Save My Marriage Podcast

By Aston and Adam Simmonds

We’re not here just to “fix” marriages.

We’re here to help high-achieving couples remember who they really are, individually and together.

To shed the roles, the resentment, the

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How many episodes does Save My Marriage Podcast have?

The podcast currently has 184 episodes available.

Save My Marriage Podcast episodes:

September 14, 2026 How To Repair After A Fight Even When The Apology Never Comes
Tired of always being the first to say sorry after a fight? Adam and Aston explain why this pattern develops and share five steps to repair your relationship without waiting for your partner's apology.

In this episode:
- Why arguments turn into lasting resentment when you never repair
- How childhood experiences shape the way you apologize or shut down
- Five steps to acknowledge hurt, take responsibility and reconnect
- How to validate your partner without agreeing or keeping score

00:00 Repairing after a fight
10:36 Why apologizing feels so hard
20:28 What repair really means
25:36 Five steps to repair and reconnect
28:39 Going first without keeping score
READY TO GO DEEPER?
→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281
→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session
LISTEN ON:
→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860
→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a
→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds
LEAVE A REVIEW:
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CONNECT:
→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/
→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds
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38min
September 07, 2026 The Perimenopause Marriage Crisis Nobody Warns Couples About
Perimenopause doesn't just change her body. It exposes everything your marriage has been tolerating for decades. If the rage, distance, and disconnection feel suddenly unsurvivable, this episode is for you.

In this episode:
- Why perimenopause doesn't create marriage problems. It reveals what was already there, and why hyper-independent women are hit hardest
- How to shift from blame and labeling ("she's just hormonal") to curiosity and compassion. Why that shift changes everything
- The move from complaints to positive requests: practical language that keeps your partner leaning in instead of shutting down
- How the five-minute coffee check-in can rebuild daily connection fast and why doing nothing is the most dangerous choice you can make
READY TO GO DEEPER?
→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281
→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session
LISTEN ON:
→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860
→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a
→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds
LEAVE A REVIEW:
If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.
CONNECT:
→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/
→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds
→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
...more
33min
August 31, 2026 Should I Get a Divorce?
Most couples asking "Should I get a divorce?" are actually asking the wrong question and that one shift in perspective can change everything. If your marriage feels hollow, disconnected, or like you're living as roommates, this episode is for you.

In this episode:
- Why "should I get a divorce?" is usually the wrong question and what to ask instead
- How emotional disconnection builds silently over years through thousands of small moments, not one big event
- Why therapy and counselling often leave couples more defeated and what actually creates change
- Co-created patterns keeping you stuck, and how taking responsibility for your part breaks the cycle
READY TO GO DEEPER?
→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281
→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session
LISTEN ON:
→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860
→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a
→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds
LEAVE A REVIEW:
If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.
CONNECT:
→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/
→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds
→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
...more
33min
August 24, 2026 Why Women in Their 40s Quietly Quit Their Marriage
Women in their 40s aren’t always leaving. Sometimes, they’re just checking out quietly.

In this episode:
- Why silence can be a bigger warning sign than arguing
- How perimenopause can change what women are willing to tolerate
- Why saying “I love you” isn’t the same as showing care
- What to ask yourself if your marriage feels disconnected
READY TO GO DEEPER?
→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281
→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session
LISTEN ON:
→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860
→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a
→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds
LEAVE A REVIEW:
If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.
CONNECT:
→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/
→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds
→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
...more
41min
August 17, 2026 The Who Goes First Trap That's Keeping Your Marriage Stuck
Most couples hit a wall, both waiting for the other to move first. This episode names the gridlock, explains why it keeps high-achieving couples stuck for years, and shows you exactly how to break it.

In this episode:
Why waiting for your partner to change first keeps you both stuck
The chicken-and-egg problem between emotional and physical intimacy
What “going first” looks like without sacrificing your standards
Why loving someone the way you want to be loved can miss the mark, and how the “princess passenger” technique changes that
READY TO GO DEEPER?
→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281
→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session
LISTEN ON:
→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860
→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a
→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds
LEAVE A REVIEW:
If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.
CONNECT:
→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/
→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds
→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
...more
37min
August 10, 2026Why Your Wife Keeps Saying She Doesn't Trust You
Your wife says she doesn't trust you but you've never cheated, you work hard, and you show up for your family. This episode breaks down why men and women define trust differently, and what it actually takes to rebuild emotional safety in marriage.

