In today's episode, we’re talking about ghosting, not with dating, but within friendships. We tap about how it can hurt when you make plans with a friend, and then when the day comes, the person ignores you. It makes us feel unpopular or unliked in our own lives.

We would like to be in a place where we can confront the person and tell them, “Hey, you hurt my feelings when you ignored me all day when we were supposed to hang out.” But of course, that’s hard! We love when friends talk time to cancel. That is a valid reason to bail on plans.

Both of us have our faults as well. Martha overpromises and over schedules, and Margaret double books. These are things we are actively working on within ourselves.

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On todays episode we unfortunately had to record separately. Martha has a bad cold. We believe it’s due to her pretending to be 21 again and not 31. Too much travel and drinking. She has decided to do a total reset starting Monday and we love that.

This week is short and sweet while we talk about our fundates and our general well being. Martha talks about her friends bachelorette party she attended and how she changed someone’s life by becoming a drunken psychic once again. Which we love.

Margaret talks about how she is finally finding happiness at home and how much piece that is bringing her. She had a meeting with a very intuitive friend who told her she was simply glowing! Which we also love.

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Our intro music was created by @oswaldex on instagram, if you have any music you want created he is very easy to work with!

On todays episode we’re talking the most recent terrible things that are going on in this country with abortion. We begin by giving a brief description of Roe Wade and Planned Parenthood V Casey. If you don’t know there has been a recent leak in the Supreme Court where they may overturn Roe v wade. This is a very scary slippery slope for human rights in America.

We’ve seen time and time again around the world where abortion was banned and it doesn’t work. Abortions will happen whether they are legal or not. If they are illegal they will become extremely unsafe. It’s not about the unborn child, it’s about controlling women. You cannot be pro life without thinking of the life of the mother that could die from having her child. You cannot be pro life without caring about the rape victim. You cannot be pro life without caring about both lives.

If you do not have a uterus you have no right to make these decisions. Someone else’s body is not your business.

This episode will be a two parter because we have so much more to say on this topic.

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On todays episode we’re talking about airport etiquette! We recently were trapped in the Austin airport for 6 hours due to bad weather, so we thought why not talk about all of our bad airport experiences. Martha has been trapped in the airport multiple times for hours while Margaret has had better luck. Maybe Martha has bad plane energy?

We also talk about treating the airport staff with respect. Remember, they have zero control over plane cancellations and flight delays and they’re only doing the best they can. If you treat them with kindness you often end up getting more anyways. Be kind to your flight attendants and customer service agents when you fly!

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Our intro music was created by @oswaldex on instagram, if you have any music you want created he is very easy to work with!

We’re talking about Oregon summer in today's episode because we cannot wait! Oregon summer is the best! We're excited about camping, hiking, road trips, and going to the nude beach! We also love to invest in paddleboards to explore the Oregon rivers and lakes better also!

Something else we both want to strive for is doing more solo things. Martha has a couple of months off this summer finally. So she will be forced to do solo activities. With Margaret living by the mountain, she plans on spending some mornings with her paddleboard at any of the lakes the mountain has to offer.

We’ve had an extremely long winter considering we just had SPRING snow! So we are ready and here for Oregon summer!

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Our intro music was created by @oswaldex on instagram, if you have any music you want created he is very easy to work with!

On todays episode We’re talking about the 75 soft challenge vs. the 75 hard challenge. The soft challenge consists of eating well, working out 6 days with 1 active rest day whatever that looks like for you, drinking 3 liters of water, reading or journaling everyday, only drinking on social occasions.

Martha has already started the challenge and Margaret plans on beginning Monday. We both are taking a hard much needed break from alcohol.

With taking the soft challenge it allows you to change gradually where as with the hard challenge you’re doing a lot of restricting making it much harder to continue with the lifestyle change after the challenge.

We’re hoping this challenge will make some big changes in our lives towards our happiness and we urge you to join us!

We also mention a supplement Margaret is going to start taking called feel free. The creator used it to get off alcohol and it’s completely plant based product and you can find out more about this product by listening to this episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-skinny-confidential-him-her-podcast/id1093028505?i=1000551748559

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Our intro music was created by @oswaldex on instagram, if you have any music you want created he is very easy to work with!

In today's episode, Margaret came up with this topic while listening to one of her favorite podcasts, Don't Keep Your Day Job. Pete Holmes said: "are you doing what you love, or are you doing what society tells you you should be doing" this quote brings up many emotions. Margaret hears this quote and thinks of all the people around her age that have "valuable jobs" that they went to school for and that somehow their job is more important than hers even though she would be downright miserable doing those jobs.

Martha always goes back to being an immigrant, and the idea that's been ingrained in her brain is that she has to be constantly producing to be valuable. Society will tell us every day that we are never good enough, and we will never reach the goal of being good enough or doing enough, thanks to capitalism. So remember to take the time to do what makes you happy instead of always doing what society tells you to do, even if money is not attached to it.

Let us know if you have any episode suggestions for us by emailing us at [email protected] or you can dm us @wineamilikethis on Instagram.

Our intro music was created by @oswaldex on Instagram; if you have any music you want created, he is very easy to work with!