When Jason and Peter heard about a study suggesting that children in The Netherlands were the happiest kids in the world, their reaction was naturally…Really, no really!

They were determined to find out how The Netherlands was able to lay claim to having the happiest children in the world! And more importantly…if their claim was true, what could be learned from their child rearing techniques. They also wanted to figure out the correct name for the country, since people refer to it as - “Netherlands” or “The Netherlands” or “Holland”!

For answers they turned to an actual Netherlander (or whatever they’re called) Veronique van der Kleij. She is a child and school psychologist who has worked at The International School of the Hague with children, adolescents, and their families. She specializes in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Mindfulness Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT), and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). She also has a master’s in child and Adolescent Psychology, and a 2-year post-master degree in School Psychology.

IN THIS EPISODE:

• What differentiates kids in Holland from those in other countries.
• The impact of helicopter parenting.
• Bikes and kids…the surprising benefits!
• Dutch kids & social media – how they interact.
• How the Dutch discuss sex, drugs, gender and other difficult conversations.
• The shocking differences in parental leave in The Netherlands!
• How parents punish their children in Holland.
• The importance of allowing kids to make mistakes.
• Jason’s extraordinary journey to happiness and contentedness.

Googleheim: The Netherlands or Holland?

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Website: Calm-Mind-Psychology.nl

LinkedIN @Veronique van der Kleij

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