Who wants to be a therapist? Doug unpacks two cases and asks listeners what advice they would give. Case 1: A young wife who complains constantly. Case 2: A husband who does not contribute financially to the household. Callers weigh in and Doug shares his advice.

Listener questions and comments:

• Michael – I have a similar approach to both studies. I would start by having both take assessment inventory and see how they line up.
• Elva – I have been married for 30 years and found myself in the same spot. I was patient, prayed and communicated my concerns. Some years went by and my husband now makes as much as or more than me.
• Mary – Case 1: I am in this situation. I hang out with good friends and family members who can help, but family can make it difficult.
• John – My former spouse was an extreme perfectionist. She was unfaithful and we divorced. I couldn’t do anything to fix this.
• Sam – For case 1, write 3 things you and your spouse did well and share each day. For case 2, my husband and I have been married for 6 years, and Dave Ramsey’s advice helped us with finances.
• Alex – What are your thoughts about discerning marriage with someone who has kids?

 

Resources:

Happy Marriage for Life

https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/