Where the Magic Happens

Lent, this Retrograde, or for your 2019 Resolutions moving forward: What are you doing differently, giving up, and/or adding?

(Self- Sabotage & Productivity) a.k.a. the Formula of Holding Yourself Not Back but Accountable

DON’T BLOCK YOUR BLESSINGS

Self Sabotage is the fear that tells you to run because something disastrous might happen in the future.

Michelle discusses some of the things we do to self-sabotage ourselves and how not to be productive. Tips follow accordingly alongside some stories and memories shared! Hope this resonates and helps everyone listening!!! Thank you for sharing where this magic happens!!!

Luisa and Gianluca join me to discuss where they were and are now in their postgrad funks and hilarious and interesting roommates stories during our college years. Learn how to be a decent roommate and enjoy the stories and tea that’s about to be spilled! Another episode to this series will come. 

About a week ago, I met a well-known comedian and this quick interaction had me shook and left me shook the following week. SO I’m here to discuss my thoughts and share with you guys how this has been a huge shift, reflection, and an awakening for me that aligns with my self-healing journey. He revealed a part of my heart space I needed to reopen and the confidence I needed to return to myself to take my power back. NOW, I’M ABLE TO listen to throwback rom com songs and watch them romantic movies whilst feeling those emotions of love within and for myself rather than what I feared before to be manifesting into a longing for the idea of romance or individuals who had not yet existed. I didn’t want to feed into that but I at this place in my life was able to feel that in the healthiest and most grounding way. I hope this faith I feel and good energies continue forward with me whilst I learn from experiences like these that I had with this comedian. Obviously I don’t want to sound like someone who saw this person as their world or idol or anything like that because he’s not but Nigel is just someone I admire and appreciate who shares great content that meeting him happened to have affected me in this way that I share.

Sorry if this episode may sound repetitive but that’s me, so you’re welcome haha but yeah I hope you all make it and listen ’til the end! Enjoy!

All about Veganism from my personal experience and the Netflix Films I recommend you all to check out! Enjoy!!! 

On today’s episode, Gianluca, a loyal listener and good friend of mine, joins us to share his experiences in relationships. We cover the differences in gender roles and expectations found in gay relationships versus heterosexual ones and the topic of Human Sex Trafficking. Gianluca shares how he found interest and information on this topic and what we can do to be more aware of this major issue for our safeties. We then tie it right back to how his current, amazing relationship manifested with a partner who shared similar interests during this time of his thesis’ study.

Below includes crucial information if you would like to help:

Report missing children or child pornography to the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children (NCMEC) at 1-800-THE-LOST (843-5678) or through their Cybertipline.

I'm so excited to share this episode with you guys! All about the GREAT Vincent Van Gogh!!!

If you skipped those readings and have yet to walk or drive on your way to school, this is a great spark notes version about his life, mental health, some of his works, the people who shared him with the world, and some quotes to carry forward with you! 

I discuss the importance of love, relationships, and mental health; relating Van Gogh's experience to my own. 

Youtube: "How To Identify The Human Host Of A Spiritual Parasite" - Young Pharaoh  

Song: Sleeping Ute - Grizzly Bear 

"Whatever happened to gathering together to experience than to just catch up." On this week's episode, I talk about how different friendships evolve to be as we grow older and what actions we could make in changing this phenomenon. 

Listen to Wayne Dyer on Love before bed!!!

My energy with the meaning behind what I'm sharing can be felt from listening to "Holiday" by Madonna and "Holiday" by Green Day because this really is what "I beg to dream and differ from the hollow lies. This is the dawning of the rest of our lives!!!"

Thank you for listening!!! And Sliiiide into my DMs @wherethemagichappenspod if you have any questions, constructive feedback, and relatable stories if these topics resonate with you on these episodes. 

Annette joins us for another podcast episode where we answer an attempted lightning round of Q & A's we found online. We discuss our philosophies on life, favorite books, relationship and sexual deal-breakers, and more!

We tried our best to answer questions in one sentence but had a lot more worth sharing! Get to know us more and stay tuned to enjoy some more solid advice on life and love!

DM me on my insta, @WheretheMagicHappensPod to share your answers and any more questions you would like me or Annette to answer! Thanks for listening guys <3

Disclaimer!!! These can be normal human being behaviors and feelings to just be made aware of and grow from! I just speak of specifically my case of how I USED TO BE codependent but no longer am anymore and how my progress and accomplishments are reflected from having spoken to this Rufus. He allowed me to come to completion in removing the little ties and tendencies of codepencies I had yet to cleanse and release myself of. I am - thank God! and the Universe! - no longer codependent and am conscious of knowing not to act on it if I am ever triggered. I hope to help all of you out there find the self love and self respect you deserve to have with yourself and the healthy treatment you deserve with the right people in any relationship. Thank you to my best friend, Jen, for reaching out to me to clarify this because this is a serious conversation and I don’t want anyone to selfshame or misidentify yourselves. And know regardless to never shame yourself because you are all valid and worthy just by breathing and being alive. I love and appreciate your existence, love.

Don't force it, let it be. Know your power, your value, your worth, and respect your healthy BOUNDARIES. Create boundaries for yourself and love yourself. Appreciate your progress and what more you have yet to work on! 2019!!! LOVE YOURSELVES AND STAY BOOKED AND BUSY! Be Kind To One Another.

Rufus reflected my growth and progress! My Self-healing continues <3 @Nu_Mindframe and Breeny Lee both confirmed and guided me along this part of my journey. Check them out; they are absolutely amazing and will help wherever you are in life right now. I thank my closest friends for being so patient and supportive as they loved me at my best AND my worst. Thank you! 

Anne and Annette join me to discuss all about boys, - all of which can apply to any partners - relationships, finding yourself codependent and when you need to pull yourself out. You may not be codependent but it’s behaviors that you find in yourself and your partner that you should create boundaries for and not put up with. Knowing when to pull out or work through something to move forward with the opposite person.