Ellen Higgins and Deborah Hackworth talk with Claudia Pahls about domestic violence in this episode. It's not about anger, it's about power and control.

"An abuser isn't 'out of control.' They control themselves - they aren't abusing random people. They control their anger and abuse and focus it on their victims."

Domestic violence can be defined as a pattern of behavior in any relationship that is used to gain or maintain power and control over an intimate partner.​

Abuse is physical, sexual, emotional, economic or psychological actions or threats of actions that influence another person. This includes any behaviors that frighten, intimidate, terrorize, manipulate, hurt, humiliate, blame, injure or wound someone.​

Domestic violence can happen to anyone of any race, age, sexual orientation, religion or gender. It can happen to couples who are married, living together or who are dating.
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Domestic violence affects people of all socioeconomic backgrounds and education levels.

Power and Control Wheel

​You may be in an emotionally abusive relationship if your partner:​

​You may be in a physically abusive relationship if your partner has ever:​

Visit https://www.dasasmi.org/ for resources or call our 24-hour hotline at 800-828-2023.