Who Ya Know Show

About the Guest(s):

Azadeh is a transformational life coach and couples coach, with an incredible personal journey that fuels her current calling. Born amid the chaos of the Iranian revolution, Azadeh's early life was marred by trauma and what she describes as a 'narcissistic culture' that conflated abuse with love, setting a harmful relational template. Overcoming her struggles, she has been sober for 22 years and uses victory over her own demons to guide others. She helps individuals navigate through the challenges of narcissistic abuse and relationship dynamics, armed with her methodologies, including a 12-step program tailored for recovery from such abuse.

Episode Summary:

In this heartfelt and enlightening episode, Azadeh and host Trevor unpack the subtle nuances of healthy and toxic relationships just in time for Valentine's Day. The conversation delves deep into what true love should look like, as opposed to the deceptive tactics of a narcissist. They explore how a nurturing relationship takes time to develop and the pitfalls of rushing into emotional attachments prematurely.

Azadeh shares her wisdom on the patterns that lead individuals to attract toxic partners, presenting key indicators of narcissistic behavior and explaining how to navigate such relationships, with a particularly intriguing perspective on narcissism in the workplace. Through engaging anecdotes and insightful exchanges, Trevor and Azadeh deconstruct the complexities behind the need for validation, communication snafus, and the crucial role of self-awareness and accountability in dating and professional environments.

Resources:

Chapters:

(0:04:39) The common denominator in toxic relationships.

(0:07:30) Turning red flags into green flags, ignoring warning signs.

(0:08:10) Setting deal breakers and knowing your bottom line in relationships.

(0:09:36) Becoming the person you want to attract in a partner.

(0:12:55) Tips for dealing with narcissistic relationships and seeking help.

(0:15:09) How to differentiate between love bombing and genuine feelings

(0:21:32) Being intentional about finding a partner and taking time to know them.

(0:24:12) Making a list of wants and deal breakers in a partner.

(0:27:25) Lack of vulnerability and fear of intimacy in relationships.

(0:30:06) Creating space for conscious speaking in relationships.

(0:34:14) Red flags of a narcissistic boss.

(0:37:24) The conflict of calling out excuses in a group setting.

(0:40:05) The importance of balance and consistency in leadership.

(0:50:49) Azadeh’s experience of seeking attention and validation.

(0:53:57) Trevor's determination to prove himself to the world.

About the Guest(s):

Marie Diaz is a force in the business world, with her title as Chief Visionary Officer of CEO Clubs Worldwide speaking to her skill in both leadership and innovation. Recognized for her entrepreneurial acumen, Marie has earned prestigious accolades from Ernst and Young to the Inc. 500 list. Her latest venture, Girls Gone Gorgeous, is geared towards empowering women through mentorship and fostering influential leadership among them.

Episode Summary:

In this episode of the "Who You Know" show, we sit down with the insightful Marie Diaz to discuss the significance of female empowerment and leadership. This conversation sheds light on the transformative power of mentorship programs and the crucial role of personal growth and self-awareness in one’s professional journey.

Marie shares her deep conviction about women taking the helm of their professional lives and the importance of an inside-out approach to beauty and strength. The discussion embarks on the pivotal subject of social norms surrounding women's roles in the workplace and society at large. The dialogue navigates the narratives that have influenced women’s career trajectories and the strategic ways to foster a culture of support rather than competition among females in the workforce.

Resources:

Chapters:

(0:00:00) Marie Diaz introduces the concept of Girl Gone Gorgeous and taking back control as a woman.

(0:01:03) Marie’s involvement with Not On Our Watch Texas and the Girls Gone Gorgeous program.

(0:03:40) Marie Diaz discusses the historical reasons behind women pulling each other down and the need for a growth mindset.

(0:07:17) The importance of taking care of the minutes to take care of the hours and the call to action of Not On Our Watch Texas.

(0:09:47) The future of Not On Our Watch Texas.

(0:10:43) CEO Clubs Worldwide and the Girl Gone Gorgeous program.

