One of the cornerstones of a solid relationship is communication and the first step toward great communication is active listening.

Have you heard that term before? Active listening is the act of intentionally engaging with communication. The goal of active listening is to avoid misunderstandings and to examine thoughts and perceptions between the speaker and the listener.

We are NOT talking about listening with one ear while you’re on your phone, nodding your head and smiling in agreement. This is about devoting your attention to the other person, making eye contact, and really hearing what they have to say.

Let’s explore the DEEPER ways we can connect with our partners and promote better communication.

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There’s a certain safety factor in sticking with the messaging function on the dating apps. While this feature is convenient when first matching with someone, it limits your ability to really learn about a person.

I’ve seen people who spend months and YEARS just texting and that to me is NOT a real relationship.

Today I’m sharing my 3-2-1-3 advice about how long it should take before meeting someone in person.

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Communication is everything in a relationship and this includes identifying your definition of cheating.

Do you think cheating only involves physical intimacy?

Is it cheating to daydream about your Hollywood crush?

What about having private text conversations with a coworker?

Let’s explore the DEEPER answers about what constitutes cheating and how to make strong communication a pillar of your relationship.

Let’s talk about…Is An Emotional Affair Really Cheating?

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How many comments have you seen online that men are awful or dating isn’t worth the effort because of men’s bad behavior?

It’s fairly commonplace but two things can be true at the same time. Women are learning how to be happy single and not depending on a man for financial support but they can also want that companionship of a boyfriend.

Let’s explore the DEEPER ways women differentiate between a relationship and ‘having a boyfriend’ and what spurs women to minimize relationships.

Let’s talk about…I’m Happy Being Single But I Still Want A Boyfriend

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What’s YOUR definition of a serious relationship? If you don’t have a clear understanding of what you want, then finding the right guy becomes more difficult.

We’re talking about my Dating Vows today and dissecting what each one means and how it can benefit your dating life to have these conversations early on before physical intimacy.

Let’s explore the DEEPER reasons why casual relationships seem to be more popular than serious relationships in today’s dating world.

Let’s talk about…There’s No Future With A Man If He Doesn’t Do THIS

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Why is there so much ambiguity in the dating process? Have adults really lost the ability to communicate what they want?

If you want a relationship, you need to identify what that means to you. Once you’re clear, then you can ask the men you meet the same question.

THEN you’ll have a better idea of which guys are worth getting to know better.

Let’s explore the DEEPER reasons midlife adults have difficulty communicating and defining what type of relationship they want.

Let’s talk about…Relationships Need THIS To Survive and Thrive…

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Some men approach dating with an ‘exit plan’ already set up, saying they’ll commit when they find the right person.

But does keeping this limited view allow men to recognize when the right person comes along?

Let’s explore the DEEPER differences between those who are searching for a fantasy woman and those who are committed to commitment.

Let’s talk about…Is He In Love or Just Using You?

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Dating these days is overall very casual. It lacks decision about whether you’re looking for casual fun or a longtime relationship.

Commitment, on the other hand, involves conscious decision-making. And this is where open communication comes into play because by middle age, you each (most likely) have some strong opinions about what’s important in your lives.

Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to create clarity about what values are important to you in a relationship and how to communicate those to your partner.

Let’s talk about…Dating Over 50: What Actually Matters (From a Real Couple)

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Are you stuck in victim mode? Are you quick to blame others for things that go wrong in your life?

Playing the blame game is quite common these days and I consider it the ‘easy way out’. When someone else is to blame, then that absolves you of responsibility.

Let’s explore the DEEPER ways we can recognize our own shortcomings in finding love and how to change our outlook instead of placing blame on others.

Let’s talk about…Brutally Honest Relationship Advice For Women

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In this episode I’m joined by sweetheart Paula and we’re discussing how we didn’t force a connection but instead felt neutral about each other when we first starting talking.

So many people are desperate for a connection that they force it or trick themselves into thinking there’s a connection instead of waiting for it to develop organically.

Let’s explore the DEEPER ways you can develop a connection via strong communication and a willingness to dive deep into your thoughts and feelings.

Let’s talk about…Why Going Slow Gets You Into A Relationship Faster

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