What Would Love Do?

So many of us have grown up having certain ideas of what life should look like as adults. I call this programming because in large part, we learn this from our parents and other adult figures.

But when do we question if our “programming” is what we REALLY want out of life?

Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to understand WHAT we want in our midlife years and how to communicate those desires with potential partners.

Let’s talk about…I’m In My 60s…Should I Consider Moving In With Him?

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What keeps men and women emotionally connected?

Believe it or not, it’s NOT sex or chemistry! It’s really quite simple and we’re diving into that topic today.

Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to connect with our partners that involves curiosity instead of superficial conversations.

Let’s talk about…THIS Will Instantly Change How You View Dating

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I’m happy to welcome life coach and sex therapist Monica Tanner today. We’re discussing how people have both a communication problem AND a conversation problem.

Even if you feel like you’re with a great communicator, how do you feel about the type of conversations you’re having?

Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to expand our communication skills AND feel comfortable to express our feelings.

Let’s talk about…THIS Communication Skill Gets Men To Open Up

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We’re talking about a self-love practice called de-centering men. This is NOT a rant about how awful men are but rather a practice that involves making YOURSELF the center of your world.

No one is able to control your happiness, only you. No one should “complete you” contrary to that famous line in the movie Jerry Maguire. Living your life based upon what YOU want is where you’ll find complete happiness.

Let’s explore the DEEPER reasons why women put men on pedestals and how to reclaim that position for themselves.

Let’s talk about…Why Pulling Away From Men Attracts Deeper Love

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I’ve said in the past that today’s dating world is a sh*t show. Countless women tell me that guys are just jerks, they only want sex, and it’s depressing trying to find a life partner.

So, let’s put a fun spin on dating. Paula thinks it’s a matter of mindset and if you’re expecting to meet jerks, then the jerks will find you!

Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to shift into a positive, growth mindset about dating so you can get curious and confident about the dating process again.

Let’s talk about…Make Dating Fun Again

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Let’s be real…looks absolutely play a part in being attracted to someone. Who catches your eye in person or while scrolling apps? The attractive guy.

But looks only open the door to getting to know a person better. After that initial first meeting, getting to know that person’s values and inner workings is what becomes important.

Let’s explore the DEEPER ways we can make our relationships stronger by focusing on the great things about our partners.

Let’s talk about…It’s Not Your Looks Men Fall In Love With, It’s THIS

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I’m joined today by my friend Bob Grant from Relationship Headquarters, who also has 20 years in the relationship sphere under his belt and we’re talking about why the most obnoxious men make such a lasting impact on women.

One note: not ALL men are obnoxious; there really are good guys out there whose values and dreams align with yours.

Yet all the players seem to get the most attention and then women complain about why they never meet the ‘good guys’.

Let’s explore the DEEPER reasons why some men are gun shy to committing to a woman, especially after a significant relationship ends.

Let’s talk about…Men Who Fear Commitment Rarely Reveal THIS

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When it comes to discussing sex, men and women are often at opposite corners. Men often look at sex as a way to connect whereas women often need a connection BEFORE having sex.

So, how do we meet in the middle, especially if we’re looking for a meaningful relationship and not a one-night stand?

Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to encourage emotional and intellectual intimacy over chemistry.

Let’s talk about…The BIG Lie About Sex Men Don’t Want You To Know

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If you want to attract a man with the same values, it’s imperative that YOU know and understand your own value system. Otherwise, how will you recognize a guy who’s on the same page as you?

Also, just because WE think we’re good at something – such as communication – doesn’t mean our partner will agree, especially early on in the dating process.

Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to discover value systems with a partner and how to improve communication.

Let’s talk about…A Man Who Shares Your Values Still Might Not Do THIS

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This week Paula & I are sharing some of our own experiences and feelings about healthy relationships.

As you listen, reflect on your own relationship and if your guy does these 4 things that we reveal.

Let’s explore the DEEPER ways couples can be attentive and present in relationships.

Let’s talk about…When A Man Does THESE 4 Things, You’re In A Healthy Relationship

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