Dr. Isabelle Morley is a couples therapist and author of "They're Not Gaslighting You."

https://youtu.be/cPahcRnG_Fg

The kiss cam moment exposes much more than a couple’s private drama—it reveals how we judge, label, and punish one another in the court of public opinion. In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Isabelle Morley to unpack why cheating feels unforgivable to most people, how labels and “therapy-speak” get weaponized online, and what gaslighting really looks like beyond the memes. We also explore when it makes sense to set boundaries, walk away from toxic situations, or hire a therapist instead of relying on social media for armchair diagnosis.

00:00 Kiss Cam Scandal

05:00 Why is cheating unforgivable for most people?

10:00 Why do people label?

11:20 Gaslighting

13:48 When attacked?

15:15 When to quit

16:45 When do you hire a therapist

18:30 Using therapy-speak

20:30 Bounderies

22:15 ADHD Book

Watch the first time I interview Dr. Morley:

youtube.com/watch?v=rPm8U3P_GLg

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