有时候，看似没有那么好喝的鸡汤其实也没有那么毒，就像作者说的那样，有时候拥有太多东西，才是失去的开始。

这本回忆录+自传式的书《This is How》用一种“blend of black humor and heart”的方式来“serves up tough love and reasons for hope”，

之所以选这篇“Why Having it All is Not”是因为这几句话：

1. Limits stop you from living a life without limits.

2. When you have total freedom - no limits at all - you stop trying to make the best of things.

3. This is the problem with "having it all": there is nothing left to want. 

4. Losing something you need or giving it away is also good. 

5. Everything around you is of equal weight.

Hope you will like it too. Goodnight and sleep well.