What's The Reason

What's The Reason

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  • Toxic Jobs, Soul-Sucking Workplaces & Finding the Courage to Leave

    In this deeply personal and fiery episode, Kelsey dives into the emotional toll of toxic workplaces, reflecting on past jobs that left her drained, depressed, and doubting her worth. From the silence of dreaded office mornings to unsafe environments in hospitality, she shares raw stories of trauma, courage, and transformation.

    Now thriving in a supportive workplace, Kelsey unpacks the importance of valuing your time, energy, and mental health. She answers relatable Reddit stories about job anxiety, purpose, and the illusion of escaping the 9-to-5 grind. This one is for anyone who's ever cried in their car on their lunch break or questioned what they’re really working for.

    💬 Here’s what we unpack:

    • Feeling invisible, unwelcome, and dehumanised at the office

    • Staying too long in bad jobs due to fear or financial pressure

    • Wishing for age-appropriate mum groups and outlets

    • Creating enrichment time to protect your soul

    • AI disrupting hustle culture dreams (selling feet pics won’t cut it)

    Funny, honest, emotional, and empowering. This episode is your reminder that it’s never too late to leave the wrong job and start chasing what lights you up.


    Jump to a chapter:

    00:00 - Opening: The best staff party ever

    01:05 - Reflecting on toxic jobs

    03:00 - The soul-crushing office routine

    04:30 - Leaving your identity at the door

    06:00 - Finding purpose through work-life balance

    08:00 - Surviving hospitality as a teen

    09:45 - Workplace harassment and unsafe environments

    11:00 - Starting over in a safe workplace

    13:20 - Being a broke single mum

    15:30 - The hardest job: stay-at-home parenting

    18:00 - Reddit story #1: Well-paid but soul-draining job

    21:30 - The power of “enrichment time”

    24:00 - Reddit story #2: Anxiety at a toxic law firm

    27:30 - Workplace communication & self-worth

    30:00 - Reddit story #3: Escaping the 9-to-5 myth

    33:00 - The illusion of passive income

    36:00 - The truth about hustle vs purpose

    37:30 - Ending thoughts: Choose your life, not theirs

    38:30 - Enrichment time + podcast goals

    39:30 - Farewell and reminder to engage

    Follow us on Instagram @whatsthereason.pod to keep up with all things girlhood, womanhood, and everything in between 🎙️

    This podcast was brought to you by On Track Studio. www.ontrackstudio.com.au [email protected]

    40 min
  • The Core Value Spiral You Didn’t Ask For

    In true chaotic-good fashion, today’s ep kicks off mid-mascara and somehow lands deep in the feels. We’re chatting all things core values. The ones that guide you, shake you, and sometimes straight-up ruin a friendship.

    It’s a ride through family fishbowls, eyebrow regrets, solo parenting realness, and why your Pilates set doesn’t define your self-worth (but your mug collection might). It’s vulnerable, it’s chaotic, and it’s a love letter to anyone who's ever felt a bit lost in the middle of growing up, giving it your all, and still wondering: is this it?


    💬 Here’s what we unpack:

    • Core values in relationships, family, and friendships-  And what happens when they don’t align.

    • The emotional toll of parenting,  and why it’s worth every cent

    • Navigating gym culture, identity shifts, and that "WTF am I doing with my life" moment

    • Dating red flags: poor finances, dodgy mates, and mums they don’t text back

    • How to reconnect with the old you (even if she was nude and painting in the forest)

    Whether you're feeling lost in the rat race, nostalgic for your wild 20s, or just vibing with a strong cup of coffee; This one’s equal parts ranty, raw, and real as hell.

    Jump to a chapter:

    00:00 – Welcome + Makeup Chaos

    02:00 – Coffee, Lips & Shaving Mishaps

    08:30 – Family Fishbowls & Core Values

    13:00 – Choosing Family Over Freedom

    18:00 – Reddit: When Friendships Clash with Values

    25:00 – The Gym, the Tights & the Cult of Hot Girls

    34:00 – Why Working Out Isn’t Working Anymore

    39:00 – Reddit: When “Success” Feels Hollow

    45:00 – Fighting For Yourself

    50:00 – Wrapping Up (Angry Activewear Rant)

    Follow us on Instagram @whatsthereason.pod to keep up with all things girlhood, womanhood, and everything in between 🎙️

    This podcast was brought to you by On Track Studio. www.ontrackstudio.com.au [email protected]

    50 min
  • Breaking Up with the Algorithm: Why I Finally Left Instagram

    In this episode, Kelsey  opens up about her decision to quit Instagram after years of struggling with social media addiction, self-comparison, and the pressure to present a picture-perfect life. She reflects on how the once-fun platform evolved into a space that fuelled insecurities, impacted her mental health, and shaped her experience of motherhood.