About the Guest(s):

Damon Lembi is a seasoned professional whose career evolution reflects a profound journey from athletics to business leadership. He hails from the San Francisco Bay area and had an aspiring career in baseball, from which he garnered invaluable leadership skills. Damon's decisive pivot took him to the corporate sector, where he climbed the ranks from receptionist to CEO in the training company Learn It. Under his stewardship, Learn It has delivered impactful training to over 1.9 million individuals, emphasizing continuous growth and the adoption of a learner's mindset in leadership.

Episode Summary:

In this celebratory episode marking the 6th anniversary of the show, host Trevor welcomes Damon Lembi to explore the principles of impactful leadership and the transformative power of a learning mindset. The conversation traverses the trajectory from Damon’s athletic background to his leadership philosophy, providing actionable insights for fostering team success and personal growth.

The episode delves into Damon’s transition from a would-be professional baseball career to pioneering success in the learning and development industry. It highlights the significance of aligning team members’ strengths with company aspirations and the operational agility needed to overcome adversities such as the pandemic. The discussion also touches on combating imposter syndrome with a straightforward, three-step process and the importance of cultivating accountability within teams.

Resources:

Chapters:

(0:00:00) The importance of leaders adapting to different employees  

(0:01:55) How Damon’s athletic background shaped his approach to leadership  

(0:04:05) Career transitions and reinventing oneself  

(0:07:11) Damon’s journey from being a receptionist to becoming CEO  

(0:10:39) The value of hiring for potential over experience  

(0:12:34) The importance of passion and commitment  

(0:14:43) Hiring individuals of all ages and backgrounds for their potential and fresh perspectives  

(0:17:05) Overcoming age discrimination by addressing stereotypes and showcasing adaptability and openness to learning  

(0:17:58) The concept of being a "learn it all" leader and the value of curiosity and humility  

(0:25:08) Damon's three-step approach to overcoming imposter syndrome  

(0:27:20) Celebrating achievements and learning from mistakes  

(0:32:48) The importance of trying new things and not being afraid to make mistakes  

(0:36:05) The importance of accountability in society  

(0:41:34) The importance of empathy and understanding in dealing with customer service interactions  

(0:42:49) Taking accountability for their actions instead of blaming others  

(0:45:56) Damon introduces his company, LearnIt  

(0:49:57) The importance of showing up and providing feedback

About the Guest(s):

LisaBeth Thomas is a notable personality from central Texas who's carved out a reputation for her inventive thinking, crafting successful advertising campaigns, and her unyielding dedication to the safety and well-being of children. She serves as the founding president of Texas Women in Business. With her extensive background in media production and news, she has turned her focus to leading a pivotal campaign called "Not On Our Watch Texas," tackling the disturbing rise of online sexual exploitation of children.

Episode Summary:

In an eye-opening and critical discussion on child safety online, LisaBeth Thomas brings to light a challenging goal on the "Who You Know" podcast hosted by Trevor Houston. The episode delves into the aggressive campaign aimed at protecting one million families by the end of 2024 by raising awareness about online child exploitation, which has skyrocketed since the pandemic.

Through a thoughtful narrative, LisaBeth Thomas expounds on her mission with "Not On Our Watch Texas." Her approach is clear: create a ripple effect by reaching out to individuals who can spread the word within their communities. One particularly bright moment in the episode is the revelation of a partnership with Girl Scouts to develop a curriculum focused on child safety, proving the power of asking the right questions to the right people. Her strategic use of online platforms to track engagement paves the way for a potentially nationwide movement against child exploitation.

Resources:

Chapters:

(0:00:00) LisaBeth Thomas discusses the goal of reaching a million families by 2024.

(0:01:20) The inspiration behind starting Not On Our Watch Texas.

(0:02:14) Texas' ranking in human trafficking.

(0:03:20) The increase in online exploitation during COVID-19.

(0:06:03) Mandatory training program for children before using smartphones.

(0:08:16) The need to show kids the dangers of online behavior.

(0:09:09) LisaBeth explains the concept of sextortion and how predators manipulate children.

