Who Gets Love?? (Hosted by: Christal Clear & BJ)

What is the process you take with beautiful people who need just a little bit of help? Do their circumstances change their appeal or appearance? These are a few questions we address in this current draft, titled Handsome Devil. BJ and Christal talk about the guy that knows he's handsome yet doesn't recognize his flaws. Accountability is a major issue in our men...YES! But among other things, like support, encouragement, and constructive criticism are issues as well. And be honest, there are a few guys you gave a chance JUST BECAUSE HE LOOKED GOOD. So... ask yourself...have you created a devil that is busy terrorizing the dating scene today? Tune in and let us know your thoughts!!!

We have now come to a conclusion with the conversation, "This, That and The Third". We know can agree that there is no right or wrong in a disagreement. We are all just living out our experiences to what happened. But there are choices in the matter. What you do with your truth is very critical to your relationship health and longevity. Here, Christal and BJ discuss one of the most popularly dangerous positions ever created in relationships, which is the infamous "I said what I said" phrase. As well as changing the ear to what you hear that you may not like...because how it sounds is not always how its meant. Let us know if this conversation resonates with you. We would love to hear your thoughts!

Today we discuss the third person POV, and how effective it is to conflict resolution. We all know someone who has a bit of an arguing problem. That tends to alert everyone of what it feels like to be them in the situation. But what we don't pay attention to is the ability to illustrate not only their issue; But the point of view and position of the person they feel is coming against them. How can you explain their position exceptionally in gossip...but not so much in the heat of the moment? The third person is a perspective that teaches us how to remove ourselves from the issue to process what is happening...as if it doesn't directly involve us. Can that ability help your relationship? Have you tried to remove yourself from the forefront to pay attention to the surrounding issues. We discuss this here! Tune In!!!

What do you do with three versions of the truth in your current disagreement with your partner? Listen as Christal and BJ commit to figuring out where they stand in this analytical war zone of emotions. This one is fun, yet very enlightening. Press play and let us know what you think!

BJ and Christal have finally arrived to a conclusion with Planning for The Past. Here, we are examining to what extent will we have to go to affirm our choices. Knowing that our past is what it is (and will be) ...what will it take for you to decide on how you would want live and love to look? It shouldn't take an extreme to make us budge. But truthfully, sometimes it does. And for most of us, it takes for us to be under the gun in order to make a sound decision. What are you choosing for your life after you listen to this conversation???

Our second draft of Planning For The Past talks about how informed your current behaviors are by the past events. Every step of your way was probably predetermined by something that happened to you as a kid. And it will take you to become an adult to realize it. For Christal, it was in her formative years as a young girl wanting to be social in a place her mom didn't see fit. For BJ, it was high school learning about the realities of honesty for other kids, while having his own truths to tell. These things are a huge factor in why and how you get two people like Christal and BJ.  Even as far as how you get this show today. Who Gets love is what it is because of the skillsets the past developed in two people of two completely different walks of life. Have you ever wondered where the past hurts and misfortunes are going to lead you? And what will you do for the meantime until you find out? Take a listen and tell us what you think.

We all know the saying..."You Must Plan for The Future"! But how is that possible when every decision you have made as an adult has been a counter to your past experiences? In order to plan for the future, we must live in the moment, without reflecting on the past. But be honest with yourself...nothing about who you are today was built by random, unforeseen moments you've experienced today. You are a product of yesterday. Today's topic discusses your Planning For The Past! This will make total sense once you press play!

The Final Draft of Give Another Fuck is available now. He we come to the conclusion of what we think is best, in terms of footing, when making another step in the direction of love. Knowing what we know makes living much harder because we look at moving forward as a potential bad choice. And who knows...you may be staring directly at your new boo. But you may not recognize them through the fogged lens of your perspective. Listen as we craft a few ideas for the person who wants to give this love thing another shot. Press play and tell us what you think.

Rough Draft 2 of Give Another F*ck is here guys. In this discussion, we talk about knowing what you want, while choosing unhealthy things and people to be attracted to. How do we get here ALL THE TIME!?! We dissect this space and come up with ways we end up confused by our own merits. This is a great follow up to Rough Draft 1. Tune in and tell us what you think!

As we wrap up Accepting the Reality You've Manipulated...we enter into a reality that many of us are very familiar with. YEP...We are talking about our hurt places. Far too often we make the choice to wallow in our sorrows and heartbreaks. But knowing yourself well enough should tell you that things only get worse when you stay angry. How many times in life has someone asked you "So What You Gon Do About It?" when you give your troubled stories? Have you ever taken accountability for what has been happening to you as of late? We examine that here in our first rough draft of Give Another F*ck!!! Join us by pressing play!