If you are rebuilding normal sleep, one daytime habit matters more than most people realize.

It is not what you do in bed.

It is what you do before you ever get there.

Specifically, how you handle naps.

Preserving your sleep window by avoiding long naps is one of the simplest ways to support insomnia recovery.

Not because naps are bad.

But because naps weaken the two factors that actually make sleep happen.

Your sleep drive.

And your circadian rhythm.

When either one is reduced, falling asleep becomes harder.

When both are reduced, insomnia sticks around.

This is why the End Insomnia System encourages sleeping only within your Sleep Window at night whenever possible.

Not as a discipline.

Not as punishment.

But as a way to let biology do the heavy lifting.

Why naps interfere with nighttime sleep

When you nap, two things happen.

First, you reduce your sleep drive.

Sleep drive is the pressure to sleep that builds the longer you stay awake and active.

Every minute of daytime sleep releases some of that pressure.

Which means there is less left to help you at night.

Second, naps blur your circadian rhythm.

Your body learns when sleep belongs based on patterns.

Daytime sleep sends a mixed signal.

Nighttime sleep becomes less distinct.

Together, these effects undermine your Sleep Starting Force.

That is why naps often lead to:

Less sleepiness at bedtime.

More time awake in bed.

More frustration and doubt.

And more anxiety as the night goes on.

What to do instead

The simplest rule works best.

Avoid napping if you can.

That said, exhaustion happens.

If you truly cannot stay awake, a short nap is okay.

If you nap, keep it under 30 minutes.

Have it before 3 p.m.

Set an alarm so it does not drift longer.

If you lie down and do not fall asleep, that is still helpful.

Close your eyes.

Rest your body.

Let your nervous system settle.

Even quiet rest can restore energy without sabotaging the night ahead.

Easing into your Sleep Window at night

The hour before your sleep window matters.

But not in the way most insomnia advice frames it.

This is not about rituals.

And it is not about making sleep happen.

DO: Have a low-pressure wind-down

About 45 to 60 minutes before your sleep window, start slowing things down.

This is not a sleep effort.

It is simply a transition from day to night.

Choose something you enjoy for its own sake.

Reading.

Listening to music or a podcast.

Watching something familiar.

Spending time with others.

Doing something creative.

You can meditate if you like, as long as it is not an attempt to force sleep.

The goal is not perfect calm.

The goal is less stimulation and less rumination.

If anxiety shows up, that is normal.

Do not fight it.

Keep your attention on what you are doing.

Sleep does not require anxiety to disappear.

DON’T: Watch the clock

Once your wind-down begins, stop clock-watching.

Clock watching creates pressure.

Pressure creates threat.

Threat creates wakefulness.

When you stop tracking minutes, your body speaks more clearly.

You will notice sleepiness more naturally.

Yawning.

Heavy eyes.

Head nodding.

If you go to bed slightly before or after your sleep window, that is fine.

Flexibility is more sleep compatible than precision.

DON’T: Try to force sleep

If you are not sleepy at the start of your sleep window, do not force yourself to sleep.

Tired but wired is not sleepiness.

Sleepiness is biological.

You cannot create it through effort.

You have two options.

One option is to stay out of bed until sleepiness arrives.

Do something calm and pleasant.

When you feel sleepy, go to bed.

The second option is to go to bed at the start of your sleep window and allow wakefulness.

Read.

Listen to something.

Or just rest.

The key is permission.

Permission to be awake.

Permission to let sleep arrive on its own timeline.

Having a plan prevents frustration.

And frustration is one of the fastest ways to become more awake.

If you're looking to recover from insomnia for good in as little as 8 weeks, schedule a Complimentary Sleep Consult to see if we can help.

To peaceful sleep,

Ivo at End Insomnia

Why should you listen to me?

I recovered from insomnia after 5 brutal years of suffering. I also wrote a book about it. I've now coached many on how to end their insomnia for good in 8 weeks.

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