(0:11:12) The importance of taking action against child exploitation.

(0:12:08) The relevance of sex education in schools.

(0:13:16) LisaBeth’s plan to reach a million families by 2024.

(0:14:29) How Lisa Beth approached the Girl Scouts to collaborate on raising awareness.

(0:18:33) A strategy of encouraging attendees to sign up and refer three others.

(0:19:25) A potential project.

(0:20:40) Conclusion

About the Guest(s):

Cherie Mathews is a visionary entrepreneur, breast cancer survivor, innovator, and advocate for various causes, including the fight against child sex trafficking. With a background at IBM, Cherie is the founder of Healincomfort, a company specializing in post-mastectomy garments designed to support healing and provide comfort to patients. As an advocate for education and empowerment, Cherie is a board member of the Not On Our Watch initiative, which is dedicated to raising awareness and preventing child sex trafficking. Her dedication to creating solutions for post-surgery patients has significantly impacted many lives.

Episode Summary:

In this inspiring and socially impactful episode, Cherie Mathews joins host Trevor Houston at the Not On Our Watch Texas event to discuss her journey from overcoming breast cancer to becoming a successful entrepreneur and advocate. Cherie shares her personal story, the motivation behind her company Healincomfort, and her role as a board member of Not On Our Watch, an organization dedicated to stopping child sex trafficking.

Cherie Mathews and Trevor Houston engage in a candid conversation about the critical issues surrounding child safety in the digital age. As a problem-solver at heart, Cherie recounts her own experience dealing with post-mastectomy challenges and how she translated her personal plight into a globally recognized solution, impacting over 150,000 patients without resorting to conventional marketing strategies. The dialogue then shifts towards the alarming growth of child sex trafficking and ways the average person can contribute to combating these heinous crimes.

Resources:

Chapters:

(0:00:00) Cherie Mathews shares her solution to help 150,000 souls through guerrilla marketing.  

(0:02:01) Cherie explains how she got involved with the not on our watch Texas event.  

(0:03:20) Starting Healincomfort and its impact on post mastectomy patients.  

(0:10:50) The shocking reality of child sex trafficking.  

(0:11:36) What the average person can do to help combat child sex trafficking.  

(0:12:09) Stopping the feeder program and keeping children safe.  

(0:14:18) Creating a community to sound the alarm and be watchful.  

(0:15:02) The dangers of online predators and the tragic consequences.  

(0:16:53) The prevalence of online approaches and the need for awareness.  

(0:19:30) The need for age restrictions or throttling on devices.  

(0:20:57) The vulnerability of children and the importance of education.  

(0:22:17) The impact of exposure to explicit content on children's brains.  

(0:23:11) Introduction to a new technology for healing and protection.  

(0:24:28) Cherie’s urge to join their community and help sound the alarm.  

(0:25:05) The need to stop the tactics targeting children. 

About the Guest(s):

Madeline Ricci is a seasoned entrepreneur and network influencer with an extensive professional history boasting 18 years as a corporate executive. In 2008, she bravely transitioned into entrepreneurship, where she never looked back. Madeline co-owns a business with her husband that they have been running for 16 years. Additionally, they serve as master franchisers for two health and wellness franchises and operate a coaching and consulting business. A key player in the professional realm, Madeline maintains a substantial audience on LinkedIn, through which she exercises significant industry influence.

Episode Summary:

In an illuminating episode of the "Who You Know" show, we sit down with entrepreneur and advocate Madeline Ricci during the "Not On Our Watch" event, which raises awareness about the pressing issue of child sex trafficking. With the intimacy of a fireside chat and the urgency of a town hall meeting, Madeline discusses the critical role of communication and education in protecting our children.

Madeline Ricci emphasizes the necessity of initiating conversations about child safety within familiar circles of influence, such as PTA groups and youth organizations. She expresses concern over the lack of dialogue in these areas and suggests leveraging resources available to parents and the community. Reflecting on her experience as a mother and the potential of one day becoming a grandmother, she underscores that responsibility begins at home, with open discussions between parents and children to foster an environment of trust and awareness.

