In this episode I reflect on the marriage dynamics showcased in season 3 of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.... they are so brave in sharing their marriage stories in the hopes to help others! I love psychology + marriage, so this episode includes deep psychological reflections about betrayal, lies, and childhood trauma in marriage. 

If we want to live an awakened life from our Heart/Soul, we have to learn how to fully feel our scariest body sensations, like fear or anxiety, and to be safe within the feeling. This is fundamental repairing of how to be safe within our own bodies. 

Women are the "oracle of the relationship" because she feels everything in her marriage. When she learns how to share her truth with softness and love, it is an invitation into greater depth for the man, which either scares him, or matures him. 

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I highly recommend David Deida's books: "The Way of the Superior Man" and "Dear Lover" 

No matter how much shadow work and therapy a woman does.... she will always test her man and have emotional storms. This podcast relays the work of David Deida, from "The Way of the Superior Man" and "Dear Lover." 

If a marriage is not bringing both people closer to God/Love, there will be pain present.

I have lived through many years of a wounded marriage and now I am experiencing an awakened marriage, with the same man. Healing is possible. In this episode I explain what each "type" of marriage is and how having a marriage that feels like heaven on earth is attainable when both people say YES.

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I highly recommend the books by David Deida: "The Way of the Superior Man" and "Dear Lover."

This episode is for women in a season of "waiting" for their man to wake up to their heart, their soul. 

The invitation of the Wise Women Diaries podcast is to see the sacred in everyday life. 

We are stepping into the Era of the Soul, The Heart- God. 

We have an ego and a soul. We are human AND divine, but if we don't truly know our ego, it can disguise itself as Love or even the Holy Spirit, and lead us to behavior that serves its own selfish needs, unknowingly. Example: We give unsolicited advice to our loved one because our ego tells us that we love and care for them. We give them advice they don't ask for "because we are loving." But in real honesty, our ego is so bothered that our loved one won't make similar choices to us and it causes us inner discomfort. So, our ego tries to control our loved one through giving unsolicited advice to fulfill our selfish need of getting rid of our inner discomfort.