Save My Marriage Podcast

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If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

“Is your unhealed trauma quietly killing your relationship?”

In Episode 23 of the Save My Marriage Podcast, we talk about the truth most couples never see:

The overreactions.
The shutdowns.
The fights that feel bigger than the moment.

“It is not that you are bad at communication.
It is that younger parts of you are being activated when you feel unsafe.”

Unprocessed experiences do not disappear with time.
They live in the body.
And they show up when you are triggered.

If you have ever thought,
Why do we keep having the same fight?
Why does this feel so intense?
Why does connection disappear so fast?

This episode will help you understand what is really happening beneath the surface.

Save this for the next time you feel triggered.

Share it with your partner or someone who needs to hear this.

Full episode:
“Is Your Unhealed Trauma Quietly Killing Your Relationship?”
is live now. Link in bio.

#savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #relationshiphealing #marriagegrowth #emotionalconnection #traumahealing #innerchildwork #relationshippatterns #healingtogether #couplesgrowth

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

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Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

“We didn't fall out of love. We outgrew our relationship.”

No one prepares you for this part of marriage.

The person you married is not the same person standing in front of you today.
And neither are you.

Kids. Careers. Identity shifts. Midlife questions.
Life keeps moving but most couples never update the relationship.

We nearly lost our marriage not because we didn't love each other
but because we didn't know how to grow together.

In this episode we share
Why marriage is not the finish line its the beginning
The reinvention cycles every long term relationship moves through
Why couples slowly drift apart without realising what is happening
And the exact process we now use every year to recreate our relationship

If your relationship feels flat disconnected or like you're on different pages
you are not broken
you are just overdue for an update

Save this for when it feels hard
Share it with someone you love

Marriage 2.0 How We Recreate Our Relationship is live now
Link in bio

#marriage20 #marriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #longtermmarriage #emotionalconnection #workingonus #relationshipvision #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #couplesgrowth #realtalk #loveiscreated #relationshiptruth

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

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Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

“January is the month most couples give up”

Not because they do not love each other
But because everything they avoided all year finally comes to the surface

The pretending
The tension
The quiet question of
Can we really do another year like this

In this episode we share the truth most couples never hear

“Divorce is not easier
You do not need a new partner
You need new skills”

We open up about
Why January is divorce month
The lie that leaving will fix everything
How we nearly went down that path ourselves
And how couples can recreate their relationship before it is too late

If January feels heavy in your marriage
If you are questioning everything right now

You are not broken
And you are not alone

Save this for when it feels hard
Share it with someone who needs hope right now

Full episode
January Is Divorce Month Here Is How to Save Your Marriage Before It Is Too Late
Link in bio

#savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #marriagetips #relationshippodcast #marriagehelp #relationshiphealing #emotionalconnection #realtalk #marriagegrowth #relationshiptruth #workingonus #loveafterpain #podcastclip #viralreel #truthbomb 

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

“Why does every conversation turn into an argument… even when you’re trying to connect?”

In Episode 20, we talk about the communication mistakes that silently kill connection and the ones most couples do not even realise they are making.

The talking that turns into defending.
The ‘we need to talk’ moments that end in shutdown.
The feeling of being unheard, misunderstood, or walking on eggshells.

“It is not that you do not love each other. It is that you are communicating from protection, not connection.”

If you have ever thought:
• We talk all the time but nothing gets resolved
• I do not feel heard
• I shut down because it feels safer
• Every conversation feels heavy or tense

This episode is for you.

We break down:
• The 7 most common communication mistakes couples make
• Why good intentions still lead to disconnection
• How to communicate in a way that actually builds safety and closeness
• The simple framework that helped save our marriage

Save this for the next hard conversation.
Share it with your partner or someone who needs it.

Full episode: “The Communication Mistakes That Silently Kill Connection” is live now. Link in bio.

#savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #relationshipcommunication #marriagetips #emotionalconnection #relationshiphealing #marriagepodcast #realtalk #workingonus #relationshipgrowth #couplescommunication 

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

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→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

“I didn’t get a relationship coach because things were ‘bad enough’…”

I got one because I finally realised doing it alone wasn’t working.

In Episode 19 of the Save My Marriage Podcast, we share the truth about:

Why asking for help was the hardest part
How choosing the wrong support can keep you stuck
What actually matters when finding a relationship coach
And why the real work starts when you take responsibility for your own growth

“It’s not about putting faith in a coach. It’s about trusting yourself enough to show up, get uncomfortable, and do the work.”

If you’ve ever thought:
“I should be able to figure this out on my own”
Or…
“I don’t want to be the only one trying anymore”

This episode is for you.

Save this for when pride gets in the way.
Share it with someone who’s ready to grow.

Full episode:
“How to Find the Right Relationship Coach (and Why I Needed One to Save My Marriage & Myself)”
Now live. Link in bio.

#savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #marriagetips #emotionalconnection #relationshiphealing #growthmindset #workingonus #realmarriage #consciousrelationships #relationshippodcast #truthbomb #realtalk #healingjourney #choosinggrowth 

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

“Can a relationship really last if only one of you is doing the work?”