Resources:

Chapters:

(0:00:00) The lack of communication with children and the need for schools to promote awareness.

(0:01:07) Madeline explains how she got involved in the event and the importance of being aware of child sex trafficking.

(0:03:38) The importance of open communication between parents and children and the need for education in schools.

(0:05:27) Madeline suggests utilizing the PTA to educate parents and spread awareness about child sex trafficking.

(0:06:27) Madeline’s role as an entrepreneur and how she can use her influence and network to support the cause.

About the Guest(s):

Brandon Poor is a dedicated investigator specializing in child exploitation and abuse investigations with the Grand Prairie Police Department. Additionally, he is the co-producer of the Catfish Cops podcast. Poor uses his expertise in law enforcement to combat online exploitation and safeguard children within the digital world. His work includes going undercover online to intercept and apprehend individuals who prey on children, furthering his commitment to child safety and criminal justice.

Episode Summary:

In this revealing episode of the "Who You Know" show, host Trevor Houston sits down with investigator Brandon Poor to delve into the concerning world of child exploitation and the rising tide of sextortion. Poised at the forefront of this battle, Poor shares his insights into the digital risks facing today's youth and the relentless efforts of law enforcement to protect them.

Brandon Poor sheds light on the alarming prevalence of child exploitation, underlining that while not every child may be a victim, the problem is far more widespread than generally acknowledged. He emphasizes the stark contrast between traditional, hands-on abuse, often perpetrated by someone known to the child in their immediate environment, and the boundaryless reach of online exploitation, which often involves perpetrators unknown to the children they target. In the evolution of digital predation, sextortion has emerged as a perilous threat to which even children from stable, supportive families are vulnerable. The conversation further explores Poor's own experiences working undercover to unmask these predators and shares stories of successful interventions that underscore the valuable work done by our law enforcement agencies.

Resources:

Chapters:

(0:00:00) Child abuse and exploitation statistics

(0:01:19) The prevalence of child exploitation

(0:03:16) The process of grooming and online child exploitation

(0:04:40) A successful catch story

(0:07:14) Introduction to the Catfish Cops podcast

(0:09:04) How to support the cause and access resources

**About the Guest(s):**

Catie Campbell is an esteemed coach who brings her in-depth knowledge of emotional intelligence into the realms of leadership and professional development. With a background that encompasses working with over 20,000 leaders, Catie has honed her expertise in guiding individuals toward achieving emotional understanding and precision in interpreting their surroundings. She advocates for balancing traditional professional skills with emotional competency, tailoring strategies to help clients navigate and excel in various social systems and cultures.

**Episode Summary:**

In this insightful episode, host Trevor Houston welcomes Catie Campbell, a coach who specializes in emotional intelligence and transformative leadership practices. The conversation dives into the deep waters of emotional intelligence, gender norms, and the influence of family and social systems on emotional expression. With a candid and rich dialogue, the episode uncovers strategies for leaders to connect with their teams authentically and drive high performance through understanding and compassion.

Catie Campbell unravels the layers of emotional intelligence by defining its core components and emphasizing its significance in professional settings. From reading the room to active listening, the discussion pinpoints the common pitfalls that obstruct leaders and the power of emotional states in decision-making processes. Catie insists that fostering strong relationships is quintessential for success and walks us through a goal-setting guide that aligns personal feelings with professional targets.

**Resources:**

• Catie Campbell's TikTok: @thekatiecampbell

• Goal Setting Guide: Available upon visiting Catie Campbell's website. https://www.colibrimagic.com/

• LinkedIn e-book: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://online.flippingbook.com/view/714118097/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

• Subscribe: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/who-ya-know-show⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

• Trevor Houston is a licensed financial professional offering insurance/financial products through various carriers. For more info visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://cpwstrategies.com

**Chapters:**

(0:00:00) Introduction to emotional intelligence and societal influences on emotional expression.

(0:01:21) Definition of emotional intelligence and its importance for leaders.

(0:03:36) The impact of family systems and cultural norms on emotional expression.

