YMMV: The Unfiltered Sex & Dating Podcast

Camgirls should pay particular attention to this episode, as we let them in on the secret that it's really their personality which wins over guys, not the action of slowly sawing a dildo in and out of their vaginas for hours on end. Indeed, one camgirl specifically complains that she's tired of all the dildonics, which makes plenty of sense. Keith points out that one of the most successful female streamers in the world, Amouranth, doesn't really have to do it in the nude.

Keith wants to know exactly why he sees so many ads for "Prep", given that it's a product used primarily by those in the gay community, along with sex workers.

A comprehensive discussion of dating apps and strategies is had, along with some conversation about whether some form of transactions or explicit transactionality would improve the experience for all concerned. Which leads naturally to talk of OnlyFans. Mike is surprised to learn that Keith is a customer!

We also have a conversation about male and female size anxiety. And, why do women share nude selfies?

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/94/is-it-in

https://ymmv.me/94/tightness

https://ymmv.me/94/sharing-nudes

https://ymmv.me/94/dildo-fatigue

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It's that time of year again when I try to stuff the podcast title and description with as many keywords as Apple will allow. But, we did cover quite a few sex-related topics this week, so the effort was by no means wasted.

There seems to be this confusion men have about how women are likely to think about them "wiggling" their anuses to try to encourage their partners to pay more attention to them. For most women, it's not going to be their favorite thing to have happen. It's not in the standard script, you might say. And it calls into question the very type of relationship that you're after.

Same goes for intensive threesome requests, voyeur stuff, and even going to Vegas and visiting sex clubs and Shibari classes. Sure, you can do those things, but people are going to wonder if you're pushing the boundaries a bit further than necessary ... and why?

Then there's this boredom/free-use kink we're hearing a lot about. Maybe it's a solution to sex drive mismatches? But aren't there some basic hygiene questions that need to be answered before someone jumps right into that kind of play? Sure, in porn the women are always pristine when the man lifts up their skirts while they're preparing food on the kitchen counter. But in real life things can get a bit more complicated.

On the other hand, maybe it's some men's source of joy. I recall a post I read just this week about a man who hired a prostitute and had the time of his life ordering her to "start" and "stop" peeing on command while she sat on the toilet.

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/93/anal-shame

https://ymmv.me/93/voyeur-mmf

https://ymmv.me/93/sex-drive

https://ymmv.me/93/sex-drive-2

https://ymmv.me/93/love-boner

https://ymmv.me/93/boredom-kink

https://ymmv.me/93/virgin

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A man accused us of not understanding how someone can be completely, totally straight and yet still enjoy being on the receiving end of a good pegging. Now, on some level that may occasionally be true, but it makes sense to me that it pushes you a bit "to the left" on the spectrum. And, it could even be a gateway drug, moving you from MFM land to the world of MMF. But maybe that's just the gabapentin talking.

Next, what would you do if a couple barged into your room and started having sex right in front of you? Would you watch? Participate? Sneak off to the bathroom to masturbate?

One woman enjoys showing up to her boyfriend's apartment completely nude and unannounced. Another wants to know if men are bothered by her looking "a mess" while giving blowjobs. And yet another woman has a list of very specific demands to initiate and FWB situation with an ex.

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/92/voyeur

https://ymmv.me/92/mess

https://ymmv.me/92/risky

https://ymmv.me/92/ex-list

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Squirting is a tricky subject, and doubly so when your partner insists on some measure of cleanliness (and dryness) in his bedding materials. Is it reasonable for a woman to be irritated that a man dumped her more or less immediately because she squirted? I mean, isn't that a pretty good indication that she was very into him?

Closer to home, we continue our discussions of sugar dating, probing the specific differences between vanilla dating, sugar dating and prostitution. How malleable is the female response during sex and in a relationship more broadly? And, what is behind the bizarre behaviors from young women around sex and commitment

A woman is irritated at a man for not having a condom with him for their first sexual encounter, another isn't sure why her partner wants to see her small breasts. And, a man feels emasculated by his partner's vibrator.

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/91/sugar-daddy

https://ymmv.me/91/shirt-off

https://ymmv.me/91/condom

https://ymmv.me/91/vibrator

https://ymmv.me/91/squirt

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Was it even possible to record a piece of media this week without a single reference to the new Taylor Swift album, Midnights? We managed it, but at some point we should perhaps go through the so-called "Gaylor" theories which hold that she is now dropping major hints that she is bisexual or even gay. They're probably just living "for the hope of it all," as they say.

After establishing that we were not going to observe No Nut November, we discussed the surprising similarity between the monthly cost of a man who visits lots of escorts and men who engage just a single sugar baby.