In Episode 18 of the Save My Marriage Podcast, we speak honestly about one of the most painful questions couples carry.

The fear of growing alone.
The frustration of being the one doing the healing.
The quiet question of whether this is ever going to be enough.

“It wasn’t about forcing change or getting your partner to catch up.
It was about learning how to stop pushing and start embodying the work.”

If you have ever felt like you are carrying the emotional load of the relationship by yourself…
If you have wondered whether love can survive when only one person is leaning in…

You are not broken.
And this episode is for you.

Save this for the moments you feel unsure.

Share it with someone who is quietly holding it all together.

Full episode: “Can a Relationship Last If Only One of You Is Doing the Work?” is live now. Link in bio.

#marriagetips #relationshippodcast #relationshipgrowth #emotionalconnection #marriagetalk #healingjourney #relationshiptruth #realmarriage #workingonus #loveandgrowth #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #innerwork #relationshiphealing #podcastclip 

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

“Christmas was supposed to bring us closer… but it made the distance louder.” 

In Episode 17, we talk about the part of Christmas no one warns you about: 

The loneliness that shows up when you’re already disconnected.
The pressure to be happy when something feels off.
The quiet ache of feeling alone next to the person you love. 

“Christmas doesn’t create the distance — it exposes what’s already there.” 

If you’ve ever felt more like roommates than partners during the holidays… 

If you’ve smiled on the outside while feeling empty inside… 

This episode is for you.

Save this for when Christmas feels heavy.
Share it with someone who needs to feel less alone. 

Full episode: “Why Christmas Makes Disconnected Couples Feel Even More Alone” is live now. Link in bio. 

#marriagepodcast #relationshiptruth #emotionalconnection #christmasandrelationships #marriagelife #relationshiphealing #lonelytogether #couplesgrowth #realtalk #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #workingonus #holidaystress #relationshipsupport #viralreel 

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

“We kept saying we were just too busy… but really, we were avoiding the truth.” 

In Episode 16, we call out one of the most common lies modern couples tell: 

“We will work on our relationship when life settles down.”
Except life never settles down. 

In this episode, we go deep into: 

• The real cost of putting everything else before your marriage
• Why busy is the most socially accepted form of avoidance
• How busyness creates trauma, resentment and emotional abandonment
• What is actually hiding underneath the I do not have time story
• Why slowing down is not the problem. It is the solution
• The uncomfortable truth your calendar reveals about your priorities
• How ten to twenty minutes of presence each day can change everything
• The one question that changed our entire marriage:
 “If you were no longer allowed to use the word busy, what truth would surface?” 

This episode is the wake up call that so many couples need.
The shift from surviving your life to consciously creating the relationship you actually want. 

If you have been telling yourself you will work on it later…
If you feel more like roommates than partners…
If work has become the safest place to hide… 

This episode is for you. 

Save this for the days you forget what truly matters.
Share it with someone who needs this reminder. 

Full episode: “Too Busy To Work On Your Relationship? Listen To This”
Live now. Link in bio. 

#marriagetips #marriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #emotionalconnection #marriagetalk #healingjourney #relationshipstruggles #busynessculture #truthbomb #realtalk #workingonus #intentionalmarriage #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast 

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

“We didn’t realise how disconnected we’d become…
until we looked up and saw we were in the exact same place as last year.” 

In this episode, we talk about the quiet crisis so many couples fall into: 

The endless cycle.
The excuses.
The feeling of living together… but not with each other. 

“It’s not that you don’t love each other. It’s that you’ve slipped into autopilot — and no one ever taught you how to lead your relationship with intention.” 

If you feel stuck…
If every day feels the same…
If you’re exhausted from running but not getting anywhere… 

You are not alone. And this episode is your wake-up call. ❤️‍🩹 

Save this for the days you feel disconnected. 

Share it with someone who’s stuck on the hamster wheel too. 

Full episode: “Your Marriage Is on Autopilot And You’re Both Stuck on the Hamster Wheel” is live now. Link in bio. 

#marriagetips #marriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #emotionalconnection #marriagetalk #healingjourney #relationshipstruggles #viralreel #podcastclip #truthbomb #realtalk #workingonus #connectedcouples #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast 

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

“I used to think, ‘If you stopped triggering me, I would be fine.’” 

In this episode, we flip that belief on its head. 

We talk about:
The real reason you get so activated over the smallest things
Why your body reacts before your brain can catch up
How triggers are actually treasure in really shitty wrapping paper
And why it is not your fault you are triggered, but it is your responsibility to heal it 

We walk you through the exact questions we use with our clients to turn:
Criticism into clarity
Feeling alone into asking for support
Blame into ownership and growth 

“When you stop avoiding your triggers and start opening them, they stop running your relationship and start setting you free.” 

Save this for the next time you feel yourself spiralling or about to say something you will regret. 

Share it with someone who keeps getting stuck in the same fight on repeat. 

Full episode: “How To Stop Getting Triggered In Your Relationship” is live now. Link in bio. 

#marriagetips #marriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #emotionalconnection #marriagetalk #healingjourney #relationshiptriggers #nervoussystem #couplesgrowth #conflicttoconnection #workingonus #loveandgrowth #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast 

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...