By Rachael Bonetti
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In this episode, Rachael delves into the critical issue of "toxic loyalty" in the Executive Assistant (EA) profession, using the recent news about Matthew Perry’s assistant as a catalyst for the discussion. Rachael highlights the complexities and ethical dilemmas that EAs often face, shedding light on the hidden challenges that come with the role.
Being an EA is not just about supporting someone else’s success; it’s also about safeguarding your own wellbeing, ethics, and career trajectory. This episode serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of setting boundaries and staying true to yourself in a role that demands so much loyalty and discretion.
This episode is a must-listen for Executive Assistants who want to understand the risks associated with toxic loyalty and how to navigate them.
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The Concept of Toxic Loyalty: Rachael introduces the term "toxic loyalty," describing how the dedication and commitment required in the EA role can sometimes become harmful.
Real-World Relevance: The episode draws parallels between the news of Matthew Perry’s assistant being involved in a fatal incident and the everyday realities of EAs. Rachael emphasises that while the situation is extreme, the underlying issues of blurred boundaries, responsibility creep, and manipulation are familiar to many in the profession.
Red Flags to Watch Out For: Rachael outlines key warning signs that an executive might be exploiting their assistant’s loyalty, including manipulative language and requests that push ethical boundaries.
Practical Advice for EAs: The episode offers actionable advice for EAs on how to protect themselves, including setting boundaries early, documenting questionable requests, and maintaining a strong sense of self that is not overly tied to the person they support.
About Rachael
Rachael Bonetti ia a thought leader in the EA space, someone who is unafraid to tackle the tough issues and provide the meaningful guidance that's often lacking for those in the profession. She is a highly regarded international trainer, speaker, corporate consultant, private mentor and Forbes Australia contributor.
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Your work isn't who you are it's what you do ,and that's what we dive into in this bite size episode on the concept of labels and how they shape our professional identities.
Too often, we define ourselves by our roles—entrepreneur, trainer, project manager, designer, CEO, executive assistant—without realising the limitations these labels impose.
Inspired by recent observations in her business and reflecting on her own corporate career experience, Rachael explores how these labels can box us in, restrict our growth, and prevent us from exploring new opportunities.
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Join us as we challenge the labels, embrace our true potential, and unlock new possibilities in our careers and lives. What might unfold for you if you thought about your potential a little differently?
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In this bite size episode recoded from her hotel room during a Sydney visit, Rachael shares a very personal insight on the rollercoaster of body image as a late 40's woman, and the shift in mindset it takes to move through the changes with grace and acceptance.
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Episode 4 of What It Means To Be Well is where you'll find special guest, Casey Rose
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In this bite-sized solo episode, we delve into a story about a pivotal moment on TikTok and the reflections it spurred. From celebrating admin professionals to facing unexpected backlash with a post that was on the cusp of going viral, this episode navigates authenticity, social media dynamics, and the cost of online engagement. Tune in for insights on staying true to yourself amidst the noise of the digital world.
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In this captivating episode, we sit down with a multifaceted talent, Dean Head ACS, an award winning cinematographer, producer and director who has contributed to some of Hollywood’s biggest blockbusters. His impressive career portfolio includes Hollywood hits such as Tomb Raider, Rush Hour 2, Enemy at the Gate, Double Impact, and Transformers 4. He is also a TED Talk speaker and a published author and he is known for his insightful perspectives on the film industry and beyond.
Tune in to hear his incredible career journey, the surprising truths he discovered in the realm of blockbuster creation, and how stepping out of his comfort zone of being a behind the scenes talent, allowed him to achieve unimaginable success.
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In the first episode of season four I'm joined by the incredible and inspiring Lou Kelle for a soulful conversation on all things self discovery, authetic living and the liberation of living our truth.
Lou has dedicated the last nine years to teaching yoga full-time in Melbourne, Australia, while also co-facilitating international yoga teacher training programs in Thailand and hosting transformative retreats in Bali, Thailand, and Australia.
As a certified life coach, Lou's passion lies in combining yoga and self-development to create healing spaces where participants can shift limiting beliefs and create inspired lives.
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Coaching Retreats Instagram And connect with Rachael: Instagram Website hello@rachaelbonetti LinkedInIn this heartfelt and deeply personal episode, we delve into the personal journey of becoming a caregiver for an elderly family member who is living with Parkinson's disease.
We explore the challenges and emotions that come with this responsibility, emphasising the need for open conversations about health and care before reaching this juncture.
You'll hear insights on supporting elderly individuals through medical appointments, the importance of self-care for caregivers, and practical tips for seeking local resources and aids.
Join me to understand the complexities of adult caregiving and how we can foster an inclusive work environment for those with caring responsibilities.
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In a world where answers seem just a click away, it's easy to feel off balance when faced with uncertainty. In this bite sized episode, we explore the power of leaning into the unknown.
Discover how great leaders navigate change with grace, and why embracing ambiguity can lead to powerful self-discovery.
Learn why radical self-trust and self-compassion can revolutionise your approach to life and work.
Find out how letting go of the need for all the answers can lead to surprising and fulfilling outcomes.
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If you're an assistant and you'd love to step into a growth mindset, feel empowered or do things differently, join us inside The Elite EA Academy. Offered as public intakes or on-demand for full teams, this course has supported assistants all over the world unlock their full potential.
In this impromptu, bite size episode Rachael shares how she uses returning to intentions as a compass to keep her connected to her purpose, values and mission. She talks about the unexpected ways her personal passions bled into her work, creating imapct in ways she hadn't anticipated.
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In this short and sweet solo episode Rachael shares the behind the scenes of her recent elopement. It's a refelctive episode that explores the pressure we can all feel to live up to what others want for us and why living our lives on our terms is essential for happiness.
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If you've found yourself in people pleasing mode, or are on the cusp of a big life decision this episode will help you find your way back to your authenticity.
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