We all have seen that couple that seems to be happy all the time. What is she thinking about? What goes on in his head? It can make us feel bad about our relationship if it isn’t currently giving off the same vibes. 

In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by Jeremy Donovan and Bobby Lewis to talk about the mindsets of happily married couples. Happy couples usually think similarly, which contributes to a more positive perception of their spouse. 

Why This Matters

We all want to have happy marriages. Who better to learn from than couples who are enjoying a great relationship?

Key Takeaways

In marriage, our thoughts matter most. The good news is we can all be more intentional with our thinking. 

Important Episode Timestamps

00:00 - 00:54 | Introduction & Meet the Hosts
00:54 - 02:01 | What’s Going on in the Heads of Happily Married Couples?
02:01 - 06:10 | Marriage Moves That Totally Flopped
06:10 - 10:57 | The Science of Happy Marriages
10:57 - 16:33 | Positive Illusions: Seeing the Best in Your Spouse
16:33 - 21:24 | The Power of Empathy in Marriage
21:24 - 26:42 | Controlling Emotions for a Healthier Marriage
26:42 - 30:57 | Practical Ways to Strengthen Your Marriage Mindset
30:57 - 33:18 | Creating a Marriage Mission Statement
33:18 - 34:57 | Pro Move of the Week: Apply One Key Marriage Mindset

APD Pro Move:
Consider this week how you can implement positive illusions, empathy, or controlled emotions in your marriage. 

Listen Again:

Episode 30 – What Small Moves Can Improve Your Marriage?

All Pro Dad Resources:

Us in Mind book, by Ted Lowe

3 Things Going On In The Heads of Happily Married Couples

Conflict in Marriage: 4 Things To Avoid

12 Micro Moves For Your Marriage

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