The word “chasing” when used in the dating realm sounds like it’s referring to dating games, which you know I don’t care for. Playing these games makes it seem like you’re not serious about finding a man and developing a relationship.

I prefer to use the word INVEST. What makes a man want to invest time with you? Time spent together face to face is the only way to develop a strong relationship and yes, this IS an investment in both of your time. So let’s make it worth your while!

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about investing time into building a relationship and why knowing your own values will help this process.

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Breaking up sucks, no doubt about it. And it can be equally devastating if you’ve been together 3 months or 3 years. Breaking that bond that develops, especially if the breakup comes as a surprise, brings on a host of feelings and can feel overwhelming.

This is another reason why radically honest conversations are important because you’ll both know fairly early on whether you’re aligned with each other. As the years go by, these conversations remain important because WE change over time, as do our hopes and dreams.

It’s devastating to hear about couples breaking up after 30 years of marriage because they both grew apart from each other.

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We all have inner scripts and lessons from our past that form our image of who is a suitable partner. I also love the idea that people enter our lives for a season to teach us lessons that we need to learn.

Not everyone you meet will be your Mr. Right but that guy might just open up your mind to embrace a new perspective on life. Even if you go on multiple dates, be true to yourself if you don’t feel aligned and decide to go separate ways. What did you learn from this guy and how can you carry that lesson going forward?

And let’s think about it in reverse, too. You might cross paths with someone to teach THEM a lesson.

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First dates are tough, let’s be honest. We put so much pressure on ourselves to look and act a certain way, like this is our ONLY chance to find Mr. Right. First impressions are certainly important but it takes so much more than one in person date to know if you have chemistry or want to continue getting to know each other.

It’s fairly easy to form a judgment about whether you want to see him again but first dates are NOT the time to declare your undying love for one another. Consider dating a discovery process, where you meet many people and discover more about them to determine if they are compatible with your life. The most important decision at the first date is whether you want to spend more time with this person.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why we put so much pressure on ourselves and how to make the dating process more meaningful.

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Love at first sight is romanticized in countless movies and romance novels but can it legitimately happen? Some people swear it does, like those who say they just KNEW on their first date that they’d get married.

But excitement about a strong connection is different than loving someone deeply and committing to them and we’re going to unpack the pros and cons to moving too quickly in a relationship.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about whether a deep connection with someone has the potential to turn into love.

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I do believe that most men have a good heart and don’t purposely hurt the women they’re dating. But some men are broken, meaning they are emotionally wounded and are doing very little to heal themselves.

Some men simply don’t believe they can be healed and are living as best they can, but others are more aware and try to help themselves by trying different self-help practices.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to identify the men who will appreciate these arousal skills vs the ones who are stuck in their victimhood.

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Men have been conditioned since childhood that they should be the leaders of relationships and the woman should follow their lead. How many times have we heard that men are the hunters and gatherers while the women are the nurturers? Why is it always assumed that the man will be the breadwinner while the woman stays home to raise the kids?

With times changing significantly in terms of breaking traditional gender roles, it’s no wonder dating is complicated. Sometimes both partners need to take a step back to process how the relationship is progressing and if it’s going in the direction they each want. This is normal behavior but can be unnerving to the other partner.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what it means to pull away and how to support your partner during this time of uncertainty.

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Why are women so eager to compete for a guy’s attention? We saw this in high school but it still carries over into adulthood.

Let me be honest here…if you feel like you’re in a competition, drop out. This guy is not a prize in the game of life. Wouldn’t you rather have a guy who is naturally attracted to you versus someone who simply responds to game play?

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to attract a man naturally without any dating games.

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Even though men and women alike may WANT a serious relationship, not all are capable of having that relationship. There are a variety of reasons, ranging from lessons learned from childhood, adult trauma (such as divorce) or simply not understanding what it takes to have a serious, committed relationship that isn’t shallow.

I’ve come to realize that most men are bad daters. That doesn’t make them bad people and with some nurturing from you, they CAN become the type of guy you’d want to have a committed relationship with.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how a man shows up when he likes you, even if you’re not having radically honest conversations yet.

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Sometimes we confuse the word “chasing” with the idea of making effort.

Chasing a guy implies that you’re texting and contacting him regularly even if he’s not showing an interest in you. Whereas making an effort is when you’re initiating communication and he’s reciprocating. There’s a give and take to making an effort but chasing is one-sided.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what to do when your guy goes silent and how to know if you’re chasing or making an effort.

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