The most important change in thinking you can make:

You are not there to win over women, they are there to win over you.

Keep saying this over and over until you begin to believe it. You are re-wiring yourself. Don’t worry about the truth or falsity of it. That’s irrelevant.

The beauty of this system is that it turns the seduction template on its head.

I can’t tell you the exact moment of redemption, but I can say that the energy between them got a boost in the second or two after he dropped what can only be charitably described as a couched insult.

“Well at least you’re still in your heels. Most girls like you are trading in for flats at this hour.”

Her head snapped back. She was at full attention. Gone was the exasperated sideways glance for a rescuer, replaced by flushed indignation that is the telltale mark of blood pipelined directly between the hamster and the vagina. A few hollow protests to the contrary notwithstanding, she fell quickly into his orbit and they were off to the races. He had pricked her safe and secure but ultimately flimsy bitch bubble, and she could not be happier for it.

What the Natural has that mere mortals don’t is this: UNSTOPPABLE CONFIDENCE. They had the ALPHA ATTITUDE at a young enough age that it became ingrained to such an extent they rarely yield to the temptation to doubt their appeal to women.

But the Externally Validated Natural who has spent a lifetime leaning on his looks, social connections, or fame to get laid has a dilemma ... the most pathetic thing in the world is a natural who has lost his mojo.

The very blessing that makes The Natural an early adopter ladykiller is the curse that hobbles him later in life when challenges arise that introduce cracks to his impenetrable edifice of entitlement.

There’s a dirty little secret they don’t want you to know. And everyone is in cahoots, from the alphas to the betas to the keepers of the vagina. It is this: You don’t need to play by their rules to get what you want! Women will still FLOCK to you if you shit all over everything you were taught you needed to do to earn their love as long as you do it with STYLE and UNWAVERING BOLDNESS and a TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT attitude. Because the simple truth is that the right attitude counts for more than all the material possessions in the world.

She graduated from a top-tier Ivy. Her degree is in a numbers-related field. She is hot, a hard 8.5. Her body is worthy of a sacrificial fuckening. According to my sources, when she isn’t with her alpha-squared asshole boyfriend, she is one of the smartest, most put-together and confident girls in a room. The ditz act, apparently, only blossoms in his presence. Her girl friends are jealous of her even though they hate what she becomes when she’s with him. And the blow that I know will sting beta males the worst? She COULD have almost any man she wanted -- good men, solid company men, respectable men of their communities -- but she chooses to be with an arrogant renegade.

And him? Decent looking. Easy on the eyes, I suppose most women would say. Certainly not Hollywood looks. Not a big or muscular guy. Lean to the point of skinny. Edgy, downscale style. She showed up at this event poured into an exquisite cocktail dress. He arrived late with her, wearing frayed designer jeans and an untucked tight flannel shirt over a white Hanes wifebeater that was showing through the top. Most of the other men were wearing suits. He was short. Yes, he might have been a half inch shorter than his gf. Unemployed.

The essence of alpha maledom all comes down to inspiring beautiful women to, first and foremost, desire your poundage, and then to desire your continual poundage, and finally to desire your love. If you can seduce a hot babe into bed multiple times, then seduce her into love, and then do this same thing with many hot babes over the course of your life, you are an alpha male, no matter what else you have or have not accomplished in your life. 

Any uncontrollable force that strips beauty from the world is my enemy. How much grander and pleasurable life if women stayed beautiful for 100 years instead of a precious 15 years? How much love would my heart shout at the world if the pool of beautiful women was every woman, everywhere, forevermore, and not just a small sliver of women with power so fleeting it may as well be a curse than a blessing?

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for 95% of women, by the age of 30 years, only 12% of their maximum ovarian reserve is present, and by the age of 40 years only 3% remains. I find this news depressing, because female fertility and sexual attractiveness closely parallel.

18-21. You can bang surprisingly quickly because they have little ASD: anti-slut defense. 

23-27. Neg harder, Defy expectations, Date concurrently, Sweet spot for game.

28-30.  A single girl who dumped by her boyfriend who has just turned 29 may be the easiest girl in the world to lay. 

31-34. Most time consuming broads to game: emphasis on comfort stage, lots of travel stories, run vulnerability game.

35. Game required: “Hi”.

36-38. She is at peace with Spinsterhood and failure in the dating market; will acquiesce easily and gratefully.

39+. No go zone.

1. The Girl with No Friends.

LTR worthiness: Short but passionate fling.

Chance of mental instability: Sleep with one eye open.

2. The Girl with No Close Friends, Only Acquaintances.

LTR worthiness: Pump and dump.

Chance of mental instability: Hope you like drama.

3. The Girl with Only Family for Friends.

LTR worthiness: Perennial booty call.

Chance of mental instability: Riddled with insecurities.

4. The Girl with Only Guy Friends.

LTR worthiness: Second string girlfriend.

Chance of mental instability: High, if you regard manipulation and tomboyishness as psychological disorders.

5. The Girl with Mostly Gay Guy Friends.

LTR worthiness: One night stand.

Chance of mental instability: She gets her own DSM edition.

6. The Girl with Only Girl Friends.

LTR potential: High, if you like lavish weddings.

Chance of mental instability: Not more than the average girl, which is to say, high.

7. The Girl with Only Lesbian Friends.

*Doesn’t exist in the state of nature.*

8. The Girl with a Mixed Group of Girl and Guy Friends.

LTR potential: Be careful, your player days might be over with her!

Chance of mental instability: She makes most girls seem like candidates for institutionalization.

9. The Girl with One or Two Player Friends.

LTR potential: bimonthly tests for STDs, or GF material.

Chance of mental instability: She’s not crazy, she’s creative!