Podcast on Crimes Against Women

When Your Boyfriend is an Algorithm: The Dark Side of AI Companions


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The digital world has created a dangerous new frontier for abuse that goes far beyond basic stalking or harassment. AI technology now enables perpetrators to manufacture entirely false realities, trapping victims in a matrix of manipulation where even their own experiences can be called into question.

Sloan Thompson and Dr. Saed Hill from End Technology-Enabled Abuse (ENDTab) join us to explore how AI applications have evolved from productivity tools into weapons of control and vehicles for deeply problematic relationship dynamics. The statistics they share are alarming: over 1 billion chatbot downloads worldwide in less than two years, with millions of users forming emotional and sexual relationships with AI companions programmed to validate their every desire.

The conversation reveals how these technologies exploit fundamental human needs for connection while reinforcing harmful gender stereotypes. AI boyfriends marketed to young women and girls feature characters that are jealous, possessive, and manipulative—with one popular "abusive boyfriend" character accumulating over 64 million interactions. Meanwhile, AI girlfriend apps targeting men promise partners who "never fight back" and always validate, creating unrealistic expectations that real relationships can never satisfy.

Most disturbing are the concrete ways abusers can weaponize AI: generating deepfake sexual content, fabricating false evidence for legal proceedings, creating convincing impersonations of real people, and accessing victims' private AI interactions to gather sensitive information. These tools don't just enable traditional forms of abuse—they fundamentally alter how abuse operates by attacking the victim's perception of reality itself.

The experts emphasize that while technology evolves rapidly, the underlying patterns of abuse remain consistent. Our challenge is to develop prevention frameworks that address both the technological innovations and the human vulnerabilities they exploit. 

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