This week licensed marriage and family therapist, Staci Buford, joins us to talk about what we are learning from reading Esther Perel’s book: The State of Affairs. In this episode we discuss the history of marriage and how they have shifted as society and culture has evolved and in turn, how that has affected our expectations and satisfaction in our relationships today. 

The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity

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Couch Talks is the bonus episode of You Need Therapy where Kat answers questions that listeners send to [email protected]. This week, Kat answers questions that were sent to her on Instagram!

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This week Kat has Three Cords Therapy’s newest team member, Bridget Morris Krantz on to talk about one of her areas of speciality: perinatal mental health. This episode discusses some specific mental health concerns that arise before during and after the birthing process. 

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Couch Talks is the bonus episode of You Need Therapy where Kat answers questions that listeners send to [email protected].

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Is your boss a narcissist or are they just a jerk? If you’re asking yourself this question than this week’s episode is calling your name. Honestly, these days the word narcissist is thrown around so much that it is almost losing it’s true me meaning. The good news: Kat is on a mission to help us understand what is just mean and harmful behavior and what it actually looks like to be in a relationship (specifically at work) with someone who might fit the criteria for malignant narcissism. 

disclaimer: This podcast is not a replacement for mental health services and does not have the ability to diagnose or treat any person for mental health needs. This episode specifically does not and can not serve as means to help listeners diagnose or treat others or themselves with narcissistic personality disorder or any mental illness. 

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Couch Talks is the bonus episode of You Need Therapy where Kat answers questions that listeners send to [email protected]. This week Kat talks about healing a relationship after having a rough patch!

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This week, Kat has Josie Oldham on to talk about the unique challenges of eating disorder recovery.

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Couch Talks is the bonus episode of You Need Theray where Kat answers questions that listeners send to [email protected]. This week Kat processes a listener’s email about dating for the first time after getting divorced from an emotionally toxic partner. What does it mean when we aren’t OBSESSING over someone when we aren’t with them? Do we not like them OR maybe we like them a healthy amount? Kat talks about some of the unrealistic expectations we have for our partners and ways to decipher if we want to move forward in a relationship or pump the breaks.

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This week Kat is back discussing her internal dialogue involving cults and the power of brainwashing. After watching a recent Netflix documentary about a so called "dance management TikTok cult" Kat wanted to create a conversation around how and why we label people involved in these spaces as delusional, brainwashed, and incapable of making rational decisions. The questions left for you to answer is, are those assumptions fair or true?

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Couch Talks is the bonus episode of You Need Therapy where Kat answers questions that listeners send to [email protected]. This week, Kat responds to a listener who wonders if her disordered eating behaviors should be addressed with a therapist. 

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