What Would Love Do?

How do you define a successful relationship? Now ask your guy the same question to see if you’re anywhere close to having the same definition.

If you’ve never thought about this question, it’s time to sit and contemplate your answers and go a step further to question why you’ve never thought about this meaning before. Why enter into a relationship if you don’t know what you want the end result to be?

If you don’t have a vision for your life, how do you know this relationship is right for you?

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about putting value on your relationship and defining what that means for both you and your guy.

Let’s talk about…Men Who Agree To THIS Are More Likely To Commit To You

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Men pulling away from a relationship isn’t a new phenomenon. In fact, ‘men pulling away’ is a common Google search term simply because it happens so frequently. This is no surprise because men in general don’t understand what it means to have a deep, committed relationship.

And by deep I mean having those vulnerable conversations about what they want for their future, both in terms of a relationship and their life goals. Sometimes it’s hard to look 5 years ahead and think about what kind of life they want (this is true for women also) but I ask you…what kind of life are you living if you’re just going through the same routines day in and day out?

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to address the pulling away actions while also inviting your guy to have honest conversations about what the future holds.

Let’s talk about…Do THIS When He Pulls Away (He’ll Never Expect It)

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There’s a difference between wanting a physical relationship and being committed. Chances are you’ve already experienced this in your past relationships.

Men who want a superficial, physical relationship generally come on strong but will start to pull away when you start asking your radically honest questions about a future together. But men who want a commitment and who are looking for a lifetime partner will act quite differently.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how men’s ideas of what they want in a relationship directly relates to their behavior toward you.

Let’s talk about…STRONG Sign He’s Serious About You and He’s Committed To You

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We’ve all been there. You feel like your guy is pulling away but he just says he’s busy. You can take him at his word or you can start to worry that maybe he’s looking for someone else. It’s a terrible mind game to play!

It may seem like an avoidance tactic but it’s important to understand the types of guys in the dating pool. You’ve got two specific types who are looking for connections for themselves while the third type of guy is looking for commitment. Once you can identify which type your guy falls into, you’ll be able to discern what his behavior really means.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about guys who are users, spenders, or growers/builders and what each of them is looking for in a relationship.

Let’s talk about…Is He Avoiding Me or Is He Really Busy? THE TRUTH!!!

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By the time we reach the midlife era, most adults have had 3-5 significant relationships lasting longer than 3 months. Even if those relationships didn’t end in the best manner, each relationship is a lesson for how we can grow as a person.

And whether you want to believe it or not, every human is capable of personal growth and depending upon your relationship experiences, you most likely need to heal from the deep emotions and possible trauma you experienced.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about doing the personal healing work that will attract your ideal man to you.

Let’s talk about…Why He’ll Choose You Over Another Woman | He Needs To Do THIS!‬

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Today we’re diving into what makes a relationship successful and while I can give you the advice, it’s up to you to implement it in your own relationship. Also remember that every relationship is unique – just like the individuals involved – so do your best not to compare yourself to others.

Some advice will resonate more deeply with one couple than another. Or it might take one couple longer to feel safe enough to share intimate details of their past life. Whatever it may be, just know that there’s no stopwatch timing how quickly you move through the advice. Nobody is watching or judging how you proceed. What’s most important is that you’re both doing the necessary work.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what every couple needs to have a successful relationship.

Let’s talk about…Every Man Wants A Woman Who Does THIS!

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Chemistry between two people can be strong and overwhelming…and EXCITING! If you’ve had more than 3 relationships that lasted longer than 60 days, chances are you have felt that kind of chemistry that makes you want to forget the world and devote every waking moment to this guy.

However, chemistry alone is superficial and it can give a false feeling of love. If you’re jumping from chemistry to love very quickly, you most likely haven’t had any radically honest talks about what you both want in life.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about attachment styles and how strong chemistry can confuse feelings of lust and love.

Let’s talk about…A Man Will Give You Everything If You Have THIS! ‬

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I’m thrilled to welcome intuitive healers and best selling authors Matt and Joy Kahn to talk about Divine Partnerships. Aside from being physically attracted to someone, being connected on the level of mind, heart, and soul will bring you to another level of intimacy.

We’re talking a deeper connection than talking about the weather or what do you want for dinner. When you’re connected with someone, you want to share your inner most feelings and dreams. You can’t wait to get home from work to spend time together. You work as a true partnership because you are aligned.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about commitment, divine partnerships, and why growing with your partner is so important.

Let’s talk about…THIS Needs To Happen For A Man To Fully Commit To You ‬

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Nothing takes the place of having honest conversations with your guy but not every conversation has to be about your deepest thoughts and dreams. He is likely to drop clues as he gets closer to the commitment stage and if he shows these strong signs, that’s your clue that it’s time for a sit down to discuss the future.

I recommend having your own vision of what you want in a relationship. How do you see your life in a few years? What is  your definition of commitment? Knowing these answers will help you guide the conversation plus you’ll know fairly quickly if you’re on the same page or not.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about commitment and why some men are slow to making the commitment decision.

Let’s talk about…3 STRONG Signs He’s Ready To Commitment To YOU!!!

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Believe it or not, love bombing is an abuse tactic some men use to lure women into a relationship. If you’re surprised by that definition, it’s important that you listen to this episode.

Flattery can be a way to a woman’s heart BUT excessive flattery is something to watch out for, especially if it begins shortly after meeting. No one should ever feel pressured into a relationship, especially if you want it to last long term.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to identify love bombing and how avoid falling for this manipulative tactic.

Let’s talk about…Is He Love Bombing Or Is He Serious?

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