Next, we look for a way to view 69 as a compelling sex position, followed by a discussion of multiple ejaculation, a woman who allegedly wears her boyfriend's sweaty gym clothes to masturbate, and another (presumably different) woman who's worried she's too "loose."

Also, another update on the latest sex talk on TikTok.

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/90/69

https://ymmv.me/90/condoms

https://ymmv.me/90/loose

https://ymmv.me/90/gym-clothes

https://ymmv.me/90/quad-ejac

https://ymmv.me/90/bellies

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Sex work is becoming more and more normalized within our culture. To a certain extent, that's a good thing. To yet another extent, it's a great thing. I can't count the number of times I've enjoyed a nice camshow while driving from place to place in my automobile.

Sure, at red lights someone might look over and wonder why I have an iPad Pro taped to my windshield. But they know I'm safe, since my car drives itself.

We talk about a lady who is just absolutely impressed by how much better anal sex was than she expected. I had a dream about anal sex last night, actually, but we'll save that for another time. Ditto for the porn I watched today that involved a woman having sex with a horse whose penis was so large that it went in her mouth and came out her vagina (?).

We discuss body count and why the double standard exists between men and women. And, some discussion of how women screen non-iPhone users out of the dating pool.

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/89/toy

https://ymmv.me/89/threesome

https://ymmv.me/89/anal

https://ymmv.me/89/body-count

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Is your penis long enough to visibly push out a female partner's abdominal wall during PIV sex? Mine is. And so is the one in the video we discuss today. It's impressive. In younger years, I had a friend who called this move "The Alien" -- for obvious reasons.

He had another sexual operation he called "The Cycle." That was when you and your partner had oral, anal and vaginal sex all in the same session. And, importantly, you had to repeat one of the acts, therefore requiring something to come after the anal sex. Add them together, and you arrive at the fairly famous "Cycle With Alien."

Deepfake technology is improving, and it's now fairly easy to find what appears to be porn featuring your favorite celebrity. How long until human porn stars are no longer even required? How long until you can have a computer render a porn scene to your taste on demand? It's no the Holodeck, but it's close.

And, yet another man is disappointed after an MMF threesome adventure. Will they ever learn?

To follow along with the video discussed at the beginning of the episode:

https://ymmv.me/88/big

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/88/threesome

https://ymmv.me/88/poop

https://ymmv.me/88/first-date

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It's that time of the week again, and we've found a trove of data about how much money sugar babies can expect to get out of sugar daddies for a regular "arrangement." Answer: "Not much."

I remember in my younger wealthy days a friend pointed out to me that he could "tip every cab driver $100 from now on" and never run out of money. You'd probably have to up that to $200 to account for Bidenflation, but the point remains the same.

These ladies aren't really what I'd call "well paid." Set against the minimum wage in California, which is set to rise to $22, $2000 or $3000 per month doesn't sound like a lot. I once misplaced many dozens of times that in a cupboard.

We talk about sex too. A man is confounded by a friend hiring sex workers when he wasn't ready to see said friend have an erection, much less an orgasm. Another likes to wash his penis very very quickly after sex.

We get a lot of our questions from the Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/87/subtle-hint

https://ymmv.me/87/washing

https://ymmv.me/87/squirting

https://ymmv.me/87/food-not-sex

https://ymmv.me/87/bj-aversion

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What life can an extremely attractive woman expect after she graduates from high school? We discuss whether there is some secret land where men have access to only the 10s among us. Of course, they'd be jettisoned at age 27 or thereabouts.

Eric describes a "new" technique he discovered in porn, called the "cum slap," followed by a proper discussion of some blowjob tips, with two guys who both enjoy receiving them.

And, we discuss the Slutty Confessions subreddit, which contains stories which may or may not be true, but which are always provocative.

To see the photos from Episode 85 that we discussed at the beginning of the episode:

https://ymmv.me/86/sugar-1

https://ymmv.me/86/sugar-2

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/86/magical-blow

https://ymmv.me/86/dislikes-blows

https://ymmv.me/86/wedding-creampie

https://ymmv.me/86/gloryhole

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The stunning looks of the sugar baby we discuss are only matched by how quickly she's removed from the Sugar Lifestyle Forum subreddit, suggesting either a catfishing scenario or something equally nefarious. Like most good things, profiteers are descending on the great Sugar Kingdom, decreasing the value for everyone.

Keith assumes men generally should have a kink around "breeding," since it is what their bodies are designed to do, but Mike has a different take.

And, what is the modern sensibility around pubic-hair grooming? It would appear that complete removal by a woman on or about the third date is essentially required to avoid embarrassment.

We get a lot of our questions from the Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/85/breeding

https://ymmv.me/85/grooming

https://ymmv.me/85/phone-habit

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