    💬 Here’s what we unpack:

    • How Instagram shaped her self-worth, body image, and perception of beauty

    • Insight into the emotional complexity of situationships and romantic confusion

    • Modern relationships, gender roles, and the importance of independence

    • Pregnancy at 19 and feeling pressure to appear desirable and relevant online

    • Tackling Reddit stories: messy relationships, situationships, emotional confusion.

    If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend, leave a review, or come say hi over on the pod’s Instagram (I promise I’m using it differently now).


    Jump to a chapter:

    00:00 – Intro & Croaky Voice Vibes

    00:28 – Breaking Up with Snapchat

    01:45 – Feeling ‘Too Old’ for It All

    03:44 – The Instagram Era Begins

    05:25 – When Instagram Took Over

    08:17 – Pregnancy, Insecurity & Influencers13:13 – The Moment Instagram Became Too Much

    18:00 – Two Months Offline & Feeling Free

    20:09 – Why She’ll Never Be a ‘Mumfluencer’

    21:06 – Social Media & Self-Worth

    22:32 – Advice Segment: Situationship Woes33:08 – Advice Segment: Controlling Husband

    45:00 – Final Reflections & Sign-Off

    Follow us on Instagram @whatsthereason.pod to keep up with all things girlhood, womanhood, and everything in between 🎙️


    This podcast was brought to you by On Track Studio. www.ontrackstudio.com.au [email protected]

    47 min
  • Solo Rants, Sister Drama & Digestive Wins

    In this weeks episode, things get raw, ridiculous, and a little reflective. From finding a life-changing (and gut-cleansing) miracle in a bottle of castor oil, to navigating awkward painting nights and pointy bras, Kelsey keeps it real. She also dives deep into the chaos of Reddit’s “Am I the Asshole?” with two wild sister-themed stories.


    💬 Here’s what we unpack:

    • Castor oil: the surprising hero of the episode

    • Wanting security but struggling with vulnerability

    • Destination wedding drama: money, manipulation, and lies

    • Reflecting on betrayal, boundaries, and family fallout

    • Finding the right therapist and the long path to healing

     It’s a rollercoaster of outrageous drama, personal confessions, and late-night overthinking about life, therapy, carpet, and love. You’ve been warned.


    Jump to a Chapter

    00:00 Intro & Early Childhood  

    05:00 Family, School & Friendships  

    15:00 Teenage Life & First Job  

    25:00 Relationships, Struggles & Growth  

    34:00 Career Journey & Parenthood  

    44:00 Lessons, Advice & Reflections  

    54:00 Gratitude & Outro 


    Follow us on Instagram @whatsthereason.pod to keep up with all things girlhood, womanhood, and everything in between 🎙️

    This podcast was brought to you by On Track Studio. www.ontrackstudio.com.au [email protected]

    47 min
  • Confidence, Chaos, and a Bit Too Much Honesty

    This unfiltered solo episode is a deep dive into the messy, empowering, and sometimes laugh-out-loud journey of building confidence and self-esteem from the ground up. From teenage insecurities and people-pleasing to single motherhood, dodgy dating apps, and unexpected therapy breakthroughs, she reflects on how self-worth evolves when it’s no longer tied to anyone else’s validation- especially not a man’s.


    💬 Here’s what we unpack:

    • The day-to-day grind and emotional resilience of raising a child solo.

    • Struggles with low self-worth in adolescence

    • The shift in self-image and identity post-baby.

    • Vulnerable body-image practice

    • Declaring new standards: no more dating men who don’t show appreciation.


    It’s a bold, often inappropriate, yet powerfully relatable episode about standing in your truth, embracing your past, and choosing yourself; Every single time.

    Jump to a Chapter:

    00:00 Intro & Setting the Stage  

    03:00 Confidence, Self-Esteem & Teenage Years  

    10:00 Therapy, Relationships & Self-Worth  

    18:00 Motherhood, Parenting & Identity  

    26:00 Online Dating & Real-Life Stories  

    35:00 Confidence Reflections & Closing Thoughts  

    37:30 Outro 


    Follow us on Instagram @whatsthereason.pod to keep up with all things girlhood, womanhood, and everything in between 🎙️

    This podcast was brought to you by On Track Studio. www.ontrackstudio.com.au [email protected]


    39 min
  • The Dangerous Woman

    Kelsey is back from her break and she’s diving straight into the story of becoming a Dangerous Woman. From lessons learned at a powerful retreat, to navigating big life changes and reflecting on love, this chat is equal parts honest, messy, and uplifting.

    It’s one of those episodes that feels like catching up with your bestie over a glass of wine. Raw stories, plenty of laughs, and a reminder that we all carry more strength than we realise.


