What Would Love Do?

You’ve heard me talk about attachment styles before but there’s SO much information that it bears taking a deep dive into how people with these different styles behave. We’ll also talk more about how we develop these attachment styles from lessons we’ve learned in our childhood.

I’m pleased to welcome Thais Gibson, best-selling author, counselor, speaker, and leader in the personal development field.

She has been recognized by Psychology Today, Time Business News, The New York Post, Yahoo! News, Success Magazine, CEO Weekly, and many other outlets for her cutting-edge research on the subconscious mind and personal transformation.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about avoidant men and anxious women and how they can create a committed relationship.

Let’s talk about…Can An Avoidant Man Commit To An Anxious Woman with Guest Thais Gibson ‪

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Our dating world is a mess because people looking for partners often focus on the wrong things.

Some women are lonely and think that getting a guy into bed is a win and that they can develop a relationship based on their chemistry. But chemistry is superficial.

Midlife also brings about lots of emotions – aka the ‘midlife crisis’ – and if both people are struggling with these emotions, they are more focused on themselves and might not have the capacity to welcome someone else into their life at that moment.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about The 5 Love Languages and how to know your guy cares about more than just sex.

Let’s talk about…Men (over 40) Show They CARE About You When They DO THIS!

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Emotional health is something that many women are either unaware of or ignore but it’s very important for building a relationship. In case you don’t know, emotional health is the ability to deal with positive and negative emotions in a healthy way. We’re all faced with challenges and how we react to these challenges is an indicator of our emotional health.

When something weighs on us emotionally, it’s very difficult to lean into a happy, healthy relationship. Difficult but not impossible, especially if you have open communication and the ability to be vulnerable with each other.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to support your man if he has signs of being emotionally unhealthy.

Let’s talk about…7 RED FLAGS You’re With An Emotionally Broken Man

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Communication is paramount in any relationship but especially when you’re dating someone new. You shouldn’t be afraid to bring up important topics to see if you’re compatible and if you sense him pulling away or going silent, talking about what’s happening is healthier than letting your mind make up stories about what’s happening.

You’ll discover a variety of reasons why men pull away and that doesn’t mean that you’ve done something wrong. I know many of my coaching clients put that responsibility on their own shoulders when that’s usually not the case.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about the reasons men go silent and how to calmly get him to talk about his thoughts and feelings.

Let’s talk about…Avoid Making THIS Mistake If He Seems To Be Pulling Away!

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What is dating? Most people think it’s about having fun and being romanced but ultimately, it’s the vetting process to determine if someone is capable of being a committed partner to you.

Dating is also a time to break free of the old thinking that chemistry equals a solid relationship. With the divorce rates still hovering around the 50% mark, when will we learn that there’s more to a strong relationship than just sex?

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what it means to be committed to someone and how we can enhance our relationships by understanding the points in my relationship iceberg model.

Let’s talk about…6 Factors That Determine His CAPACITY To Commit To You

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It’s so easy to talk about the negative red flags about guys in the dating world but that can build fear into a lot of women, sometimes to the point where they give up on dating altogether. So, in this episode I’m focusing on the green flags – or hints – that a guy is high quality and has the emotional maturity to go further in a serious relationship.

And yes, this is so much deeper than whether or not he is financially self-sufficient. We’re deep-diving into this topic to really understand what it means to share the same values and how to figure out if your lifestyles are compatible and if you can talk about more than the weather.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about emotional maturity and how to recognize if your guy is capable of being a partner instead of a friend with benefits.

Let’s talk about…Green Flags Men Exhibit if They’re a High-Quality Guy

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Every human on earth has some sort of trauma that we’re dealing with which can affect any aspect of our lives. And the word “trauma” doesn’t only describe violent or abusive incidents. Minor incidents that we remember from our past can ultimately affect our personalities and our future actions and I attribute that as trauma as well.

My guest today is author Jeff Brown and we’re talking about how to work through trauma with our partners instead of letting it fester. When partners are vulnerable and share their deepest fears while supporting each other through their own personal development journey, very often those relationships get stronger and they learn how to connect in a deeper way.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about trauma accumulation and how to work through the trauma in a safe space with our partners.

Let’s talk about…Don’t Let THIS Ruin Your Love Life with a Man

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Most people in midlife are done with the dating games and are looking for a committed relationship. Whether it leads to marriage or not, being committed to someone requires loyalty and emotional maturity. As you have probably discovered, many midlife men are low on the emotional maturity scale.

But that doesn’t mean these men don’t exist or can’t increase their emotional maturity. Anything is possible but THEY have to want to improve themselves. You can make the suggestion and support them, but these men have to do the work.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why emotional maturity is so important and how you can support your guy if he’s willing to do the work.

Let’s talk about…#1 Sign A Man (over 40) Will Be Loyal and Commit to You

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I don’t know many people who have tolerance for lying, especially those who are looking for a long-term relationship. How can you say you’ll have honest discussions about your life’s desires if you lie about anything?

Even the smallest lies can blow up in your face and we’re diving in to examining how Gerry on The Golden Bachelor lied throughout the show and hurt his chances at making things work with Theresa.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why lying is always a bad idea and how the smallest lies can lead to bigger lies that you might not recover from.

Let’s talk about…If He DOES THIS, Then He’s a Man Who Lies!

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In today’s casual dating culture, it’s pretty easy to get companionship and sex without a commitment. Many midlife adults settle for that type of situationship because they think they’re past their prime for a long-term commitment.

My friends, I beg you not to settle for less than what you want. You can have a strong, committed relationship without necessarily getting remarried. You do not have to settle for living in separate homes or seeing each other only a few times each week if you want more than that.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about deciding what type of relationship YOU want and how to know if your guy is committed to you or just wants a companion.

Let’s talk about…3 STRONG Signs Men (Over 40) Are Ready To Commitment To YOU!!!

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