(0:06:20) Personal example of emotional response in a professional setting.

(0:10:51) Reflecting on emotional responses and taking responsibility.

(0:11:39) Training for emotional health and preparedness in challenging situations.

(0:12:06) The importance of showing up consistently and prepared.

(0:13:08) Using emotional intelligence to build deeper connections with team members.

(0:18:14) The importance of reaching out and understanding what's going on with team members.

(0:23:19) Addressing performance issues and making necessary changes.

(0:23:55) Common pitfall: Leaders neglect personal development.

(0:27:05) Hope is not a strategy for success.

(0:28:23) Successful leaders are students of the game.

(0:31:57) Job seekers must adapt and showcase up-to-date skills.

(0:33:36) Creative idea for job seekers: Start a podcast.

(0:38:46) Podcasting helps employers understand who you are beyond your resume.

(0:40:41) Coaching mistake: Giving personal advice instead of empowering clients.

(0:44:56) Learning the importance of empowering clients to make their own decisions.

(0:45:36) There are three levels of learning from mistakes: the moron, the smart man, and the wise man.

(0:46:41) The importance of learning from other people's mistakes.

(0:48:04) Reflecting on the past year and designing goals based on desired feelings.

(0:52:00) The significance of clarifying the feeling behind goals.

(0:54:41) Helping someone overcome fear and take action.

(0:55:56) The impact of aligning feelings and expectations.

(0:56:47) Catie Campbell talks about her goal setting guide.

**About the Guest(s):**

Mitch Matthews is an acclaimed keynote speaker, coach, and the innovative mind behind the "Dream Think Do" podcast. His mission revolves around empowering individuals to dream bigger, think better, and do more of what they're created to achieve. As a seasoned entrepreneur and business coach, Mitch combines his extensive experience and passion for growth to inspire others. With a legacy of entrepreneurial ventures, he continues to impart success strategies and personal development insights to help people and businesses flourish.

**Episode Summary:**

In this invigorating episode of the "Who You Know Show", host Trevor Houston sits down with the inspiring Mitch Matthews, delving into the art and significance of networking, personal development, and entrepreneurship. The conversation unfolds to reveal Mitch’s deep understanding of creating meaningful connections and leveraging relationships for mutual success.

**Resources:**

**Chapters:**

(0:00:00) Mitch Matthews emphasizes the importance of being interested in others while networking.

(0:01:52) Mitch Matthews shares how he transitioned from a bad fit job to becoming a business coach.

(0:05:48) Mitch Matthews discusses his approach to networking by meeting interesting people at a Panera.

(0:08:00) Mitch and Trevor discuss being introverts and strategies for networking and bringing value.

(0:10:56) The value of building relationships through meetings.

(0:11:23) The significance of having a sequence in business.

(0:13:11) The common mistake of not having a sequence in coaching and speaking.

(0:16:11) The challenge of starting as a novice in new areas.

(0:18:30) Strategies for reaching out to past podcast guests for help.

(0:19:39) The importance of asking for opinions before actions.

(0:20:49) Individual asks may be more effective than global asks.

(0:23:36) Allowing people behind the curtain can create a sense of connection and ownership.

(0:27:46) There are fewer active podcasts compared to other media channels.

(0:29:46) Trevor shares a story about overcoming his fear of public speaking.

(0:31:17) Mitch and Trevor discuss the challenges of being introverted while also being a speaker.

(0:33:27) Mitch shares his mistake of not giving himself permission to be a novice and try new things.

(0:38:01) Trevor discusses the importance of experimenting and taking small steps of faith instead of making a blind leap.

(0:39:20) Trevor shares his plans for teaching compliance-friendly podcasting and getting into coaching.

(0:39:54) Coaching allows for delivering value at a different level.

(0:40:12) Charging for coaching ensures commitment and action from clients.

(0:40:35) Offering coaching helps more people and provides deeper value.

(0:42:58) Start with the vision for your life and business.

(0:44:31) Build your business to serve your vision for life.

(0:45:23) Increase coaching prices when demand exceeds availability.

