So often we’re meeting people from a place of loneliness and lack. We often want physical intimacy right away instead of determining if this person is right for us.

When we don’t hold high standards for the guys we date, it’s no wonder the duds come crawling out of the woodwork. You deserve so much more!

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to expect (and ask for) more and not settle for the bare minimum from the guys we meet.

Let’s talk about…5 Ways Men Need To Step Up When Dating You

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Monogamy and exclusivity are often considered the most important levels of commitment but my guest, Sabrina Rising, believes that leading with trust belongs at the top of that list.

Sabrina starts our conversation talking about how trust is the foundation of any healthy relationship – including with ourselves – and when we feel a magnetic pull toward someone, we’re on the same vibrational wavelength. If you believe in the adage that we attract what we are, then we’ll attract someone who has the same type of trust concerns we have ourselves.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to build trust through transparency.

Let’s talk about…Say THIS To a Man To Build Trust | Open His Heart To LOVE

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Dating hyper-focuses on attraction, entertainment, romance, and physical connection when we really need to just sit back and focus on getting to know the other person.

Do they share my values? Do we share the same type of lifestyle? Are we entering into this relationship for the same purpose?

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about asking the right questions to determine if you and your guy have blendable lives.

Let’s talk about…THIS Question Will Instantly Change Your Love Life

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The “friend zone” has a bad rep. Normally we think of that as the place where all hope is lost for having a romantic relationship.

But what if you consider the friend zone as the place where you start off to build a long lasting and meaningful relationship?

So much emphasis is placed on attraction, chemistry, and hooking up that we tend to forget that being friends is not a bad place to start.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to be friends with a guy without scaring him off from a possible romance.

Let’s talk about…This Crucial Factor is Missing When Dating Men

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Today we’re going to dive deep into the often complex and messy process of getting closure after a breakup, especially when you don’t get the clean ending you hoped for.

Listen in as I share a recent, meaningful conversation with my ex and a powerful ritual to help you move forward and heal after a relationship ends.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about the lingering pain and scars breakups can leave, and why closure is sometimes elusive.

Let’s talk about…Secret to Getting Closure When He Ended It (It’s Not What You Think)

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A common challenge in dating today is the need for accelerated learning. In midlife, the dating process seems sped up because we’ve heard so many times not to waste time with guys who aren’t aligned with our values, lifestyle, and dreams.

While that IS true, we will always encounter what I call the “ick factor”…something that your partner does that makes you question whether you should stay with him or not.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to determine what is a non-negotiable trait and how to know if you should stay with someone when a non-negotiable appears.

Let’s talk about…THIS BIG Question Is A Sign You Should Keep Trying With Him

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So many people are in the dating marketplace because they want superficial needs met. You will find those who are looking for a committed relationship but with the easy hookup culture, it’s easier to focus on superficial instead of deep seeded desires.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about identifying for yourself the purpose of a relationship and why you’re dating in the first place.

Let’s talk about…What’s SECRETLY On A Man’s Mind When He Likes You

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In today’s dating world there are a LOT of signs that a guy isn’t ready for a relationship. But I dislike focusing on the negative all the time, so let’s turn the tables and talk about the signs that shows he IS ready for a relationship.

By the time we reach our midlife years, who has the time to waste on dating people who are incapable of having a relationship?

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to know if a guy is CAPABLE of having a relationship with you.

Let’s talk about…3 Strong Signs He Wants A Commitment With You

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So many people are in “situation-ships” because they value the freedom and independence. Without a firm commitment, they can continue living their lives while having a friend with benefits to suit their needs.

Those who are co-dependent also jump from one relationship to the next because they don’t like being alone. Or maybe they bought into the mentality that there must be something wrong with them if they’re single.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how being single for any length of time is actually beneficial to your next partner when you’re ready for a commitment.

Let’s talk about…The Longer a Man Is Single, The More He’s THIS

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Many of us have difficulty expressing our feelings, so it makes sense that we’ll notice changes in a partner’s behavior before we hear the words, “I don’t love you anymore.”

Being present in your relationship and making time to connect on a daily basis will help you notice when/if there are signs of discontent.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about avoiding the pitfalls of a bad relationship and building trust with our person.

Let’s talk about…When A Man Loses Love for You, He’ll First Do THESE Two Things

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