This week we’re taking on the biggest question of the separation: should I stay or should I go? To help, we welcome Kate Anthony, host of the New York Times recommended podcast, The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast, and certified coach with over a decade’s worth of experience helping women make this decision for themselves. The process can be messy, but Kate has a few key questions that help us make sense of the emotional process of letting go of the relationship. Are you giving up too soon? Is there anything else you should try? Will your divorce screw up your kids? Is it OK to be treated as you’re being treated in the marriage? We dig into each of these questions and take a sobering side trip into the troubled marriage sex life all this week in the Toaster!Links & Notes

• KateAnthony.com
• The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast

• (00:00) - Welcome to How to Split a Toaster
• (00:26) - Kate Anthony – Your Divorce Survival Guide
• (02:06) - Why Are Men So Messed Up?
• (06:05) - Fear of Therapy
• (09:05) - Complacency... Routine... Grooves... Ruts...
• (11:53) - Four Questions: Am I giving up too soon?
• (14:02) - Four Questions: Is there one more thing I should try?
• (19:15) - Four Questions: Is it okay that he treats me like this?
• (20:59) - Four Questions: Does divorce really screw up kids?
• (25:49) - Rebuilding Trust
• (31:26) - Last Thoughts
• (32:50) - Wrapping Up