    💬 Here’s what we unpack:

    • The retreat that shifted everything (and why it wasn’t what she expected)

    • Learning to let go of the “weight” we carry day to day

    • Riding the highs and lows of big life changes

    • Choosing for yourself, even when others have opinions

    • Finding empowerment in love, life and fresh starts

    The Dangerous 3 Day Retreat:

    https://www.dijanadjukiccoaching.com/retreats


    Jump to a Chapter

    00:00 – Kelsey’s intro & why she’s flying solo

    01:00 – Life updates: retreat, moving house & NZ trip

    01:35 – The women’s retreat & the “Dangerous” theme

    03:40 – Weighted vest exercise & emotional breakthroughs

    07:50 – Somatic release & empowerment

    13:00 – Post-retreat highs, lows & gritty determination

    15:20 – Moving house chaos & family time in NZ

    16:40 – The big reveal: getting back with her ex

    19:30 – Family opinions, approval traps & standing strong

    22:10 – Wrapping up & what’s ahead this season


    Follow us on Instagram @whatsthereason.pod to keep up with all things girlhood, womanhood, and everything in between 🎙️


    This podcast was brought to you by On Track Studio. www.ontrackstudio.com.au [email protected]

    25 min
  • Red Flags, Tattoo Regrets & Peeing in the Front Yard? Season Finale Chaos!

    We’ve made it to the end of Season 1! In this unhinged (but heartfelt) episode of What’s the Reason Podcast, Kelsey and Bridgette go rogue with solo rants, late-night notes, red flag lists, and one too many glasses of red wine. There’s a lot of laughter, a bit of oversharing (as per usual), and a whole bunch of “WTF” moments to wrap up the season.

    💬 Here’s what we unpack:

    Red flags that seem small but actually say everything 🚩

    Trend culture and why we’re so over it

    The time Kels nearly bought a sausage dog when wine drunk

    Public weeing, fake food allergies & Reese’s peanut butter obsessions

    Full circle moments from Episode 1 to now 🌀

    What we’re dreaming up for Season 2

    It’s chaotic, hilarious, and kind of wholesome. Thank you so much for being here with us this season — we bloody love this little corner of the internet we’ve created together 🫶

    Follow us on Instagram @whatsthereason.pod to keep up with all things girlhood, womanhood, and everything in between 🎙️


    This podcast was brought to you by On Track Studio. www.ontrackstudio.com.au [email protected]


    35 min
  • Self-Sabotage, Nervous System Stuff & Why You Keep Getting in Your Own Way

    Ever set a goal… then do everything but the thing you said you wanted to do? Same. In this episode of What’s the Reason Podcast, we’re breaking down self-sabotage in a way that actually makes sense. We're chatting nervous system stuff, people-pleasing patterns, and why doing less can feel so uncomfortable when your self-worth is tied to being busy.

    💬 Here’s what we get into:

    • Why self-sabotage is actually a safety response 😵‍💫

    • How your childhood coping strategies are still running the show

    • Doing less, guilt-free (spoiler: it’s not lazy, it’s necessary)

    • How to stop overgiving and start backing yourself

    • Nervous system basics explained like you're on FaceTime with a mate

    If you’ve been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or like you’re low-key sabotaging your own growth—this one’s for you. Slide into the comments and let us know your biggest takeaway 💬

    Follow us on Instagram @whatsthereason.pod 🎙️

    This podcast was brought to you by On Track Studio. www.ontrackstudio.com.au [email protected]


    33 min
  • Fake Confidence vs. Real Confidence, Self-Worth & Main Character Energy

    Confidence isn’t just about faking it till you make it—so what actually makes someone magnetic? In this episode of What’s the Reason Podcast, we’re breaking down the difference between real confidence and fake confidence, how self-worth shapes your energy, and why being the main character isn’t as cringe as it sounds.

    💬 Here’s what we get into:

    • Fake confidence vs. real confidence – how to spot the difference

    • How to stop looking for validation from other people 🙅‍♀️

    • Becoming “that” girl (without losing yourself in the process)

    • Why self-worth = the ultimate glow-up

    • The fastest way to shift into main character energy ✨

    This one’s for anyone who’s ever felt not enough—let’s change that. Drop your thoughts in the comments & follow us on Instagram @whatsthereason.pod! 🎙️

    This podcast was brought to you by On Track Studio.

    www.ontrackstudio.com.au


    34 min
  • Binge Drinking Culture, First Date Rules & Wild Party Stories

    This episode of What’s The Reason Podcast is a full-blown overshare session. We’re talking about Australia’s wild drinking culture, first date rules (are we waiting three dates now?!), and embarrassing party stories—including the worst hangovers of all time.

    💬 Here’s what we dive into:

    • Binge drinking in Australia – why do we go so hard? 🍻

    • First date rules: How long should you wait before sleeping with someone? 🤔

    • The worst hangovers of all time (and why it hits harder at 30)

    • Getting kicked out of the airport & airline staff horror stories ✈️

    • Vaping addiction & why quitting is so hard

    It’s chaotic, brutally honest, and exactly like a chat with your bestie. Drop your thoughts in the comments & follow us on Instagram @whatsthereason.pod! 🎙️

    This podcast was brought to you by On Track Studio.

    www.ontrackstudio.com.au


    37 min

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What's the Reason is your go-to podcast for all things girlhood, womanhood, and everything in between. We dive deep into the highs and lows that comes with being a girl in today’s world. From…