If you’ve ever asked everyone else for advice… and still felt more confused, this episode is for you.

This one’s for the deep feelers, the spirallers, the ones who’ve built a voting system just to make a decision — only to feel further away from their own gut.

Inside this episode:

• Why self-trust is so hard (especially if you’re an overthinker)

• How childhood and past relationships shape your decision-making patterns

• What your perfectionist/avoider/inner critic is really trying to protect

• What a Sense Reset is — and how to use it to interrupt spirals

• What it actually looks like to rebuild self-trust (without needing to be 100% sure)

You’ll leave this episode feeling less alone in the noise — and more equipped to come home to your own voice.

Try this next:
✨ Download the free Protective Parts Mapping Practice I mentioned in the episode — to meet your inner protectors and start untangling your overthinking loop.
→https://drive.google.com/file/d/1Km7mYM5RltBfpQhGCnm9IVTbKxCX6v5U/view?usp=drive_link

Want to go deeper?
→ DM me the word “HEAL” on Instagram if you’re ready to explore a space for emotional safety, self-trust, and support through the messy middle or learn more about HEAL and 1:1 coaching here: https://www.kathleenmindsetcoach.com/coaching

Ever felt like you're emotionally self-aware but still stuck?
You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, analysed your triggers — but nothing’s really changing?

This episode is for you.

Inside today’s solo, I’m walking you through the 5 stages of emotional growth and healing — the exact process I’ve witnessed every single client move through inside my 1:1 coaching program, HEAL.

We explore what it really means to:

• Move from emotional avoidance to emotional embodiment

• Feel your feelings in the body — not just talk about them

• Build emotional capacity

• Use emotions like anxiety or anger as messengers (instead of things to fix)

• Let emotional clarity lead to practical, real-life change

I’m also walking you through real-life examples with anxiety and anger so you can see how this process unfolds in everyday moments — and how you can begin applying it to your own healing journey.

This episode will help you locate where you are — and give you language for what’s next.

Resources & Links Mentioned:

🎧 Free Resource: The Emotional Processing Masterclass
This free masterclass walks you through a simple, body-based process to feel your feelings without spiralling — and begin moving from reaction to clarity.

Ready to stop avoiding your feelings — and start healing for real?

This is the exact path we walk inside HEAL, my 1:1 coaching program that blends deep emotional healing with practical change.

Inside HEAL, we move through:
✔️ Building a relationship with your emotions
✔️ Unpacking protective parts and past patterning
✔️ Using your emotional world to guide how you live, relate, work and lead

You’ll be supported through somatic practices, real-time emotional tools, and grounded integration — no more over-intellectualising, no more doing it alone.

✨ DM me HEAL on Instagram to chat about whether it’s the right next step for you
✨ Learn more about the program here: kathleenmindsetcoach.com/coaching
✨ Book your free 30-min intro call here: tidycal.com/kathleenmindsetcoach/connect

Come say hi on Instagram: @kathleenmindsetcoach

If this episode spoke to you, please share it, leave a review, or send it to a friend who’s ready to meet themselves more honestly.

You’re not behind. You’re becoming.
Let’s walk this path — together.

You’re ticking the boxes.
Doing everything “right.”
Showing up, trying, pushing forward.

So why does it still feel like you’re falling behind?
Or worse—like you’re quietly failing at life?

This episode is for the person who looks like they’ve got it all together… but inside, they’re exhausted by the pressure to prove their worth. We’re talking high-functioning anxiety, invisible timelines, and the myth that achieving more will finally make you feel okay.

Inside this episode:

• The deeper reason you still don’t feel like enough (even when you’re doing it all)

• Why your brain ties self-worth to productivity—and where that started

• A personal story I’ve never shared before about achievement, identity and fear of failure

• How to start getting off the hamster wheel and relate to yourself differently

• A gentle reminder that you’re probably doing better than you think

If you’ve ever found yourself spiralling in “I should be further along by now,” this one’s going to meet you right where you are.

✨ Mentioned in this episode:

• Free 5-Day Inner Child Healing Challenge – Start here if you're new to this work: https://kathleenmindsetcoach.myflodesk.com/c99440de-5165-4166-b6b3-012465456e8b

• HEAL – 1:1 Coaching Support – Explore the offer: https://www.kathleenmindsetcoach.com/coaching

• Book a Free Connection Call – Let’s see if it’s a fit: https://tidycal.com/kathleenmindsetcoach/connect

Let’s connect:
Instagram: @kathleen.mindsetcoach
Website: www.kathleenmindsetcoach.com

In this episode, we’re flipping the script on boundaries. If you’ve ever felt like setting boundaries makes you mean, cold, or too much — or if you’ve used boundaries as a way to keep people out rather than let the right people in — this one’s for you.

I’m sharing how I used to use boundaries as a defence mechanism — a way to protect myself from discomfort and avoid hard conversations. And how I’ve come to realise that real, healthy boundaries aren’t about pushing people away... they’re about opening your heart with clarity, not chaos.

We dive into:

• What open-hearted boundaries actually are (and what they’re NOT)
• Why boundaries aren’t about controlling others — they’re about trusting yourself
• How to set boundaries without guilt, shame, or shutting down
• The connection between people-pleasing and boundary avoidance
• Tangible tips to communicate your needs with love, not fear

Whether you’re a recovering people-pleaser, someone afraid to rock the boat, or just ready to stop abandoning yourself — this episode will help you set boundaries that create more connection, not less.

💛 Want support with this work?

I offer 1:1 coaching for people ready to stop people-pleasing, start honouring their truth, and build real confidence.

