When we reflect on the seven sorrows of Mary, we wonder where she got the strength to carry all these pains in her heart. The answer lies in love. She carried her pain with the love of God in her heart. When there is love for God and for her fellowmen, including her enemies, she could accept the innocent and unjust suffering of her Son. She knew that the suffering she carried with her Son would not be carried in vain but for the greater good of humanity. So too, when we suffer, we should not suffer for ourselves but for others and for the salvation of souls. Because Jesus “submitted so humbly that his prayer was heard”, not in the sense that He was delivered from physical suffering but God gave Him the strength to obey His divine will. It was His obedience that saved us all. If we want to accept our crosses and submit humbly, we too must pray earnestly like our Lord, growing in intimacy with Him, feeling His love and presence in our lives. If we find difficulty in suffering, let us ask the Lord to give us the strength to love more, like our Blessed Mother.