Last week a 21-year-old man went on a shooting spree targeting three massage spas in the United States. Eight people were murdered, including six Asian women. The gunman later blamed a "sex addiction" for the shooting and it's sparked a long overdue conversation about the danger of racial fetishes.

Plus, what happens when you make a $20 million mistake at work? Mamamia's Head of People & Culture, Nicolle Stuart, gives advice on recovering from a work f*ck-up.

And, ever been ghosted? Ghosting is an inevitable part of dating in 2021. So what should you do if you think you're being ghosted. And...is ghosting ever OK?

The End Bits 

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21 Texts To Send When You Think You're About To Get Ghosted - Bustle

Ghosting Always Sucks, but It Is So! Much! Worse! In a Global Pandemic - Cosmopolitan

'Last week, a guy told me honestly why he was dumping me. I wish he'd just ghosted.' - Mamamia

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