👉 Book a free 30-minute connection session here: https://tidycal.com/kathleenmindsetcoach/connect

🎁 Free Resource Mentioned:

Want access to my emotional processing masterclass — the one that’s helped so many people get unstuck and learn to feel again?

→ DM me EMOTIONS on Instagram + your best email address or email me at [email protected] and I’ll send it your way.

💭 Journal Prompt:
What’s one moment recently where you abandoned your needs to keep the peace?

What would a loving boundary have looked like instead?

✨ If this episode resonated, share it with a friend or leave a quick review — it helps this little podcast reach more people who need it 💛

In a world that teaches us to chase love, validation, and approval from everyone but ourselves—what happens when we flip the script?

In this episode, we're talking all things self-love—the kind that's rooted in science, self-compassion, and real inner safety. We unpack the lies we've been fed about what it means to love yourself (spoiler: it's not cringe, it's revolutionary), how society polices confidence, and why self-love is often misunderstood as bubble baths and skincare.

You'll walk away with a powerful new lens on:

• Why seeking external validation is the norm—but not the vibe

• The difference between self-care and true self-love

• How to rewire your relationship with your inner critic

• The science behind self-compassion and its wild impact on your brain and body

• Tangible tools to shift from self-critical to self-kind

And if no one's told you lately: You're allowed to love the hell out of yourself. Loudly. Proudly. Unapologetically.

🔗 Resources & Mentions

• Research by Dr. Kristin Neff on Self-Compassion

• Self-Compassion free downloadable guided practice: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1GBLeEMsZinMQ790abnb_ywjmrPVWalpD/view?usp=sharing

• Want to work with me 1:1 - book a free connection call to chat 1:1 and see if we’re a powerful fit for this next season of life:https://tidycal.com/kathleenmindsetcoach/connect

  
  

Ever expected change to feel exciting and empowering—only to find yourself deep in anxiety, overthinking, and overwhelm the minute you take a step forward?

In this episode, we’re getting real about what change actually feels like. Not the Instagram version. The real, messy, chaotic one that brings up old wounds, fear, resistance, and allll the spiraling thoughts.

Kathleen shares personal stories from her recent leap into a new job and starting her counselling studies, and how—even though these were things she wanted—she was smacked in the face with emotional chaos she didn’t expect. We unpack why that happens, how to support yourself through it, and why feeling lost or overwhelmed doesn’t mean you’ve made the wrong decision.

You’ll learn:

• Why our brains hate change (and how to stop letting that hold you back)

• How to stop reading resistance as a “sign” to quit

• What it really means to build a new way of being (and why it’s so damn hard)

• Kathleen’s top 3 tips for grounding yourself in the chaos

This one’s for you if:→ You're trying to make changes in your life but it feels harder than it "should"→ You're beating yourself up for not having it all figured out→ You want permission to embrace the mess, feel your fear, and go for it anyway

Ever felt like you’re in between versions of yourself—no longer who you once were, but not quite sure who you’re becoming? Yeah, same.

In this episode, we’re talking about that unsettling space where your old dreams, values, and identity no longer fit, but you’re still figuring out what’s next. Whether you're going through a major life transition, healing deep wounds, or just realizing that what you once wanted… isn’t actually what you want anymore, this one’s for you.

We’re diving into:
✨ Why it’s normal (and actually necessary) to outgrow past versions of yourself
✨ How changing internally can shake up your sense of identity
✨ The pressure to have it all figured out—and why that’s BS
✨ The big, scary, and exciting question: What do I actually want now?

If you’re feeling lost, confused, or in the middle of a major life shift, you’re not alone. Let’s unpack this together.

🎧 Tune in now!

👉 Coaching & Support: kathleenmindsetcoach.com/coaching

👉 Book your connection call: https://tidycal.com/kathleenmindsetcoach/connect

Ever feel like you’ve moved on, healed, grown… and then BAM! The past comes knocking? Maybe an old relationship resurfaces, a pattern you swore you broke sneaks back in, or you find yourself reacting in ways that feel way too familiar.

Here’s the thing: when the past resurfaces, it’s not a sign you’re back at square one. It’s an invitation to handle things differently this time. In this episode, we’re diving into:

🔥 Why the past keeps showing up (spoiler: it’s not to torture you)
🔥 How to respond instead of react when old wounds get triggered
🔥 What it really means to leave the past in the past
🔥 A powerful self-forgiveness practice to help you release shame & move forward

🎧 Ready to shift the pattern? Tune in now!

👉 FREE Self-Forgiveness Practice: Click here to download
👉 Coaching & Support: kathleenmindsetcoach.com

Why NOT you? Do you believe you can have it all? Its a new year baby, goals, dreams and resolutions are about to be set — but do you know what’s getting in the way? Limiting stories. Limiting belief systems. Old wounds. Join me in this episode walking you through exercises and mindset shifts to help you see your own blindspots that are keeping you stuck in old patterns and get clear on whats really important to you in 2025. More heart. Less ego.

Connect with me @kathleen.mindsetcoach on IG or FB and email [email protected]

Ever feel like the end of the year sneaks up, brings a megaphone, and shouts: “You haven’t done enough!”? As you see other people celebrating their big wins, it’s so easy to fall into the trap of comparison—questioning your progress, your worth, and your future. Suddenly, you’re knee-deep in a spiral of self-doubt and drafting a wild list of ego-driven goals for 2025.

In this episode, we’re talking about:

• Why the end of the year feels like a productivity report card.
• How to recognize when you’re in a comparison spiral—and how to pause it.
• Why your ego loves a shiny, overachieving to-do list (and why you don’t have to follow it).
• Practical steps to reflect on this year with compassion and plan for next year with alignment.

Let’s leave the shame and should-haves behind and enter 2025 feeling grounded and clear.