Why is it so hard to coach ourselves about husband challenges? Well, it's our most intimate relationship. We are the most vulnerable with our husbands and so we are able to be deeply hurt by what they say. Sterling shares a five-step process for what to do when your husband hurts your feelings. We certainly won't get it right every time but it helps to know what steps we can take to feel less pain when we're having conversations with our most loved person in the world.