We seem to always want to attack or find fault with people – with ourselves, with our husband, our children, our parents or in-laws.

But if we take the “personal” away from assessing the situation, it’s so much more neutral.  

And when a situation is neutralized, we can let go of the flight or flight emotions we have and we can actually find solutions to a problem – rather than just blaming and holding someone at fault.

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