Men go silent for numerous reasons – fear, uncertainty, doubt – and when they go silent, they’re either avoiding or processing their feelings.

You have every right to react when you receive the silent treatment but it’s the HOW you react that can make or break a relationship.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about being true to your feelings and understanding what you want in a relationship.

Let’s talk about…He Just Went Silent, How Should I React?

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We’re going to have a spicier conversation today about sex and the emotional connection we have with our body.

A lot of men who approach sex from an ego perspective think they want hot and kinky sex but the reality is, many men simply don’t know what they want – or how to communicate that.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about approaching sex from our hearts instead of just receiving pleasure .

Let’s talk about…What Men Consider AMAZING Sex | The Truth

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Commitment looks different when you’re in your midlife years and it’s very different from your 2os and 30s when most people are looking for a spouse and to raise a family.

By the time you reach your 40s, 50s and beyond, you have a fully curated life and you’re looking for someone with equal values whose life can naturally blend with yours.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to recognize commitment from a midlife guy.

Let’s talk about…Strong Signs He’s Serious About You And Is Committed To You

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We’re talking about love attachment styles today to unpack why it’s tough to have a relationship with a dismissive avoidant and how an anxious person is different from a dismissive avoidant person.

If you’re new to love attachment styles, listen in to the book recommendations I make. It’s truly fascinating how we all have a love attachment style and it can be an eye opener for you moving forward.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about the characteristics of a dismissive avoidant person and how knowing your love language can give insights into your own communication habits.

Let’s talk about…Why You Should NEVER Date a Dismissive-Avoidant (Unless This One Thing Is True)

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So often we focus on the RED FLAGS to avoid when dating but I feel like then we’re always focusing on the negative. And when you always look for negative energy or behaviors, all of a sudden that’s ALL that you can see, which isn’t healthy for a new relationship.

Instead, today we’re focusing on green flags – the behaviors that show your guy cares about you, treats you with respect, and is willing to have conversations about your future together.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to notice the green flags that indicate this guy might be a keeper.

Let’s talk about…Never Date A Man Without This GREEN FLAG

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Dating seems like an endless merry-go-round where we connect with someone for a short time and then it ends. Then we’re back on the apps before we really dissect what happened and how can we learn from this experience.

Ending a relationship is difficult and emotional. It may even feel like you’re grieving its loss, which is a perfectly human response.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to recover from a relationship loss and how to keep your communication channels open.

Let’s talk about…Why Men Shut Down After Loss and Love Feels Impossible For Them

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Falling in love is so much deeper than having great chemistry and hormone rushes. When you let lust or limerence set the tone of a relationship, very often you’ll forget to have the deeper conversations to determine if you’re truly aligned with this person.

Lets use my favorite show as an example. Nobody Wants This focuses on a new couple who meet and form a friendship before love blossoms. It’s a nice change of pace because it’s the antithesis of the “reality” dating shows that currently populate our screens.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what it means to say “I Love You” and how to allow yourself to ease into a relationship instead of expecting sparks on the first date.

Let’s talk about…Men Fall In Love and Bond When… (#1 SECRET)

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You’ve heard me say the dating world is a mess and even though there’s not a single cause, let’s focus on why we’re so quick to blame the other person for a date or relationship not working out.

Blaming others seems to be the norm these days. You see it from little kids who don’t want to get into trouble to adults who either can’t or won’t see that everyone can use some personal development work, them included.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to shift from blame to personal responsibility and how to grow along the way.

Let’s talk about…Mid-life Love Drought: Why Men & Women Over 45 Are Like, “Single Is Better Than A Bad Relationship”

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Take a moment and think about your closest friend in the world. The friend that you can tell anything and know they will have your back. You can share your deepest desires and know they won’t judge you. These are signs of genuine friendship.

Now think of the guys you’ve been dating. Have you reached any level of friendship before getting physically intimate? Have you had those radically honest conversations about your future plans without feeling anxious?

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how a stable relationship is easier to build when you have a foundation of true friendship with your partner.

Let’s talk about…A Man Who Cares About You Will Always DO THIS

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Laurel House is the premier relationship coach at eHarmony and we’re diving into why it’s so important to be upfront with a new guy from the first date.

In these midlife years, who wants to waste time getting to know someone only to find out 7+ dates in that they have one (or more) red flags that are non-negotiable for you.

Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to strategize your conversations early on so you have clarity when choosing who to spend time with.

Let’s talk about…Ask Men THESE Hard Questions Before Sleeping With Them

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