Donna Jean Kendrick talks with Michael Flores, a counselor, family therapist, and founder of Brighter Possibilities Family Counseling, about helping families navigate widowhood, divorce, co-parenting, and court-ordered counseling. Michael shares how his own childhood experiences shaped his mission and why he centers therapy on what children need, not just what adults want.This conversation is especially useful for single parents, widows, widowers, step-parents, grandparents, and therapists supporting blended or high-conflict families. The big idea is simple: when parents align on the goal, kids have a much better chance to heal.
Timestamps
00:00 - Donna Jean introduces Michael Flores and the families he helps
00:56 - Michael's background, training, and why counseling became his calling
02:49 - A quick name joke and the start of Michael's personal story
03:42 - Childhood loss, blended family dynamics, and growing up around family change
05:06 - Discovering psychology and realizing counseling was the right path
07:00 - Building Brighter Possibilities Family Counseling across Texas
07:52 - Job, career, and mission - what makes work meaningful
09:59 - How Michael approaches families facing divorce, widowhood, and co-parenting
10:24 - Why he centers therapy on the child's needs first
11:21 - Parental alignment versus co-parenting
12:01 - How therapy is structured with parents, kids, and family sessions
13:30 - Court-ordered reunification work and starting with the parents
14:29 - Gathering family history and deciding who joins sessions next
15:34 - Stepparents and grandparents as overlooked caregivers
17:03 - How Michael's father leaned on grandparents after loss
18:25 - Guilty parenting, helicopter parenting, and lawnmower parenting
20:26 - Donna Jean's own widowhood parenting experience and losing structure
22:08 - Creating a new normal after major family change
22:37 - Two questions that help people stay out of counseling: self-audit and stop avoiding
25:03 - Solution focused therapy and how it shifts attention to hopes and outcomes
26:31 - Working with resistant clients and why resistance may be on the therapist side
27:29 - A case example of role reversal with a daughter and her father
28:54 - The 4R exercise and how it quickly builds empathy
30:23 - Michael's book One Question Away and his upcoming professional book
31:19 - Silent sessions and helping clinicians work with high-conflict families
32:44 - The podcast Beyond Divorce, Embracing Change and why the team created it
34:45 - Where to find the podcast and how episodes connect across topics
36:00 - Michael's mission to help families, interrupt harmful patterns, and support healing
37:54 - Donna Jean reflects on the spiritual side of the work and generational impact
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