Connected Families Podcast

When Parenting Styles Differ: Finding Unity with Your Strong-Willed Child


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Whether you’re just starting your parenting journey or you’ve hit a rough spot, today’s episode is a reminder that God’s grace is sufficient through it all. Seeing God’s mercy toward us in the midst of challenging family messes (like disagreeing about how to approach parenting a “strong-willed” child) is the hope of the Gospel! Connected Families Co-Founders, Jim and Lynne Jackson, sit down with longtime friends of Connected Families, Jay and Debi Allsup, to encourage families with their experience with their own adult daughters. They remind us that our kids’ biggest challenges now can become their greatest assets when they are older! Yes… even the “strong-willed” child!

Key Takeaways:
  • What it initially looked like for Jay and Debi to approach parenting with two completely different styles
  • Learn how Connected Families tools help parents to develop a common parenting language and a path forward to model reconciliation after they have had an imperfect parenting moment
  • Impact on their daughters in the present
  • God’s grace grows with your family
  • Mentioned in this Podcast:
    • Connected Families Framework Magnet
    • Ezekiel 47:8-9 NIV
    • Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting!

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      Guest Bio:

      Jay and Debi Allsup are long-time friends of Connected Families and were part of the original board. Jay serves business leaders with his financial acumen and deep Biblical insights, providing a unique perspective to companies and nonprofit organizations that leads them to fiscally responsible decisions and managed growth. Debi works as a Director of HR at a national community-based support services company.

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