We're all screwed up (and that's OK)

We're all screwed up (and that's OK)

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We're all screwed up (and that's OK) episodes

  • Therapy tails - 29 - Conditioning versus control

    We're in a new venue!

    Owners and dogs  

    Instant gratification (present) 

    Bowling pin analogy

     Prison regime

     Warning lights

      “It’s good enough” 

     Residential training and environmental factors

     Respect for human

      Dog choice

      Ecollar explained by Dawn

      Command and control /pet dog

       The psychology of Dogs and muzzles

      Refused vet visits 

      Ideas for new owners - how to crate

     Dogs v cats and zombies

    1 hr 1 min
  • Therapy Tails - 28 - the emotional toll of helping

    In this episode Dawn Walton and Jess Probst are out to lunch, so not in the usual Starbucks! A fire alarm goes off in the middle of the podcast and disrupts it, and Jess thinks that I need the microphone closer so now I'm too loud! 

    Anyway we talk about the challenges of being self employed, being in a caring profession and the emotional toll it takes. 

    We discuss the psychology of people around their dogs and explore strategies for how we can be better at helping

    1 hr 22 min
  • Therapy Tails - 27 - Hiding behind labels

    As well as labelling a dogs aggressive behaviour as being pain driven, people are now even calling their dogs Autistic. Jess and I discuss why we need to find a reason for behaviour rather than just taking ownership of the role we play. Why can't someone see their dog as an animal until it does something very primitive like biting or chasing and lunging?

    We also discuss the role of genetics in aggression after Jess ended up with two dogs who did the same extreme aggressive behaviour, only to later discover they had the same father. 

    32 min
  • Therapy Tails - 25 - military dog training

    Jess the Impaler   If you have a dog you may want to rethink listening to this we delve into the military SuperDog Biosensor program and learn about how to create resilience and longevity and of course compare dogs to humans and some other stuff including a Romanian curse that turned out to be passed down in the blood (or did it?)

    41 min
  • Therapy Tails - 24 - trauma in dogs

    In this episode Jess and Dawn talk about trauma in dogs and humans after Jess has been somewhat challenged by an online course on dogs in trauma (read that as it's being doing her head in!)

    We talked about humans projecting their emotions onto dogs and question whether it is possible for people like you and I (but not Jess) to see dogs as animals rather than little people. 

    46 min
  • Therapy Tails - Episode 23 Special guest Michael Shikashio
    In this episode we have a very special guest speaker - Michael Shikashio. Michael Shikashio, CDBC, is the founder of AggressiveDog.com and focuses on teaching other professionals from around the world on how to successfully work aggression cases. He is a five-term president of the International Association of Animal Behavior Consultants (IAABC) and is a full member of the Association of Professional Dog Trainers (APDT). He also hosts the popular podcast show “The Bitey End of the Dog” where he chats with the foremost experts on dog aggression. Dawn tries to let Jess and Michael do most of the talking as this episode is very much for dog owners and those interested in dogs.
    1 hr 4 min
  • Therapy Tails - 22 - the Lobster episode
    What is behind the mask we wear? Who are we really/sense of self
    Therapist needs therapy (Jess said this)
    Lobsters and how it is making Jess and Dawn question the link between serotonin (happy drugs) and aggression. Is there more to serotonin than we thought?
    How does pain affect the way a dog behaves
    And just for a bit of annoyance at the end, Jess gives some sample questions from a questionnaire to find out if your dog is reslient
    Here is the link to the lobster serotonin study
    1 hr 11 min
  • Therapy Tails - 21 - What does socialising mean?

    Socialising what does it really mean and how should you do it effectively (obviously this bit is about dogs) 

    We discuss what people get from having a dog and how the need for connection can be the very thing that can lead to serious behaviour issues in dogs.  

    We talk about communication and how Jess can deal with something being so obvious to her, but not to the dog guardians and how she can counter her need to be brutally blunt!

    There is a general discussion about memory and how it works

    1 hr 14 min

About We're all screwed up (and that's OK)

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This podcast is run by Dawn Walton, a trauma therapist exploring the things that make us human, especially our flaws and screw ups. This is not your polished podcast, so if that's what you are looking for, move along. Nothing to see here 😄