What in the Well

What in the Well

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  • Develop habits that actually stick | Episode 4

    In this episode of What in the Well, business and well-being coaches Angie Huber and Rebecca Rutherford talk about critical tools and mindset shifts that help develop habits that stick.  

    Some key moments:   

    01:29 - What Rebecca learned from overwatering a bamboo plant 

    02:59 - Why most people's new year's resolutions fail 

    04:24 - The real question to ask when we're striving for balance 

    07:24 - A definition of habits 

    09:38 - Assessing your values as an anchor for habit formation 

    12:24 - The impact of commitment, consistency, and discipline on balance and habits 

    13:56 - A huge mistake Rebecca made when trying to make a life change in 2022 

    16:44 - The importance of mindset when establishing habits 

    27:00 - Aligning habits with our values 

    22:11 - Make little nudges in the right direction by knowing where your energy is  

    24:36 - Key takeaways and next steps for habit formation  

    A helpful resource for habit formation is at https://jamesclear.com/three-steps-habit-change. Check out James Clear's book Atomic Habits and subscribe to his e-newsletter. He's a habit formation genius.   

    We hope you find this useful, relatable, and entertaining! Leave us a comment and let us know what tools you use to achieve self-love and worthiness. And don't forget to subscribe!

    30 min
  • Unlock self-love with these mindset shifts and tools | Episode 3

    "How can I love myself?"  

    "I feel worthless."  

    "I'm my own worst enemy."   

    Sound familiar? You're not alone.   

    In this episode of What in the Well, business and well-being coaches Angie Huber and Rebecca Rutherford discuss how to love yourself and feel worthy no matter who you are and what happens in your life.   

    Some key moments:   

    02:25 - Some (objective and subjective) definitions of self-love   

    04:48 - Angie talks about her Positive Intelligence coaching program where she's learning to build her PQ (much like EQ or IQ, only for building up the leader and self-lover within)   

    06:16 - A tool Rebecca uses to activate self-love (and how it helped when things got stressful the day of this recording   

    09:15 - A definition of stress that can help shift your perspective   

    09:52 - Rebecca shares a mantra she uses to return to a state of self-love especially when things get chaotic   

    11:07 - The role of "identity" and labels in self-love and worthiness   

    13:00 - A tool Angie used to face her many "identities" and how that shifted her perspective   

    14:42 - Midlife crisis much? The gift the midlife season of life offers   

    15:32 - Why it's so important to work through self-love NOW, not later   

    16:54 - Rebecca shares how getting let go from a job helped her let go of a certain facet of her self-imposed identity   

    19:15 - What happens when you build an identity around a single area of your life   

    20:19 - Finding self-worth amidst suffering   

    23:58 - The ego vs. the observer as your guides   

    24:50 - A belief that makes all the difference when it comes to self-love   

    26:22 - Key takeaways for how you can build self-love   

    We hope you find this useful, relatable, and entertaining! Leave us a comment and let us know what tools you use to achieve self-love and worthiness. And don't forget to subscribe!

    30 min
  • Achieve balance, set proper expectations, and THRIVE through holidays | Episode 2

    Do you often struggle to SURVIVE holidays? In this episode of What in the Well, business and well-being coaches Angie Huber and Rebecca Rutherford talk about how it's possible to achieve balance, set proper expectations, and not just survive, but THRIVE, through any holiday or event.   

    Angie and Rebecca unpack Rebecca's experience of having her entire family (who are a bunch of holiday season fanatics) infected by the flu and forced to embrace the suffering during a time when everything was supposed to be merry and bright.   

    Some key moments:  

    • 02:17 - How can you stay calm, kind, peaceful, and joyful during the chaos of big anticipated events?  
    • 04:48 - The definition of stress and how it relates to the "should"-ing and expectations we set  
    • 08:08 - How do you lean in and just accept the struggle?  
    • 09:18 - Angie's strategies for maintaining a better mindset during chaos  
    • 12:03 - Journaling as an outlet and reflection on how things want   
    • 13:43 - The gift you give others when you DON'T meet their expectations (especially your kids)  
    • 20:06 - The beautiful moments that occur when we let go of expectations and outcomes  
    • 22:09 - Tips for how you can create balance during the holidays  
    • 26:17 - Are you breathing? Check in with your body and honor the signals  
    • 31:18 - Finding the humor when things go sideways  
    • 34:07 - How to release yourself of the belief that what's happening is a reflection of YOU  
    • 35:27 - Key takeaways for how you can achieve balance, adjust expectations, and thrive  
    • We hope you find this useful, relatable, and entertaining! Leave us a comment and let us know how you THRIVE through major events. And don't forget to subscribe!

      41 min
    • How to deal with imposter syndrome | Episode 1

      Welcome to the What in the Well podcast! We’re business and well-being coaches Angie Huber and Rebecca Rutherford, and we’re here to provide an entertaining, unique, authentic, and relatable perspective on well-being.   Our inaugural episode is on the topic of IMPOSTER SYNDROME (and rightly so, because seriously, who do we think we are?). 

      Sections of note:  

      • 06:00 - How we define imposter syndrome, how it connects to self-doubt and self-esteem  
      • 08:44 - The impact of cultural shifts on feminine and masculine and energy and how that shows up in life  
      • 13:40 - Everyone has imposter syndrome to some extent and how we can rise above it  
      • 15:00 - Angie talks about her saboteur, the green gremlin, Slimer, who shows up and messes with her head  
      • 16:35 - Rebecca shares the alias tool she used to embrace her transition to working in corporate culture  
      • 21:46 - The important purpose imposter syndrome serves, why it keeps us safe, and how to embrace it  
      • 24:55 - Great ways to get curious about your imposter syndrome and own it so it doesn't own you  
      • We'd love to hear how imposter syndrome shows up in your life and what you do to combat it. Leave us a comment, and don't forget to subscribe!

        28 min

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      Business and life coaches Angie Huber and Rebecca Rutherford provide an entertaining, unique, authentic, and relatable perspective on well-being, business, leadership, parenting, and everything in…