What happens when your partner keeps choosing his family over you and no one ever explains why it hurts this much? In this episode, Veronica Cisneros breaks down the hidden childhood conditioning, loyalty programming, and attachment wounds that show up when boundaries with in laws go sideways. With honesty, humor, and zero sugarcoating, she explains why this dynamic feels so triggering, why it is not about jealousy or control, and what is really happening underneath the resentment. If you have ever felt second, silenced, or emotionally unsafe in your own marriage, this conversation will finally put words to what your body already knows. This is not about blaming. It is about understanding, healing, and deciding what changes next. 👉 Read the full blog and episode breakdown: <a href= "https://veronicacisneros.org/episode305/">https://veronicacisneros.org/episode305/</a> 👉 Talk to a Therapist: <a href= "https://outsidethenormcounseling.com">https://outsidethenormcounseling.com</a>

What happens when your partner keeps choosing his family over you and no one ever explains why it hurts this much? In this episode, Veronica Cisneros breaks down the hidden childhood conditioning, loyalty programming, and attachment wounds that show up when boundaries with in laws go sideways. With honesty, humor, and zero sugarcoating, she explains why this dynamic feels so triggering, why it is not about jealousy or control, and what is really happening underneath the resentment. If you have ever felt second, silenced, or emotionally unsafe in your own marriage, this conversation will finally put words to what your body already knows. This is not about blaming. It is about understanding, healing, and deciding what changes next. 👉 Read the full blog and episode breakdown: https://veronicacisneros.org/episode305/ 👉 Talk to a Therapist: https://outsidethenormcounseling.com

What happens when your partner keeps choosing his family over you and no one ever explains why it hurts this much? In this episode, Veronica Cisneros breaks down the hidden childhood conditioning, loyalty programming, and attachment wounds that show up when boundaries with in laws go sideways. With honesty, humor, and zero sugarcoating, she explains why this dynamic feels so triggering, why it is not about jealousy or control, and what is really happening underneath the resentment. If you have ever felt second, silenced, or emotionally unsafe in your own marriage, this conversation will finally put words to what your body already knows. This is not about blaming. It is about understanding, healing, and deciding what changes next. 👉 Read the full blog and episode breakdown: <a href="https://veronicacisneros.org/episode305/" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://veronicacisneros.org/episode305/</a> 👉 Talk to a Therapist: <a href="https://outsidethenormcounseling.com" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://outsidethenormcounseling.com</a>

Why It Hurts So Much When He Chooses His Family Over Yo | EU 305

You're exhausted.
Not just physically. Emotionally. You're running a household, keeping up with your career, holding the family calendar together, and still somehow managing the grocery list. You're the default parent, the peacekeeper, the one who never stops, even when you should be resting. And somewhere in between the laundry and the late-night emails, you've lost the version of yourself that wasn't running on fumes.

I'm Veronica Cisneros, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, wife, and mom of three. I know what it's like to feel disconnected from your spouse, stuck in silent power struggles over household chores, and torn between excelling in your career and actually enjoying your family. I've been the people-pleaser, the overachiever, the one trying to "hold it all together" while anxiety worked overtime behind the scenes.

On Empowered and Unapologetic, we're ditching the guilt and having the conversations no one's having at the PTA meeting. Here, you'll get real talk and therapist-backed strategies on:

• Navigating marriage when it feels more like a business partnership than a relationship.
• Breaking the cycle of over-functioning and learning to rest without guilt.
• Sharing the mental and physical load at home—without another chore chart that no one uses.
• Shutting down power-pleasing patterns that leave you drained and resentful.
• Managing the anxiety that comes from constantly being "on."

If you're tired of looking like you have it all together while feeling like you're falling apart, you're in the right place. This is your space to breathe, laugh, and rebuild connection, without having to compromise yourself in the process.

Let's do this together.

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You're exhausted. Not just physically. Emotionally. You're running a household, keeping up with your career, holding the family calendar together, and still somehow managing the grocery list. You're the default parent, the peacekeeper, the one who never stops, even when you should be resting. And somewhere in between the laundry and the late-night emails, you've lost the version of yourself that wasn't running on fumes. I'm Veronica Cisneros, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, wife, and mom of three. I know what it's like to feel disconnected from your spouse, stuck in silent power struggles over household chores, and torn between excelling in your career and actually enjoying your family. I've been the people-pleaser, the overachiever, the one trying to "hold it all together" while anxiety worked overtime behind the scenes. On Empowered and Unapologetic, we're ditching the guilt and having the conversations no one's having at the PTA meeting. Here, you'll get real talk and therapist-backed strategies on: • Navigating marriage when it feels more like a business partnership than a relationship. • Breaking the cycle of over-functioning and learning to rest without guilt. • Sharing the mental and physical load at home—without another chore chart that no one uses. • Shutting down power-pleasing patterns that leave you drained and resentful. • Managing the anxiety that comes from constantly being "on." If you're tired of looking like you have it all together while feeling like you're falling apart, you're in the right place. This is your space to breathe, laugh, and rebuild connection, without having to compromise yourself in the process. Let's do this together.

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