In this episode:
Why saying “I’ve never cheated” doesn’t actually address what she’s worried about when she says she can’t trust you
How promising too much and following through too little slowly breaks trust — and how to change that
How being emotionally present, keeping your word, and taking responsibility help a woman feel safe and trust you
Why independent women can have a hard time accepting support, and how learning to rely on each other can make the relationship stronger

READY TO GO DEEPER?
→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281
→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session
LISTEN ON:
→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860
→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a
→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds
LEAVE A REVIEW:
If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.
CONNECT:
→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/
→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds
→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
...more
28min
August 03, 2026How To Recreate Your Relationship In A Weekend
Most high-achieving couples have built everything — except a marriage they actually enjoy. This episode is about breaking that pattern with a two-day immersive couples retreat designed to rebuild real connection and intimacy.
📂 THE RECREATE YOUR RELATIONSHIP EXPERIENCE™
https://recreateyourrelationship.com/weekend-perth-852731
In this episode:
Why successful couples still end up living like roommates and what's actually keeping them stuck
The truth about marriage skills: why willpower and date nights aren't enough, and what to do instead
What happens inside the Recreate Your Relationship two-day experience (day-by-day breakdown)
Why getting in the right room with the right couples changes your relationship thermostat permanently
READY TO GO DEEPER?
→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281
→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session
LISTEN ON:
→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860
→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a
→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds
LEAVE A REVIEW:
If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.
CONNECT:
→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/
→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds
→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
...more
25min
July 27, 2026 Why Men Avoid in Relationships (It's Not Because They Don't Care)
Most couples mistake distance for indifference. This episode names what's actually happening when your husband goes silent — and why chasing him makes it worse.

In this episode:
Why avoidant men are driven by deep insecurity — not a lack of care
How fight-flight-freeze-fawn shuts down the prefrontal cortex mid-conversation
Why pursuing an avoidant partner reinforces the exact pattern you want to break
The mindset shift that creates space for real change — for both of you

READY TO GO DEEPER?
→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281
→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session
LISTEN ON:
→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860
→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a
→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds
LEAVE A REVIEW:
If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.
CONNECT:
→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/
→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds
→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
...more
20min
July 20, 2026 Hidden Reason Couples Struggle With Affection
Most couples aren't struggling with affection because one partner is "just not affectionate" they're struggling because of childhood attachment patterns that rewired how safety and closeness feel. This episode breaks down the hidden reason affection disappears in marriage and gives you a practical path back to real connection.

In this episode:
Why affection avoidance is a protective strategy formed in childhood — not a personality trait — and how to recognise it in yourself or your partner
The pursuit-withdrawal dynamic that turns affection into a battlefield, including how anxious attachment and hypervigilance make it worse
How Adam went from being physically uncomfortable holding hands in public to completely rewiring that blueprint — and what that process actually looked like
The 1% behavioural shifts that rebuild affection safely, and why demanding more affection always creates the opposite result.
READY TO GO DEEPER?
→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281
→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session
LISTEN ON:
→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860
→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a
→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds
LEAVE A REVIEW:
If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.
CONNECT:
→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/
→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds
→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
...more
20min
July 13, 2026 The 5 Daily Habits That Make or Break Your Marriage
Most couples have habits for work, health, and parenting but nothing for their marriage. This episode names the five daily habits that either build connection or quietly destroy it.

In this episode:
Why your marriage reflects what you repeatedly practise not what you intend
The five key marital habits: Connect, Appreciate, Repair, Prioritise, and Dream
How the five-minute coffee check-in prevents the slow drift into roommate territory
The warning signs you have no marital habits and what it's costing your relationship
READY TO GO DEEPER?
→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281
→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session
LISTEN ON:
→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860
→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a
→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds
LEAVE A REVIEW:
If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.
CONNECT:
→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/
→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds
→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
...more
34min

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How many episodes does Save My Marriage Podcast have?

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