Who Gets Love?? (Hosted by: Christal Clear & BJ)

Take a listen to the final draft of Accepting The reality You've Manipulated. Christal adjusts the title to what she now calls Manipulate Everything But The Truth. We finally arrive to the conclusion that some of our realities are at our own biddings. It's no one's fault but your own. And in some cases, accepting the realities come by way of holding yourself accountable. Even in the disappointments.

Take a listen to the follow up draft to Accepting The Reality You've Manipulated. Tell us what you think.

Welcome Back to Who Gets Love. Christal and BJ are returning with a brand-new outlook and approach to dialogue between the sexes. We introduce what we call Rough Drafts. Which involve the creation process from start to finish. Instead of preparing arguments on the behalf of each gender's perspective...we simply TALK to one another. With no defenses, arguments, or vantage points. We attempt to simply hear each other. Completely opening the space for honest conversation. And this first draft kicks things off. Listen as we discuss the acceptance of the realities we create (or manipulate) for ourselves. There is so much importance in the choices we make. Hope you enjoy this offering. Let us know what you think.

Today we return with Part 2 to Size Matters. This conversation poses a question that we're sure many of us have never considered...ARE YOU FIT FOR A RELATIONSHIP?

When you think about what made you attractive in the beginning stages...do you have the stamina and discipline to maintain those attributes? Should you even be expected to after the wear and tear of a relationship? How often do you speak about physical goals and expectations in your relationship? We discuss this and more in this conversation. Press Play!!!

We just want you to listen to this very necessary conversation! It's called Size Matters. Press Play!!!

Christal and BJ keep this short and sweet by discussing what they've gained from this month's conversation. Both shared points of emphasis of parts 1 and 2 of Sex Work. They also introduce their next conversation for the month of November. You will definitely enjoy this, AND what's to come from Who Gets Love. Press play and let us know what you think.

Relationships can be difficult if you don't know where you stand. Which would suggest that we as people should communicate more. But when it comes to sex, we discuss more of the act itself, than we do the responsibilities to it. So here on Who Gets Love, we bring you part 2 of this months topic. Which is called Sex Work. Where we work on the things that improve the beginning stages to a great physical relationship. 

Discipline Deserve Intimacy discusses prioritizing your life and love that you share with someone else. Far too often as adults, we become consumed with so many things that distract us from our partners. Which also becomes a distraction to romance and intimacy as well. We look at these short time spans we have as deadlines. And when we think to rush into meeting physical needs, we miss the indication that somewhere we've lost touch. And that touch is important.

This discussion talks about the importance of balance, attention, communication, awareness, consideration, discipline, and deserve. All the things that promote a healthy physical relationship. You will have to listen in order to understand how those words relate to a physical relationship. May not seem like they fit. But they do. Listen and hear how.

Here we are with a new discussion that is nothing like what you expect. And NO, we are not discussing actual sex workers. But we are discussing SEX WORK. The work men and women have to agree to, for much better physical interaction and chemistry within relationships. We discuss how principles and morals are the initial turn on to this entire process. As well as how many of us skip over the trust and comfort we discussed in our By The Book segment. People need safety and security in a lot of things. Sex is also a space for those things to coexist.

This discussion starts with the atmosphere for where our sexual feelings and behaviors come from. Knowing how to read your partner, and the room. Being mindful of the comfort needed to even consider giving yourself to a person. Those inner workings are very much key to get a person in the mood (if there is a mood). We also talk about how sex is used, whether correctly or incorrectly, as a form of gratitude or appreciation. Societal standards have definitely made intimacy more complicated these days. So every know and again, we have to go back and review some fundamentals. While still updating the rules that are rather antiquated. You won't be disappointed in today's conversation. OR the next part coming shortly after. Tune In and let us know what you think

Part 2 of our first By The Book review is here guys. We pick up where part 1 left off. And let me tell you…this is where Christal and BJ really engaged the book. They took so much from the book. As well as processed the information differently. The discussion is packed with perspective, analogy, and breakdowns that you would expect to get from the two. There is even a little tiff that somehow makes the very points of why Mira Kirshenbaum wrote this book in the first place. Tune in to the final portion of the By The Book review we've done on the book, I Love You But I Don't Trust You.

Today is the very first edition of By The Book. This is where Christal and BJ take their conversations to a completely different level. The duo are both readers as well. And in the process of developing this segment to the platform, they both realized the differences between them. One, in literature choices. The other is in reading style. But to both of their surprises, this was a great conversation in the end.

The book they chose to read was a book written by Mira Kirshenbaum, titled I Love You But I Don't Trust You. This book deals with the trust factors of a relationship, and how people are to find resolution using trust in a relationship. There were tons of variables and gems woven throughout the book. Christal was able to thoroughly enjoy and comprehend the majority of the book. BJ, on the other hand, found it challenging to accept in certain areas and forms. From there, we used key elements in the book to dissect our more modernized current events and experiences. To see if what was given in the read was even practical in today's relationship woes. Tune in as Christal and BJ give a full review of the book. As well as create their own conversation around the things they both learned. Hopefully, you will enjoy this enough to want to read this for yourself. It's a must, in our opinions!!! Tune in to the first edition of By The Book. Part 1 is a great introduction. Part 2 will follow very soon.