrets (which I absolutely will), but I also want to be a surrogate storyteller for people that need to get something off their chest without the repercussions of revealing a purposely hidden part of their lives. So...

If you would like your question answered, please send it to me directly either through the 'Q&A' link in my TikTok profile OR (for my non-TT people) message me via the chat feature on my website: wendistarling.com

If you would like me to anonymously share your story, head over to wendistarling.com and send me your story via the chat feature. 

I am SO EXCITED to hear from you and get some real, uncensored dialogue going!! In the meantime, please enjoy this Premiere Episode wherein I tell the Whorigin Story (hold for pun groans and applause) of exactly how and why I got into sugar dating.

Oh yeah... ONE LAST THING: The next SD live Q&A chat is this Wednesday, April 21st at 8pm ET on Zoom. Tix are free, just RSVP through the 'show' page on wendistarling.com 

**Heads Up: Show link will not come through with RSVP. I screen all the reservations for trolls, then email the link about 30 min prior to showtime. 

Okay, that's it for real. Enjoy your day! Talk soon xoxo

Hello Lovelies!

Today we're laying out an action plan to enact positive changes in our lives and actively start moving towards a goal while reminding ourselves that when we are ready and willing to change, we attract the things we need to help us along the way. Get out a pen and paper for list making (yay! homework!) then, find a cozy place to chill out and reset your wavelength with a meditation. ALSO, my handsome man makes a few appearances because he decided it was playtime almost immediately after I hit record. 

Thank you all for being here!

Hope you have a good day.

Talk at ya soon xoxo

Hey Everyone!!

Been dealing with a new and slightly complicated life challenge which has been sometimes paralyzing me to point that I can barely hear my own thoughts, much less put them into sentences so TODAY, we are gonna do a full body meditation. Find a place to lay completely flat on your back and allow yourself to recharge and reset for the the week ahead. Will be back with a full episode next week. 

Love you all so much, talk at you very soon!! xoxo

Hey Everyone!

We made it through a full year of Pandemic lock downs and I made it back from NYC without any form of government ID!! We're absolutely crushing it!! Today we're reminding ourselves that we are inherently complete without all the people, places, ideas and things that we sometimes trick ourselves into believing we need. Let's practice going with life's flow and enjoying the dance without becoming so attached that we weigh ourselves down with unnecessary suffering. 

No matter how much pain we're experiencing, we can keep going forward one movement at a time. 

xoxo Wendi

Hey Lovelies!

This week, we're putting all of our practice drill exercises together for the game day play of executing life changes as if they are easy to make. We only have so much energy to give while we're here on the planet, so let's take time to reevaluate our end game goals and lay out a strategy to refocus our energy in the direction we want it go. Whether or not you realize it now, all of your changes easy to make, you just need to be open and willing to make the change.

Relax. You're still killin' it. xoxo

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Hey Everyone!

After allowing myself a few days a chill out a get some perspective on life (which I HIGHLY recommend), I'm back to talk at you and remind us that while we may have infinite options, we only have a finite amount of time. What we choose to do with our time is completely up to us and it's sometimes helpful to take a step back and open your eyes and mind to the plethora of possibilities that constantly surround us. When we find ourselves struggling with the same obstacles on repeat, it's important to remember that there is always another way to solve the puzzle and get through to the other side. ALSO, please let me know if you wanna hit up an escape room when we are legally allowed to gather and heavily breathe with each other in the confines of an enclosed space. 

Give yourself a break. You're already killin' it.

Talk to you soon! xoxo

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Hey Sunshines!

Hope you’re someplace warm this week. If not, accept the cold reality of the weather, curl up next to an asbestos spewing heater with a bacon-stuffed animal and practice the art of powerful surrender in the face of life’s challenges and ever changing circumstances. THEN, chill out with a carnival themed meditation game and a friendly reminder to give yourself a break because this shit ends in death either way. 

Love ya!

Talk at you soon. 

xoxo

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Hello Lovelies!!

This week, we're zooming our focus way out and dissecting the "Dream of the Planet". What it is, how it's generated and in which ways we can directly create an effect of positive change on the collective dream. We also work to breakdown and demolish self-loathing because baby, it's been done for far too long. Self-hatred is old and it's a hack premise. PLUS, we close out with meditative, cocaine-fueled party game that will help us find our power in maintaining stillness amidst chaos. 

You are, and always have been, absolutely killin' it. Keep up the good work. 

Sending you love and drinks on the house. 

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TikTok: @thehelpfulho

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