Dating is about possibility and exploring a relationship is about potential.

So many people focus on the level of attraction, entertainment, romance, and physical attraction while dating instead of thinking about the possibility of having a relationship with this person.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to change your focus about dating if you really want a long term relationship.

Let’s talk about…If He Does THESE Things He’s Serious About Commitment

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Today I’m joined by my dear friend, Bob Grant, and we’re chatting about men’s behavior and how they act in different stages of a relationship.

For example, some men come across as very intense at the beginning of a relationship, which can lead to love bombing but will eventually fizzle out.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to understand behaviors based on intense chemistry versus real feelings of trust and love.

Let’s talk about…What a Man Does When He’s Truly Into You

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How can you create a long lasting relationship when you don’t necessarily trust yourself?

Your chances are much better if you do the work to heal old wounds, practice self-love, and learn how to be present in your own life.

My friend Barry Selby is here to explore this concept of emotional intelligence and why some men run away.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why women don’t trust men who run away emotionally and how to stop that run away impulse.

Let’s talk about…Women Criticize Men For THIS | Here’s Why

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Communication is a key factor in having a successful and meaningful relationship yet in some ways it seems like the older we get, the less we want to share.

It’s almost like we’ve barely evolved past the grunting stages of the cavemen era!

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why people are afraid to speak their truth or fear that their communication style is dysfunctional.

Let’s talk about…How To Communicate With A Man | 7 Must-Have Tips

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Both men and women in midlife are often caught in the ‘sandwich’ generation, where they get their kids out of the house and then a parent gets sick and needs attention.

Or they might have a health scare themselves. Sometimes the pressure is enough to make a partner leave the relationship but that simply means they were not right for you.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how you know your guy is a keeper, especially when life throws its curveballs.

Let’s talk about…Men Who Care About You Always Do THIS

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Today we’re revisiting the Kiss-cam seen around the world, where a cheating couple was caught on camera at a Coldplay concert.

There was plenty of blame going around when the news broke but we’re going to dive into who cheats more and why. Are men always the ones who cheat or do more women cheat than we realize?

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what leads up to someone cheating and the ripple effects an affair has on family members.

Let’s talk about…Real Reason Why Men Do THIS More Than Women

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Let’s be real…guys have their “locker room talk” about their sexual escapades. Maybe you’ve only seen it depicted in movies or on TV but it’s true.

Sex for most single guys is just something fun that anyone can do. But when an emotional connection happens, that’s what pushes the simple act of sex into lovemaking.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about transforming sex into a sacred act that bonds a couple together.

Let’s talk about…7 Things Men Do During Lovemaking When He’s Genuinely In Love

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Many men are “flying blind” in the dating world. Not because they’re stupid or clueless but because they were never taught about emotional clarity.

But do we really need to settle for guys who keep swiping aimlessly and strike up conversations hoping that something sticks?

That sounds like wishful thinking instead of having an understanding of what they want in a relationship.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why emotionally available men need a long term dating strategy instead of a short term strategy.

Let’s talk about…High Value Men Are Drawn To Women With THIS Self Worth

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Humans seem to value pleasure over substance and loyalty these days.

In the early stages of dating, many are not concerned with building trust. They want the instant gratification of good sex through chemistry, thinking that’s the ultimate goal.

But what happens when you decide you want a long-term commitment?

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about the different stages of commitment and why arranged marriages have a higher success rate than traditional marriages.

Let’s talk about…What Makes A Man Suddenly Commit To a Woman

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Human pair bonding is complicated, plain and simple. It gets more complicated when you question what men are looking for.

Are they chasing a relationship or are they chasing sex?

Midlife dating is different than dating in your 20s and 30s. We have divorce, health issues, and a slew of other baggage that is part of our persona.

But all is NOT lost! Love IS possible in midlife so let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to discern if a guy wants a companion or a life partner and how that choice fits into your life.

Let’s talk about…Does His Silence Mean It’s Over? Maybe or Maybe Not

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