(0:47:29) Not all people will take action even if they pay for a program.

(0:48:03) Introverts may find large events overwhelming.

(0:49:08) Trevor discusses the importance of how you make people feel.

(0:51:52) Mitch explains his coaching focus on leaders making big decisions.

(0:55:27) Mitch shares his podcasting strategy for coaches, speakers, and content creators.

(1:02:03) The coaching and personal development industry is growing rapidly.

(1:04:30) Mitch encourages listeners to find their passion and keep learning.

**About the Guest(s):**

Michael O'Brien is a resilience expert, professional speaker, and author with a profound story of survival and transformation. He has leveraged his life-changing cycling accident and near-death experience to become a beacon of inspiration, emphasizing the power of resilience, mindfulness, and community in overcoming challenges. Michael's work is focused on helping individuals and organizations navigate change, build stronger relationships, and foster positive, inclusive cultures. With his leadership insights and his advocacy for mindfulness practices, Michael has become a sought-after speaker and coach, demonstrating that adversity can be a springboard to greater success and personal growth.

**Episode Summary:**

In this introspective episode, Michael O'Brien joins host Trevor Houston for a deep dive into the concepts of resilience, gratitude, and mindfulness. With an air of vulnerability, Michael recounts his harrowing cycling accident, his journey through recovery, and the unexpected ways it reshaped his perspective on life and success. As the conversation unfolds, the topic gravitates to how such life-altering experiences can be transformative, offering valuable lessons on navigating the uncertainties of life and building the muscle of resilience.

**Chapters:**

(0:00:00) Michael O'Brien describes his near-death cycling accident

(0:01:37) Trevor Houston asks about the accident and if Michael was wearing a helmet

(0:02:05) Michael recounts the details of the accident and his injuries

(0:06:38) Trevor asks about Michael's mindset after the accident

(0:08:20) Michael discusses initially feeling like a victim and his shift in mindset

(0:10:01) Michael talks about practicing gratitude and choosing his own label

(0:12:24) Overcoming a victim mentality and shifting mindset

(0:13:35) Importance of building a supportive community

(0:15:03) Taking small steps and celebrating small wins

(0:18:07) Introducing the pause, breathe, reflect (PBR) practice

(0:19:37) Benefits of weaving mindfulness throughout the day

(0:20:49) The app designed to help busy individuals practice mindfulness

(0:24:04) Health benefits of mindfulness in reducing inflammation

(0:25:35) Mindfulness as a tool to sharpen performance and maintain an edge

(0:26:55) Ice baths can induce a state of mindfulness through deep breath work

(0:27:57) Incorporating short mindfulness practices throughout the day is beneficial

(0:31:49) If 7 billion people practiced mindfulness, it could lead to a more peaceful world

(0:32:43) Emotional intelligence and mindfulness are essential for effective leadership

(0:38:43) Viewing others through a broader lens can lead to unity and trust

(0:39:23) Trevor Houston discusses the importance of selling cars in developing people skills

(0:41:18) How to build resilience in the face of unexpected changes or challenges

(0:43:03) Trevor and Michael discuss whether resilience is a muscle and how to develop it

(0:44:46) Expecting the unexpected and having a resilient mindset

(0:48:58) Michael O'Brien introduces his coaching program, "The Inner Circle"

(0:51:11) Trevor Houston shares his own experience and plans to get back into in-person events

(0:52:21) Building relationships and connections for a ripple effect

(0:53:02) Connecting with Michael O'Brien on social media

(0:53:43) Michael O'Brien's app, Pause, Breathe, Reflect

**Resources:**

• Michael O'Brien's Website: Michael O'Brien Shift

• Michael O'Brien on Instagram: @pausebreathereflect

• Michael O'Brien on LinkedIn: Michael O'Brien

• LinkedIn e-book: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://online.flippingbook.com/view/714118097/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

• Subscribe: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/who-ya-know-show⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

• Trevor Houston is a licensed financial professional offering insurance/financial products through various carriers. For more info visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://cpwstrategies.com