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“Why does every conversation turn into an argument… even when you’re trying to connect?”
In Episode 20, we talk about the communication mistakes that silently kill connection and the ones most couples do not even realise they are making.
The talking that turns into defending.
The ‘we need to talk’ moments that end in shutdown.
The feeling of being unheard, misunderstood, or walking on eggshells.
“It is not that you do not love each other. It is that you are communicating from protection, not connection.”
If you have ever thought:
• We talk all the time but nothing gets resolved
• I do not feel heard
• I shut down because it feels safer
• Every conversation feels heavy or tense
This episode is for you.
We break down:
• The 7 most common communication mistakes couples make
• Why good intentions still lead to disconnection
• How to communicate in a way that actually builds safety and closeness
• The simple framework that helped save our marriage
Save this for the next hard conversation.
Share it with your partner or someone who needs it.
Full episode: “The Communication Mistakes That Silently Kill Connection” is live now. Link in bio.
#savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #relationshipcommunication #marriagetips #emotionalconnection #relationshiphealing #marriagepodcast #realtalk #workingonus #relationshipgrowth #couplescommunication
Work With Us
Ready to rebuild love, trust, and intimacy in your marriage? Join us at one of our next retreats or online events here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/
Free Resources:
Download our free 5 Minute Coffee Check In: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/coffee-check-in
Listen to all episodes on Audio:
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=3821f82764534c68
Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860
Watch all episodes on YouTube:
https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds
Support the Show
If this episode helped you, please take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It helps other couples find this support too: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860
By Aston and Adam Simmonds5
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To find out about working together:
1. Find us on instagram ( / aston_simmonds OR / adam__simmonds )
2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details
“Why does every conversation turn into an argument… even when you’re trying to connect?”
In Episode 20, we talk about the communication mistakes that silently kill connection and the ones most couples do not even realise they are making.
The talking that turns into defending.
The ‘we need to talk’ moments that end in shutdown.
The feeling of being unheard, misunderstood, or walking on eggshells.
“It is not that you do not love each other. It is that you are communicating from protection, not connection.”
If you have ever thought:
• We talk all the time but nothing gets resolved
• I do not feel heard
• I shut down because it feels safer
• Every conversation feels heavy or tense
This episode is for you.
We break down:
• The 7 most common communication mistakes couples make
• Why good intentions still lead to disconnection
• How to communicate in a way that actually builds safety and closeness
• The simple framework that helped save our marriage
Save this for the next hard conversation.
Share it with your partner or someone who needs it.
Full episode: “The Communication Mistakes That Silently Kill Connection” is live now. Link in bio.
#savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #relationshipcommunication #marriagetips #emotionalconnection #relationshiphealing #marriagepodcast #realtalk #workingonus #relationshipgrowth #couplescommunication
Work With Us
Ready to rebuild love, trust, and intimacy in your marriage? Join us at one of our next retreats or online events here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/
Free Resources:
Download our free 5 Minute Coffee Check In: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/coffee-check-in
Listen to all episodes on Audio:
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=3821f82764534c68
Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860
Watch all episodes on YouTube:
https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds
Support the Show
If this episode helped you, please take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It helps other couples find this support too: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

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